You got to look into ********. I still don't understand it completely, but may have some insight here...
Sooo, where to start.
I'll just try to make it short.
LTR after 1 year breaks up with the excuse of: "I never managed to connect to you."
Your a beta, and she likely caused this. She knows you don't light her fire, but can't really explain it. She just knows something is missing. What is it? you manhood
She is texting me for three days trying to give me back my stuff. I was partying so I was just postponing it. She knew I was partying.
Third day we go out. We get really drunk. She's grinding on my **** in the club saying "I don't want any other girl to have you. We are not finished yet." We kiss.
this says to me it is not likely another guy, more likely she just knows you don't make her pvssy tingle. She felt alone and needed some companionship...
We go to the car, she is sick from booze. All of a sudden she is saying "I wish I met you 5 years from now, I would have your children. You are too cold, I'm a warm person."
I **** her, she is saying "I love how you smell, I love your big ****, will you **** me every day?"
You (and everyone else) need to take everything a woman says during sex with a grain of salt... it means nothing, especially if she does not re-iterate it afterwards, or have the actions to back it up
Few hours after that, I ask her WTF is going on. She said, "I can't be with you right now, I need some time."
Since I was transitioning from Blue to Red I think that might have affected the relationship.
Next, plate, give her time, WTF does she actually wants? Can anyone help?
Sorry for the bad language.
Just re-confirming you don't make her pvssy tingle. May be another guy in the picture at this point, probably not serious, but soemthing to distract her...
At this point, you need to cut her loose. She was willing to walk away and never look back. She was willing to remove you from her life without talking like rational adults or trying to work it out. Cut her off completely and don't look back. start reading, start hitting the gym, and start getting numbers (if your ready)
