WTF??? Kissing A Chic U Just Met in The Club???

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I see. Interesting test, go for the fun chicks. Oh yea I already do. :) It's just never been something I've worried about. Come to think of it, I do get sick a lot.... :D

BTW.. bugsquid? Are you dyslexic?
 

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I used to kiss chics I just met at the club like Starman, but, you never know who's d*ck she was sucking on in the alley before she started kissing you.

Also, its kinda nasty when you see the same chic that you kissed, kissing 3 other guys after you. You gotta question the punani of a woman that is willing to kiss you the first time she see's you at a club.

I revert to number closing only at clubs. If you kiss close, and other females around you are looking. Then, your chances with them are next to none versus just getting the woman's number.

But, if you're looking to get into a one night stand or an FB for the short term, I'd go for the kiss close at the club - Make sure you take some Listerine to the club with you to kill some of that yuck mouth. :p
 

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weirdest thing happened a couple nights ago... i see this girl sittin down lookin bored near the dancefloor. i go up to her and ask her why she aint dancin... she gives me some quick answer and immediately starts making out with me. haha. 1 question. no names. she had to go so i number closed her. she was HB7 so i might ask her out next week.
 

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Something similar happened to me knicknack the first weekend after i found this site. She came back for a ONS and you' can be damn sure I wore a condom.
 

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Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-
you see the same chic that you kissed, kissing 3 other guys after you....

If you kiss close, and other females around you are looking. Then, your chances with them are next to none...
are all your arguments full of contradictions?
 

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Can someone explain how the hook-up works? Let's say you do kiss a girl and you do get her to agree to go somewhere with you. Usually, you both came with friends so how do you leave the club? Call a taxi?
 

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Originally posted by intel200
The vegetarian lifestyle will help your body fight off those germs. I havent been sick in soooo long. I am considering this club kiss more now...
It's not that meat causes you get cold.
The thing is that vegetarians get far more vitamines and that sort of stuff, when many people who eat meat lack eating enough veggies.


Jake Steed, I'm glad you are still on the boards.
I will try that next time.

Awww.. I wish there would be bigger clubs around here in a little town I live.

Gee, I don't even remember when I didn't kiss a random HB when I was in a club. It's feels so natural. Go for it man!

-HPNOTIQ-, ummm... Listerine???


BTW. Any lip gloss haters here?
I am one. It's sticky shyt and makes your face shine like a disco ball...


dave134, depends on situation. All the clubs here are by a little walk from my place...
How would you normally go to home?
I'm sure that your friends let a chick who's with you come along.
 

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Originally posted by dave134
Can someone explain how the hook-up works? Let's say you do kiss a girl and you do get her to agree to go somewhere with you. Usually, you both came with friends so how do you leave the club? Call a taxi?
I like going to clubs alone, make friends there. If she is with people there may be a problem becuase depending on their relationship with them she may not be able to leave with you. Usually you'll figure out what the situation is pretty quick.

Examples:

she says -

Do you want to follow me home? or
Would you walk me to my car?
Do you have a place?

You may get all the way to your place and she still not know if you are alone or not, and she is happy when she finds out you are.
 

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@dave134- Dude u are in my area, what clubs do you frequent????


I have yet to have a one night stand of the in person meeting. Now, a phone chat line one night stand is easy to be had. But then, Im not a DJ YET...But I will be certified in a years time...

This club kiss is freaking me out though....as you guessed, recovering ACF.....
 

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Originally posted by Knicknack
are all your arguments full of contradictions?
Knicknack...I fail to see the contradiction. Enlighten me. I don't kiss girls in dance clubs anymore.

Reason #1:
I used to be a night club disc jockey, and when my set was done, I'd go dance. I'd kiss a chic I just met on the dance floor. I'd get the number, then leave. 30 minutes later, I'd see the same chic kissing some other guy. Makes you wonder how "clean" she maybe.

Reason #2:
When I used to kiss women on the dancefloor or on the stage, people notice you. When that woman you kissed has left, yet the night is young, you might want to PU other women. If, those other women saw you kissing some chic on stage, and now are asking for their number or a dance - this most definately turn them off.

I re-read my original post - nope, no contradictions - I suggest you re-read it too. And if you quote, make sure you're quoting in proper context. :cool:

Hot Ice -

Listerine is an anticeptic/bacteriacidal mouth rinse sold here in the US.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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Originally posted by tx_xp
I like going to clubs alone, make friends there. If she is with people there may be a problem becuase depending on their relationship with them she may not be able to leave with you. Usually you'll figure out what the situation is pretty quick.
This is why you should have some wingmen.
It almost drived me mad when I was at a club on wednesday and I didn't have really good friends there. I mean those who will go with you to the dance floor and break those groups (2+) of hotties who are dancing with their friends. Damn they are like lesbians if you are there alone. Of course there is a chance to dance with both of them and one of a hundred to get them both to even threesome, but neither of them ain't going with you if you are alone and leave her friend there.
 

