backbreaker
Master Don Juan
I'm sitting here at home, not really doing antyhing for new years this year besides kill a bottle of champange, don't feel like going out. but we had company earlier and of course the girls are dressed to the 9 becuase all the men will be out tonight, including men who normally don't go out. it's prospect hunting season lol.
The club gets a bad rep. it really does. The problem is not the club, ti's peoples expectations of what to expect. I'm not saying you can't find a woman in the club, I know rollo found his wife in a club, but you are going to be disappointed if you go to the club expecting to find long lasting companionship
It's not, because every woman in the club is a skank with no life. It's because in a club environment you are forced to make decisions, much quicker than you would in normal everyday life when it comes to picking and more times than not, you are going to chose wrong.
Because the time frame is reduced.. you are reduced to making decisions like "hot in skirt or big titties" , "blond or red head". She is no better. She's forced to make decisions like 'black or white" or "tall or short" or "muscles and ugly face or cute wiht no muscles". Who is to say if you met the saame woman outside of the club she wouldn't be into you. She's not so much rejecting you as she is saying based on my split second decisions i have to make i feel this is the better option for me. you are doing the exact same thing. There are girls that I dated that i wouldn't have looked twice at outside the club. A few in particular, one who while she wasn't ugly, wasn't just a knockout either but i absolutely loved her energy and her spukiness and gave her a shot. wouldn't have had a shot in hell with me inside the club regardless of how hard she tried.
It's not an environment where relationship bounding is conducive. You are being forced to guess everything about a person off a snap shot.
The club should be for purely entrainment purposes only. go to the club, feel up on some chicks, if it's a really good night get a ONS, but that's about it, and it should NEVER be the CORE of how you attempt to meet women. that should be everyday life. . you are an idiot if you are expecting to get anything long term out of clubbing.
The club gets a bad rep. it really does. The problem is not the club, ti's peoples expectations of what to expect. I'm not saying you can't find a woman in the club, I know rollo found his wife in a club, but you are going to be disappointed if you go to the club expecting to find long lasting companionship
It's not, because every woman in the club is a skank with no life. It's because in a club environment you are forced to make decisions, much quicker than you would in normal everyday life when it comes to picking and more times than not, you are going to chose wrong.
Because the time frame is reduced.. you are reduced to making decisions like "hot in skirt or big titties" , "blond or red head". She is no better. She's forced to make decisions like 'black or white" or "tall or short" or "muscles and ugly face or cute wiht no muscles". Who is to say if you met the saame woman outside of the club she wouldn't be into you. She's not so much rejecting you as she is saying based on my split second decisions i have to make i feel this is the better option for me. you are doing the exact same thing. There are girls that I dated that i wouldn't have looked twice at outside the club. A few in particular, one who while she wasn't ugly, wasn't just a knockout either but i absolutely loved her energy and her spukiness and gave her a shot. wouldn't have had a shot in hell with me inside the club regardless of how hard she tried.
It's not an environment where relationship bounding is conducive. You are being forced to guess everything about a person off a snap shot.
The club should be for purely entrainment purposes only. go to the club, feel up on some chicks, if it's a really good night get a ONS, but that's about it, and it should NEVER be the CORE of how you attempt to meet women. that should be everyday life. . you are an idiot if you are expecting to get anything long term out of clubbing.
