In my opinion, bootcamps are pointless. In one sentence you tell us you want to stop trying so hard and stop caring so much, and in the next you say you want to FORCE yourself to interact with others by means of a "bootcamp." I don't like the whole bootcamp thing because you should never have to force yourself to talk to girls.... it should come about naturally. I think the bootcamp generates the pressure and anxiety that leads to failure. Yes, I did say I force myself to be more social sometimes, but because my focus is on getting girls, it's only a means to an end, not a pass/fail thing, if that makes any sense.
Not trying too hard is primarily just a mindset, and from there it carries over to your actual actions. You can either not try hard enough or try too hard, and both are equally bad. Try to stop thinking so much too. Smart people analyze things way too much sometimes. Thinking to a certain extent is helpful, but you don't want to be obsessed with your own thoughts while you actually IN a social situation.
It is possible to get girls without having any friends at all, but it is much harder to do, and besides myself (haha), I haven't seen anyone actually pull it off. Having social circles just gives you a huge advantage, and while it isn't completely necessary, you might as well make it easy on yourself. If you really want to, you can just get really good at cold approaches, but like I said, it is just much easier to hook up with girls you are at least familiar with already.... and this includes girls in classes or on campus (my favorite chick arena).