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Originally posted by -HPNOTIQ-
Knicknack...I fail to see the contradiction. Enlighten me. I don't kiss girls in dance clubs anymore.

Reason #1:
I used to be a night club disc jockey, and when my set was done, I'd go dance. I'd kiss one chic I just met on the dance floor. I'd get the number, then leave. 30 minutes later, I'd see the same chic kissing some other guy. Makes you wonder how "clean" she maybe.

Reason #2:
When I used to kiss woman on the dancefloor or on the stage, people notice you. When that woman you kissed has left, yet the night is young, you might want to PU other women. If, those other women saw you kissing some chic on stage, and now are asking for their number or a dance - this most definately turn them off.

I re-read my original post - nope, no contradictions - I suggest you re-read it too :cool:

Hot Ice -

Listerine is an anticeptic/bacteriacidal mouth rinse sold here in the US.
I agree with what you are saying...It depends a lot on what your goals are for the night and other factors. I don't think it is a good idea to go around trying to kiss people at the club but if you are looking for a ONS it is perfect.

Also...depending on how freaky the club is kissing someone may have a positive effect on the other chicks. You have to know your clubs but the way I dress I may not look very wild. They see me maybe as a pretty boy, but then kissing some chick with passion is a turn on for other women. Same night different club may do the opposite...you need to play the game and learn what works for you in what envirement and you need to be able to adapt to where you are.....
 

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Originally posted by intel200
@dave134- Dude u are in my area, what clubs do you frequent????


I have yet to have a one night stand of the in person meeting. Now, a phone chat line one night stand is easy to be had. But then, Im not a DJ YET...But I will be certified in a years time...

This club kiss is freaking me out though....as you guessed, recovering ACF.....
I hit up Dream, Platinum, VIP, and Insomnia and 1223 on occassion. Going to Dream on Saturday...

I'm in the same boat as you...RAFC, I get better at clubbing every time I go out, though, and I'm ready to go for the kiss next time I get rapport with a girl.
 
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I see this thread is getting all twisted...from one guy afraid to kiss cause of germs....oh make sure you dude's wash your hands after you wizz in the bathrooms and don't put your hands on the door handles when you leave (germs) or shake anyones hands or infact wear a rubber suit to the clubs so you can avoid germ infections....

Now here is what you want to do:

1. go for the intelligent women that you have to seduce, not the barfly broad who is there every weekend and leaves with someone else.
2. go for the leader of the pack...yeah the ****blocking ones who pull their girls away from you when you try to step up behind them and hit that azz.
3. Why? cause these girls are intelligent. And are the leaders of the pack...they are the top dogg of their group...they make the decisions...they don't care what their pe'on's below them think. Infact they admire it when the other girls say "I wish I could be daring and bold like you" and they will try harder to live up to that rep.

Here is something from a man named Aurtur Gordon who has a website for dating on the web:

The Three Types of Women: The Ho, The Freak and the Good Girl



"Once you have the ability to discern what a woman's true personal core consists
of, you know on what basis to interact with her. This is the root to handling a woman to
your satisfaction - knowing her basic type before you get involved. If you don't realize
her true type, you automatically are at a disadvantage in your involvement with her - you are off-base and unable to properly evaluate her actions according to her true type.

Here is an example of why this is so fundamentally important. If you are
involved with a woman who has a penchant for being flirtatious with other men there are completely different reasons for her being that way, depending on her basic type. If she is a Ho, she's being flirtatious with the idea of making some money in mind. If she's a Freak, it's because she desires to "play," or to reassure herself as to her desirability. If she's a Good Girl, she could be attempting to arouse in you feelings of jealousy, which will reassure her that you care for her. If you show jealousy to a Good Girl, she feels more yours, more secure in your relationship. If you show jealousy to a freak, it shows her that she has you under control, and weakens your control over her.

And if you are the one being flirted with, not being able to discern the type of
woman flirting with you could have negative ramifications. If you read into a Good Girl's
flirtation that you can "get something done" with her, if you mistake her for a Freak and think she actually, if persuaded properly, will have
sex with you, you will be badly disappointed when she draws a line she will not
cross with you as far as intimacy goes. If you react to a Freak's flirtations thinking she is a Good Girl, you will be considered "too serious" for her, or not sexually adventurous enough and she is turned off. And if you don't realize a Ho is a Ho, and her flirtations with you are to get you to spend your money, and not because of you per se, you run the risk of getting your feelings hurt-along with your wallet."

