WTF??? Kissing A Chic U Just Met in The Club???

[intel200]

Even for a DJ....even if she is bumping you and grinding you all over the floor in the club....even if she lets your little hand roam all over her lovely body.....I STILL think going in for a kiss is taking it over board. However, I aint a DJ yet, so PLEASE explain this to me and tell me your experiences with this seemingly hazardous move...THE CLUB KISS

 

[Chewy Bagel]

Go in for the kiss - you have nothing to lose. If she pulls back then just keep dancing. If she lets you kiss her, then you're golden. I'd say 8/10 times if I'm making out with a girl who I just met on the dance floor it's a done deal. I usually grab them by the hand after that and ask if they want to "go somewhere else" - like the back seat of my car, her place, mine, etc. That's how most ONS work with me. I meet them at a club, kiss on them, take them outta there and bang em. Of course, you can just get the number and do them at a later time as well.

Cheers!

 

[Oxide]

HELL YEAH i go for the kiss!

back in my AFC days id be glad if i danced with chicks, now i am a lil dissapointed if i dont kiss a chick. Usually a chick will let u if she has the IL, if not get her digits and call her up later.

 

[intel200]

Ok, it is funny that I have heard of fingering a chic on the dance floor, and certainly feeling her up....but kissing seems to be going for it all. But I have to DJ up, I'm gonna give it a try...... Any specific club reports would be appreciated

 

[bugsquish]

if she is bumping you and grinding you all over the floor in the club....even if she lets your little hand roam all over her lovely body

Kiss her dammit! I always kiss chicks at this stage. You can make out with several chicks a night if you just go for it.

 

[C-A]

kiss her and bump and grind her back

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by Chewy Bagel
Go in for the kiss - you have nothing to lose. If she pulls back then just keep dancing. If she lets you kiss her, then you're golden. I'd say 8/10 times if I'm making out with a girl who I just met on the dance floor it's a done deal. I usually grab them by the hand after that and ask if they want to "go somewhere else" - like the back seat of my car, her place, mine, etc. That's how most ONS work with me. I meet them at a club, kiss on them, take them outta there and bang em. Of course, you can just get the number and do them at a later time as well.

Cheers!

Arizona - what a MONEY place to be for picking up young girls at clubs. Scotsdale, pheonix, its all good in arizona.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Depending on your DJ style, it should be apparent whether or not she wants to kiss you. I wouldn't focus on her grinding you as being a predicator to the kiss. In the past I have had women at a club kiss me without any direct kino on my part.

Personally I never go in for the kiss if I have to "go in for it." If the time is right, it is almost as if it is presented to me. There is already close face to face contact, her pupils are dilated, her voice is low and her breath is heavy. More times than not those signals tell me that a kiss would be appropriate.

 

[Jake Steed]

When you're grinding, open your mouth slightly and breathe hot air on her earlobe rhythmically, like you're panting on her. Make sure your mouth hovers *just* above her ear and make sure your breathing is in sync with the beat you're dancing to. It will send her over the edge and SHE will kiss YOU. Guaranteed. I think I made a girl have an orgasm on the dance floor last week doing this.

Jake

 

[tx_xp]

Yea, kissing is not uncommon at all and several a night would be easy. 3 way kisses also happen, you just have to let yourself loose.

 

[intel200]

A 3 way kiss would be poppin. I aint trying to make it racial, but being a brotha, I just dont see black chics kissing up on folks they just met. Maybe Im out the game. But I think a kiss on the neck for a few is a good precursor to a strait up kiss....

 

[tx_xp]

Originally posted by intel200
A 3 way kiss would be poppin. I aint trying to make it racial, but being a brotha, I just dont see black chics kissing up on folks they just met. Maybe Im out the game. But I think a kiss on the neck for a few is a good precursor to a strait up kiss....

Check out this post, you may like it and pick up a few things from it. Click here for the thread

 

[Starman]

I used to club kiss all the time..I dont do it anymore..you never know who is sick and spreading germs..I posted a while back about this how I would 5/10 times catch a cold/flu from some chick..especially in the winters

 

[myfriendblu]

Originally posted by Starman
I used to club kiss all the time..I dont do it anymore..you never know who is sick and spreading germs..I posted a while back about this how I would 5/10 times catch a cold/flu from some chick..especially in the winters

Bwahahaha LOL HOW FUNNY, the same thing happens to me all the time, especially winter times. LOL

We used to have this running joke about how every time me and my wings go to this particular strip club, which is, lets say. a "Hands-On" type of a place, were all sick with some sorta cold withon a week, LOL.

 

[bugsquish]

Starman how do you ever cross the road? You might get hit by a bus!

 

[Player_Supreme]

Wow...they still make good old fashioned gentlemen!

Then you don't want to see what I do on the floor and off it and on to my bed the first night.

Kid 1 night stands are no big thing these days. Women have gotten aggressive and even expect you to "take advantage" of them. I have had women pretend to be drunk hoping I would take them home...

I don't do the one night stand thing much anymore, now I prefer to go for coffee first!

 

[Starman]

bugsquid,

I take it you mean..you have to take a chance with women..and how do you know who is sick and who isnt?

Well, my answer to that is most club chicks are only open to kissing..(although Ive known some who were open for more)

but on a date..you can see if the chick is sick or if she mentions getting over a cold or something

in a club..its a shot in the dark..if you dont mind getting sick and being in bed for a week..go ahead and club kiss everyone

ohh and Ive also learned you can tell who might be sick or not..if they are having a great time..they are most likely feeling OK

but if they are kinda not into the mood..and trying to have fun anyway ..chances are they might be sick

 

[intel200]

The vegetarian lifestyle will help your body fight off those germs. I havent been sick in soooo long. I am considering this club kiss more now...

 

[tx_xp]

Another active thread talks about this and I should probably say something here also. Get creative, you can do some biting all sorts of stuff. You have to gauge everything, where you are who you are with and everything.

 

[squirrels]

Kissing girls you don't know can be fun!

You'll know when the time comes...she'll get those dilated pupils, that stupid-ass grin, and she'll start talking in THAT voice (if you've ever been with a genuinely aroused female, you know what voice I mean ).

If you're going to go for a kiss, THAT is the time to display the utmost confidence. No hesitation, just take what you want. And even if she turns away, DO NOT be embarassed...pretend like you expected it to happen and it just means you have a little further to go (assuming you've gotten "buying signals" up till now).

If she turns a cheek or something, just give her a nuzzle...make face-to-face contact, it seems to help break down that anxiety that comes with the first kiss. If she literally recoils, you definitely moved too soon.

And yeah, girls generally don't kiss guys they've just met, unless they're horny as hell, so usually this means you can escalate the situation as necessary.

Just take your time and be gentle and firm at the same time.