Comfort, understanding, familiarity, emotions, biological factors, openness, mass amounts of neuro-chemicals. Many aspects contribute to people walking to the edge, overthrown by sentimentalities, ready to drive back to an understood existence of what once was. Change is horrifying for many, seeing as humans naturally seek comfort and predictability as it’s hardwired within our psycho-physiological orientation
When we have someone who we were intimate with it’s not so simple to just understand abundance, cut the cord of an extended history of moments and be done with it. Working through memories and understanding to move forward is about as easy as doing algebra underwater with no goggles nor an oxygen tank. One has to properly equip themselves to be able to see what’s really what. And that doesn’t just happen the day after a breakup.
If only aspects of life were a light switch we could click on and off and be done with..
If your dog died why are you so sad? TELL ME WHY YOURE SO SAD THAT A MUTT DIED WHEN WE ALL KNOW ALL DOGS ARE THE SAME. Just stfu and go to the pound and pick up a new pup, right? Abundance mentality and forget the last flee bag you had because it’s no better than trash. All dogs bark. So they’re all the same right?
People aren’t so replaceable and women aren’t objects that we dispose of. Your makeup and these posters are literally experiencing trauma whether that be in a micro sense or a macro sense like someone having their whole family, home, and bank account torn from their grasp.
What brought you here? Probably a hurt little heart that made you cry streams in to your pillow and so you sought understanding from an objective view.
Should we berate and chastise you? Make threads about you?
Yes, everyone gets it, life’s brutal. People get hurt. Women will take your money. Your kids. And they make you out to be the bad person. But really? You still chase them and love them, idealize them, and think of them while you commute to your humdrum existence working for someone else.
It’s not guys complaining about their exes that make forums like these embarrassing, it’s your original post that shows how sad and pathetic some people’s minds are that they think so basically and in a shallow manner. And rather than guide like a man would, you shove them down to try and make yourself seem... better?