Yea this seems to be the sensible course of action! I just hope none of Clares friends saw me last night.... I asked my ex what she thought and she says without thinking "Dump Clare, Jen's better looking". And I thought us guys were meant to be the shallow onesOriginally posted by Oscar Wilde
Damn man, life is not a spectator sport. Keep some contact w/ Jen - see what she's like- she might be really cool, or a complete idiot - so set up an "as friends" date or something, but find out!
You and Claire should still be in an "exploratory" phase of your relationship - you can still back out you know -you're not married. Quit with the guilt feeling (I hate this, always get it day after drinking).
Do not dump Claire for Jen w/o knowing exactly what Jens personality is like w/o drink.
Hey, if your ex is so cool to hang with, ask her opinion.
Osc.
Glad I gave you guys a laugh. Man I feel rough now...