WTF, stumped on text $hit test

[MtnMan]

Quick background, girl on match hits me up, seems cool, she wants to text some before meetup. I get caught in a day of mild text hell, but she sends me some cute pics and is decent to converse with.

Me: "lets get together this week"
her"whys that"
me" whys what?"
her "why should we get together?"

this is obviously a **** test, and I assume this isn't going anywhere, but for experiments sake I want to reply with something, I just have no idea what?

Ideas?

 

[Scormus]

Next

Classic low interest level and disrespect. Next.

 

[MtnMan]

i assume the next, however here is a chance to play with the **** test. Don't you ever get curious on things like this?

I suppose the zero response is the only way to 'win' this one for sure.

 

[nismo-4]

Uninterested internet attention wh0re. Next her.

She wouldn't text like this to Brad Pitt.

Case closed.

 

[wishyo]

Yea, case closed probably.
I would still go for something "you tell me."

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Fairly obvious sh!t test.

You needed to come back with a powerful, novel yet slightly allusive suggestion almost immediately. 'Meet me at x-venue at x-time and you'll find out' would have been my tack.

Would agree with the other guys about the attention-seeking (sending you photos of herself for validation).

Pretty obvious that she'd f*ck you eventually, but there would probably be a lot of hoop-jumping. Which aint really my style personally.

 

[MtnMan]

so I decided to troll this girl for research purposes after this BS convo. I know a lot of you guys would say I'm wasting time, but I'm not doing this with the intensions of ever seeing the girl, just trying to get some text game experience since I always BLOW IT over text.

here is what has gone down:
me - "unsubscribe"
her "what"
"slap*"
"****ycocky"
me: "slap?, steller some of my favorite dates included a slap at some point"
her: "haha I want no trouble"
"in fact im looking for the opposite. I can find trouble on my own without the internet."
me: "k"
her: "guess youre just the trouble"
me: "its a healthy mix"
her: "what are you doing today?"

WTF???? It appears I stunned the hamster back like a shotgun blast to a zombie, but like a zombie getting back up, now the hamster is right back trying to rope me into text hell.

Trying to get a handle on text game is hard, but I got to get better at it. I def have blown myself out on several occasions with horrid text game.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

her: "what are you doing today?"

You: Not seeing you, apparently....

That was a bit of a defensive reaction on her part. Seems like she could be hard work long term. But this update doesn't seem like particularly weak text game on your part. Just need to find a chick who can keep up!

 

[MtnMan]

im actually somewhat pleased with this exchange because I think I mustered up some semblance of text game. Again, my goal here is no longer to see this girl, but to practice texting.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

im actually somewhat pleased with this exchange because I think I mustered up some semblance of text game. Again, my goal here is no longer to see this girl, but to practice texting.

I had a very similar convo with a chick from OCK a few months back which ended up serving a similar purpose. For me it was also remembering what I definitely wasn't looking for (another insecure head-case basically!) while I was still getting my mojo back.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Have had a few that I've just messaged back and forth with actually. Most are amiable. There are the odd one or two though who game will just not work on, I am almost certain of that now. Absolutely no banter whatsoever!

 

[MtnMan]

silly woman hamster, I never responded to the "what are you doing today" text and I get another that says:

"what is the craziest thing (or one of the craziest things) you have ever done?"

 

[JayK238]

wait so have you met this girl yet? Is this still working out?

If so, I would stop texting- I've learned it rarely gets anything done. I mean, what is really the point of texting? It doesnt do anything. Id text if I was bored, and had already hooked up with her. like you have nothing to do, its night, you cant hook up with her and you're horny and u text her cuz shes on youre mind instead of porn.

I dunno- next time find out when you're free having nothing to do ask her where she is and if she is somewhere near then ask her to meet you at xyz. if she cant then see if she makes herself available for another date. and meet her then. thats all it should be about.

i tried following your texts but i had a hard time- i just dont know if any of that adds value to the two of you- ive noticed, the hard way, girls like to text because its their game. they feel in control like they know you're into them because you're texting them and they don't have to do anything but text. it adds zero value and zero stress to them- they have no emotional connection to you but feel like they know (even if wrongly) you are into them. its just a waste of time (tl;dr version)

 

[MtnMan]

i agree, this adds no value. No I have not met this girl, I'm more practicing texting with her. I have been dating girls in their mid 20's and they ll seem to respond better to text vs call.

Usually i just try to be logical and set up meet ups, but sometimes they make you spit some text game. This where I almost always fail. It could be argued that I would fail either way because interest is low. But I am choosing to try and improve this skill so i can use it if need be. Maybe its just a waste of time, but it would be nice to get some bangs that I would otherwise miss.

 

[3agle 3yes]

What's with the habit in this forum of "nexting" every girl who isn't "begging" to meet you?

I find it stupid.

I've banged tons of girls who showed more "lower interest" than this.

Handling sh!t tests are actually quite easy.

 

[JayK238]

i agree, this adds no value. No I have not met this girl, I'm more practicing texting with her. I have been dating girls in their mid 20's and they ll seem to respond better to text vs call.

Usually i just try to be logical and set up meet ups, but sometimes they make you spit some text game. This where I almost always fail. It could be argued that I would fail either way because interest is low. But I am choosing to try and improve this skill so i can use it if need be. Maybe its just a waste of time, but it would be nice to get some bangs that I would otherwise miss.

No i mean its a super waste. lol. I would stop altogether. text only after the first meet when u kiss....otherwise its a stopgap that lets her feel in control and u like u neeed her. you dont need her.

Id just give it up entirely- but if you must know that it wont lead to anywhere and text her because you're bored. If you can get her to say kinky stuff then thats cool (thats a skill I dont have yet - i mean i do it but only after i had sex not before- its just- too strong for me)

 

[TARKUS]

What's with the habit in this forum of "nexting" every girl who isn't "begging" to meet you?

I find it stupid.

I've banged tons of girls who showed more "lower interest" than this.

Handling sh!t tests are actually quite easy.

Are those girls the "beta girls" you said you "punished"?

 

[JayK238]

What's with the habit in this forum of "nexting" every girl who isn't "begging" to meet you?

I find it stupid.

I've banged tons of girls who showed more "lower interest" than this.

Handling sh!t tests are actually quite easy.

who is this referencing to? I'll jump in and add my two cents. I think nexting is perfectly fine so as long as you keep it open ended. if she acts like shes not interested its best to keep it moving. and if she is interested SHE WILL make it known.

 

[3agle 3yes]

Are those girls the "beta girls" you said you "punished"?

It seems like I have a fan or are you a forum stalker?

 

[usernamedox11]

If a girl did that to me, it means low interest and would automatically delete her number. Even if you get her to have sex with you, I guarantee 9 times out of 10 it would suck.