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Lesmaray

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Mike32ct said:
C&f is overrated and overused IMO.

Being playful in general is great.

But trying to constantly turn every conversation or texting session into some c&f routine gets old.
yeah i really can't stand all this ****y funny being a challenge stuff,i don't see the point in doing that stuff,i think you just have to be naturally funny.what really irritates me is that this stuff is like everywhere when you do a google search,they always tell you to be some bad boy or a jerk or whatever i just wanna be a nice person.I really don't like the seduction community.
 

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Mike32ct said:
C&f is overrated and overused IMO.

Being playful in general is great.

But trying to constantly turn every conversation or texting session into some c&f routine gets old.
Yep. DD helped me out in the past when I was trying to get back on track. I was faithful to it for this reason. He has some great ideas, and a good philosophy. But the constant C&F can be very annoying to women, as I have learned, and which has been confirmed on this forum :)
 

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Depends who you are naturally. If you are a bit wimpy and have a naturally boring personality, you need to be C+F. If you aren't great looking, you need to have a natural confidence.....remember, C+F is masculine behavior. This is like women saying you don't need to be girly and feminine, but we all know that makes women far hotter.

If you are good looking alpha already, you might want to lay down on C+F as chicks will think you are too full of it, but if you are an average joe but with an irrepresible personality, fun to be around and unpredictable, that puts you streets ahead of an average joe who is a nice guy.

Also, C+F stops you from ever getting in the friendzone. The casualty is that some chicks will get irritated by it, but on balance CF beats nice guy.

I am still working out when to use it, but used in bursts along with showing maturity when it counts would be the ideal scenario. You can't talk a woman into great sex by being nice IMO.
 

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most dudes overdo it and it's painfully + embarassingly easy to spot the guys using it who read about it on "game" and pua sites.
 
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