WTF, this doesn't make sense

[Pimp-sicle]

Alright I need a little advice for a change.

I fuvked this chick who I've been good good friend with about a month ago. She use to like me about a year ago, but nothing ever happened. My exgf and her were pretty close friends at one point but their friendship went downhill, but me and her still stayed close throughout it all. So about a month ago I invite her over and I'm fukin' drunk!!!!! I joke about making out and she laughs it off. I then tell her I'm serious and we go at it and then I tell her I want to fuvk her and she looks at me funny but then easily get's buck naked on my bed. I do my thang and walk her out.

Ever since then she's been weird towards me. She use to call me everyday, but now she doesn't call me, if she does she'll send me a text message about something. She was trying to round up some people to go out tonite, she invited my buddy who is also friends with her and didn't even call me??? Last night I went out with some friends and I texted her to go and she said she was down. Then when the time came she never called, never showed.

So WTF is going on?? I can't figure out if she:

-feels used, like a rebound to my ex
-feels like I forced her to sleep with me
-feels like maybe I like her


I dunno, I know she told a few of her friends that we slept together and they asked me about it and I told them yeah it happened. I also told them I don't know why she's being a bit distant now and that I'd date her if she was interested, but I'm more concerned about our friendship, which is the truth. She's a great girl, I just don't know why she's being all weird now, and avoiding me.


I really don't have any feelings for her, and I was stoked because I thought we could be fuvk buddy's but I guess that didn't fly. Anyone have any idea what might be going through her head???



PIMP

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Simple, you went from being her friend to being her pimp!!!!

Obviously her thinking of you will never be the same!!!!

Before the "deed" she saw you as a "mouth" that used to talk to her - after "the act" she sees you as a "penis" that is ramming her like a hor and giving her her just due!!!

You went from being a mouth to being a penis, from her perspective of course!!!

 

[Pimp-sicle]

PRL: TRUE!! She's just a really cool chick and I don't want to lose my friendship with her. I texted telling her that I sensed she felt akward about the whole thing and she said "yeah I did." But also reassured me that we are still good friends and we would stil hang out all the time...LOL

Anyways that still doesn't answer my question really. Do you see this 'friendship" damaged now? I've done my part and tried to make it seem fine, but she's not really seeing it that way.

Any ideas to salvage the friendship somehow?


PIMP

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Once each party (man/woman) have seen each other naked then there is nothing else to discover about each other - you have reached the unsurpassable boundary!!! You will never see each other the same way as you did before you (the man) DOMINATED HER - this domination put you away from the friend zone - in the friend zone you were both equal but now through sex "you" have become THE DOMONITATOR and "she" THE DOMONATED!!!

The seal has been broken and forever torn!!!

 

[PimpNHard]

Ease off a lil bit - like you don't care either.... and see what she does. You never really know what the issue could be. Maybe its a friend, maybe it was the sex - whatever the cause for her actions... you banged it! What else is there left to do really? Like I said, ease off and she'll probably come around. Then you can see if she's up for another round....

 

[JohnJones]

She feels slvtty (whether she covers over that by blaming you is different) and the fact that you're a pal makes it worse. It just needs to blow over a little.

 

[DJDamage]

Friends don't sleep with friends! it will never be the same between you two. Once it goes pass the physical barrier, the relationship forever changes.

If she is a sweet girl she probably feels like a tramp because you have gained the upper hand in this situation. You fvcked her without the premise of an actual relationship and she feels cheap and used.

I wouldn't be surprised if she is distant because she wants to be in a relationship with you and she doesn't want you to hit that pvssy for free.

Or she could be have other issues or problems we don't know yet but eventually it will rear its ugly head sooner rather then later.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Yeah its really strange because she's saying everything is chill but OBIVIOUSLY its not!! I have to admit I was drunk and persistant when I was asking her to make out with me, but more in a funny sarcastic way. She's a really sweet girl, but she's definitely opened up over the past year. She use to jock me really bad!!!! She'd drive down to my place (25 minutes away back then) pick me up, take me to lunch, pay and then drop me off!! LOL Then we became close because I wasn't that attracted to her and she wasn't a challenge AT ALL!! Then she broke up with her LTR and I was her crutch, telling her to go out, hook up and have fun. And boy did she ever!! She got huge fake titties, and start w-horing around. Let's see, she slept with 5 guys in the past year not including me!! Of course none of those guys were her good friends. Just guys she'd meet or new through other people. However I knew she still wanted me even when I got together with my ex because she'd always take me to lunch, buy me alcohol etc. I even slept with her in her bed one night after partying together.


She's admitted on numerous occassions that she finds me extremely attractive, says I have a nice body etc blah blah blah.
And to be honest there have only been a couple times I've thought about dating her, but those were usually times when I didn't really have any other prospects and then when I was going through bullshyt with my ex.


Its kinda a strange situation because I don't want to date her because she's a REALLY REALLY close friend (at least she was..LOL) and I'm just not THAT into her. But on the other hand I know we would have an awesome relationship if I did date her, she's totally down to fuvk like rabbits and she's a fun girl to be around. I have no trust issues with her, we communicate very well and I think it would be a very long lasting relationship. But to be honest I just want things to be normal, guess we'll wait and see.

Anyone have any ideas on how I could find out if she's jocking me again or if she just feels slvtty??



PIMP