X gf

[addidasss]

I have a question. I'm now over w/ the girl i broke up with almost one year. then now we're still friends when we do things in group of our other friends. Like thanxgiving party, christmas, we have 20 to 30 people including her.

When i see her, she still turns me on. I know the bible says to never go back to your x. I don't anymore, but i still want to have sex with her.

Has anyone try flirting with his x. or even kino? she doesn't seem to mind me talking to her. So there're time that kino can casually occur if i let it.

Has anyone did flirting and teasing and kinoing his X, and get a sex with her after the party?

Thanks for sharing.

 

[So pimp its scary]

I made that mistake already... I didn't cut an ex clean the first time, and here I sit 2 years later, and the girl still tries to get me back. I've had to dump this girl 4 consecutive times seeing her because she seems to think we're still in a relationship.

 

[Damian]

Use the common attraction tactics. Negs and routines if you have em, but don't do any offers or phase-changes. Let the woman do the work. As you probably already know, going back to an ex is a needy and desperate tactic that is sure to lower your social value. Just remember to use some freeze-out tactics to gauge her response and interest levels.

My personal recommendation is to get over this girl and go find somebody else who really appreciates you. She messed up once, so it's just going to happen again. Plus, there's always more sex out there.

-Damian

 

[addidasss]

i don't want to get back with her. i just want to for fun sx. i had the best sex with this girl than anyone else. i must admit i haven't found her match yet when it comes to this department.

what's phase chang or freeze out tactics? how do you do it?

Thanks

 

[addidasss]

can some expert there read my post and give me some clues

 

[Guitarist26]

Well, my friend, I'm a music lover, and I will let the band Reel Big Fish take this one:

You say you love me
Love me again
But if you loved me,
Where have you been?

Thats it. Live by it.

 

[backbreaker]

the key is, do you have contorl over your emotions.

Most guys don't. And if you don't, you don't need to rekindle the ex.

I have no problem ****ing my ex's, because I broke up with them for a reason, and the few that left me, **** em'.

Just because we broke up doesn't mean the sex wasn't good.

 

[addidasss]

what is the way to say it though? on new year eve she join us, our group of friends, to celebrate at a restauraunt.

After i finished eating, i went to her chair and asked her to dance.

me: lets go dance

her: no thanks.

then i pulled the empty chair next to her and sat right next to her facing her.

me: so why don't you danced with me? (i was smiling and looking straight in the eye. normally she would dance with me)

her: i don't want to
i said: looks like someone is stuck up (i smiled at her)
her: it's because you don't respect me
me : i was just asking you to dance
her: you didn't ask me 'would you like to dance.' you just go 'lets go dance'

me: so how should i ask you?
her: you should show me respect. at last ask me if i would like to dance

me: would you like to dance

her: okay i dance with you one song

then we went up dance the next song. then another, then another. we started slow then she was in to it and was dancing in a very much happier mood throuth the second and third song

I kind of felt attraction again but some reason the music and party ended soon and we went our friend's house. she then had to leave earlier than everyone else because she work early. I stayed at the friend's house late with everyone else because we have our days off.


what is the best way to ask her to be alone with her again. last time i asked her she didn't go.

this time i thought dancing may turn her on and little kino on the dance floor will help spark the attraction again.

thank you for any further sharing of your experience and tips.

 

[backbreaker]

you are expericing oneitis. You are remembering all the great things about your GF while forgetting why you are not with her now.

Take two steps back, becuase you are thinking witht he little head instead of the big head.

Date other women.