xmas breakup, sms texting

MightyMate

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Well mainly i know what to do, just not sure what i want to do. But since i didnt post here from some time lets hit advice.
Ive been with this girl since 5 months. It was like 'love on first sight' but i didnt feel the love. I mainly dont have such feelings, also i had another girl on my other hand all time - but that doesnt matter really in this story.
So since im a kind mean person and not good in showin feelings i wasnt too perfect. I was good but was rude alot and ignored her a bit etc. Shes very nice, has best heart i ever seen [but that is not sexy :/] so i hurt her many times etc.
Also she is mad jealus over mee, even if some friend says 'hi' to me she gets mad on me and makes drama. One day i really got irritated with all that, and told her to grow up and stop doin such actions and causing problems [she run out of cinema because ticket sellin girl smiled to me..]. I ant to add we are both over 25 years old, so ..
Next day she sent me sms with text like 'The worst thing is to not care. But i cant be like that. I also dont want to be the only one that cares. I love You but i cant live like that. Im sorry'. I ignored this crap and didnt reply at all for 2 days. I felt a bit bad tho, not because of 'breakup' but because she is so nice person and will be hurt now in this time of year.
Today is xmas so i wrote her wishes 'Have a nice xmas and get many presents', nothing personal mainly.
She rewrote: 'have good xmas blabla, and if one day You will stop beeing mad on me, let me know.. Regards'. [why would i be mad?]
Even tho i dont care too much of her [or i thought i didnt] i noticed that she loved me the most. All her presents for me were perfect, she was taking also all my bad habits and bad acts. And now im really not sure either what to do, how to do nor what i want.
I would like ot hear Your opinions on the situation and on her text msgs. I rather hear it from people who are experienced because im on not bad level [the spoken girl is hb8,5 and my 2nd girl is hb9,5]. Thanx in avance.
 

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HAHA!

She did the DJ move called the Takeaway on you. Before you didn't really want her, and now are wondering if you are willing to over look her Hell-inducing drama because she loves you the best.

The answer is to let her go.

Remember, she took a hissy-fit because a movie ticket teller SMILED AT YOU.

That is controlling behaviour. That is horsesh1t.
 

Obsidian

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she sounds like a quality girl except for her excess jealousy, which I imagine you can probably handle in some way. But if you're not into her, then I guess there's just no point.

give me her # ;)
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Cut her a$$ off until she learns to listen. Keep that b!tch front with her d!ck addiction. Maybe, she needs d!ck restriction!?

Anyways, whats the problem here? You weren't showing your feelings towards her and being mean to her. Well, after awhile I'm sure she will get hurt and confused. Looks like she cut you off but, left the door open incase you change your ways. Do you feel guilty about this?
 

MightyMate

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OneEyedJack said:
HAHA!

She did the DJ move called the Takeaway on you. Before you didn't really want her, and now are wondering if you are willing to over look her Hell-inducing drama because she loves you the best.
Yeah thats also my thoughts. And o the second guy - she is money but maybe not for me - i dont share # tho haha.
Good answers all, thanx!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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