So, you can see the importance of being correct with your observations. Your
proper diagnosis of a girl's true basic type could prove as beneficial to your mental health as a doctor's proper diagnosis to your physical well-being.
Properly determining a girl's basic type is possible by thorough knowledge of
each type's main characteristics, and mentally evaluating a woman much the same way as a baseball scout would evaluate a prospect for the team; close observation of not only
major or overt actions but also small details, habits, idiosyncrasies and mindset exhibited.
Through continued practice and experience, you will be able to "scout out" good, hot
prospects for your team."

************

It's hard to leave a point not at least detailed enough that it makes
some type of mutha ****in sense
Some of
this stuff is like the Mercedes-Benz safety innovations - too important to keep under
patent. Such a simple clarification in your mind as to what type of girl you are dealing
with - Ho, Freak or Good Girl - makes all the difference in the world sometimes between
great success or abject failure. Not distinguishing this is the number one cause of mutha ****a’s
getting the "you're too nice for me"

Which TYPE of Biatch are you ****ing with?

************

When you look to get married, you are not going to retire from the battle of the
sexes; you are going to select your lifelong opponent!
Woe to the man who loses control of the woman after married. To those who
are reading this and have already felt the pain of the legal dissolution of an emotional
commitment -divorce- you have my heartfelt sympathy, but too bad ya shoulda known.

They weren't inadequate - they were just simply dealing with a Freak or a Ho
instead of a Good Girl! And some *****es will hide the type they know they are on purpose!
Learn the details of the Three Basic Types, and make sure You are not
the one played for a foo…!

Let's detail the Three Basic Types of Women.

It is absolutely necessary to know the type of a woman - Ho, Freak, or Good
Girl - you are targeting for your pimping attention.

No woman is 100 % of any one type - for example, you can catch a Good Girl's
attention with a display of wealth (that’s your clout), but her bottom line is that she's at least going to have to feel she can grow to love you over time, because a Good Girl will not marry you just for your money. But a Good Girl is the type that will marry you even if you don't have anything but love for her. This is the type of girl that gives a man inspiration to achieve in life; she makes it worth going out into the world for, and enjoyable to come home to.

If a man mistakes her for a Freak, whose bottom line is the new and exciting,
usually sexual experience; the type to whom the worst fate imaginable is to be bored - if
he misplays the Good Girl because he's been told that all women are the same, or, worse, he hasn't been told that they are NOT all the same and in exactly what way are they different - and just focuses on her sexually, then eventually his money is not going to be enough to keep her; finding love is a Good Girl's bottom line.

A Ho may marry a man for his money (a lot of Hoes have only one client - their
husband!) and even if he is old and frail and unable to perform sexually, she will not
jeopardize her position for mere sexual satisfaction by cheating on him; the Ho's bottom
line is wealth and/or status. A lot of cheerleaders in high school are hoes-in-training,
selling out to the top athlete in order to gain the currency of popularity.
And of course we here on the pn know about the common ordinary street ho and her motivations.
A freak is where we want to put our aspiring pimpin attention to!
A Freak may be attracted to a wealthy man, or a man who shows a lot of clout and even if he is, Bling Bling, and she is married to him, she still would risk getting
divorced because of the excitement of having sex with the bodyguard under a boardwalk
pier. To a Freak, the new and exciting, usually sexual, is her bottom line. That's why
boredom is so intolerable to this type girl, and she will risk danger to experience the
taboo or forbidden simply because to her it's exciting, and "something to do".
But even Freaks have a sense of convention and a female desire for security -
remember, no ***** is 100 % of any type - it is the bottom-line choices that she makes that shows her true type.


"About the age of twenty-five or so, a Freak will start to look for someone to
settle down with. She almost always desires a "symp" (a male who allows the woman to
be dominant mentally), not a man, because a symp will allow her to continue her freak
way of constantly seeking male attention. This explains why you see beautiful girls
 
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married to average-looking guys - she can easily control him - she can easily control him, and therefore the relationship, by making him feel his ass
is "lucky" to have her because other beauty. She may not necessarily have sex with
another man after she's married, but neither she nor that po..fool, can ever be truly sure
she won't. This is the type that is susceptible to the office or work affair. Over a period of time the nature of the Freak and her actions have a corrosive effect on the male's ego. If you do divorce the biatch, your prenuptial may keep your wallet intact, but it does nothing for the damage to your ego and pride. If you have money and are going to allow a woman to marry you for it, better a Ho than a Freak. Both choices, however, are bad.

"But, lots of times guys are willing to sacrifice their pride and control over the
woman they **** with in order to obtain one that is extremely beautiful and attractive. Not us mutha ****a’s of course!
This is a personal decision a male must make for himself. A Freak is capable of
innocently, by her nature, conducting herself with other men in a way that is
borderline "come-on". In other words, she is capable of giving off the impression to other
men that, although she is with you, she is still available sexually to them if the right
buttons are pushed. Again, she may not actually be available, but her nature requires her to give that impression in order to receive the level of male attention she needs to verify her desirability.

"Freaks are sometimes able to learn Ho behavior, but it is against basic type and
usually results in psychological conflict. Eventually she may cease from actually giving
access to her sex for money, but is comfortable with such things as posing naked for
photography, or doing strip routines in nightclubs, things that are sexually provocative
but do not require her to actually have impersonal sex for money. Girls who are
"****teasers" are Freaks. She might "give it up", she might not. How much do you want
her and what are you willing to do for it to reaffirm her desirability is her criteria for
deciding.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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"That attitude is at the crux of the Freak's nature - her need for personal
recognition and a constant reaffirmation other femininity.
When you attempt to get more than what a Freak gives sexually, by trying to turn the
relationship into a deep emotional commitment, not only will you be unsuccessful, but
also you will spoil the sex you're getting, because it will be time for her to move on and
find someone else to "fall in love" with. Or worse, she will allow you to get deeply
emotionally involved so that she can enjoy the thrill of going through the wedding
process, itself something new and exciting "to do". Unfortunately, lots of times when this
particular new thrill wears off, so does the marriage."

One of the main sources of frustration men have with women is one they create
for themselves by treating a woman against type. If, early in the interaction, you treat a
Freak as a Good Girl, a woman who wants love and loyalty, that's when you get the
brush-off as "a nice guy" or "too serious" or "I just want to be friends". It wasn't that you
were too nice, it was that you were too nice with the wrong type girl! Your approach
would have worked perfectly with a Good Girl, who herself wanted a nice guy who was
serious.

Beware of any advice that does not specifically address the basic types of
women in how you approach them. Not all women are the same, so all techniques do not
work the same on all women! Unless the technique and strategy you are being told about is specifically directed toward one of the three types of women, how can it be guaranteed to be effective?

It's amazing how easily handling women becomes if you know her true basic
type. Like sports, a solid grounding in the fundamentals will get you results if you learn
the right techniques to make you effective. This is why we here at this place... gotta get our skilz together and learn all that we can about handling biatches and reversing the game
 
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Uhh in re-reading over the above post I noticed that I added my own thoughts to Aurturs message targeted at a different market...He is not into pimping or anything like that...
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
..from one guy afraid to kiss cause of germs....oh make sure you dude's wash your hands after you wizz in the bathrooms and don't put your hands on the door handles when you leave (germs) or shake anyones hands or infact wear a rubber suit to the clubs so you can avoid germ infections....
It's apparent this quote was directed at me. I'm just going to reply to this quote because I didn't bother to read the rest of your 300 page "Manifesto".

Look bro, I'm a dental professional. I've seen oral herpes, I've worked with patients who have HIV, I've seen green pus come out of people's gums. Go ahead and kiss close some strange chic you just met at the club - means more money for me, more money for your physician, and more money for the laboratory who has to biopsy a slice of your cheek for infectious disease.

DJing is about control. And if you don't have the control to stop a kiss close on some strange woman drunk enough to kiss a man she just met for 3 minutes at a bar/club, then, more power to you.

http://hometown.aol.com/turnstylz/SOUNDESSENTIALS/asainjection.jpg

Did you think I was lying about being a dental professional?

BTW Player_Supreme...you weren't one of my patients last week complaining about the red and green sores on your tongue and throat were you?:rolleyes:
 
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It's apparent this quote was directed at me. I'm just going to reply to this quote because I didn't bother to read the rest of your 300 page "Manifesto".


HypnotQ I promise you this post was not directed at you. I guess you've been gone for afew days! I'm sorry I didn't read your posts above, I just wanted to get this out real quick...

the person I read that from I will leave nameless after 2 days of stupidity....

Are we cool now?
 

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listen, getting germs is a big thing, but how the hell would u know if she has HIV?

atfer reading some **** on this site im not even that sure about her sucking my **** without a rubber. I know i dont wanna go lick it the first date and get sick.

What tips do u guys have for 1 night stands and short term ****buddies relationships? I just enrolled in college and have about 5 girls i can call up, but how much **** can i end up in bothers me
 
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