WTF is going on?

[Sonic69]

Sooo, where to start.

I'll just try to make it short.

LTR after 1 year breaks up with the excuse of: "I never managed to connect to you."

She is texting me for three days trying to give me back my stuff. I was partying so I was just postponing it. She knew I was partying.

Third day we go out. We get really drunk. She's grinding on my **** in the club saying "I don't want any other girl to have you. We are not finished yet." We kiss.

We go to the car, she is sick from booze. All of a sudden she is saying "I wish I met you 5 years from now, I would have your children. You are too cold, I'm a warm person."

I **** her, she is saying "I love how you smell, I love your big ****, will you **** me every day?"

Few hours after that, I ask her WTF is going on. She said, "I can't be with you right now, I need some time."

Since I was transitioning from Blue to Red I think that might have affected the relationship.

Next, plate, give her time, WTF does she actually wants? Can anyone help?

Sorry for the bad language.

 

[Konada]

She just wants to see whether she still has you on the hook. Thank her for her sex, go bang other girls.

 

[Sonic69]

She just wants to see whether she still has you on the hook. Thank her for her sex, go bang other girls.

I got texts this morning that she doesn't remember what she was saying to me.

And that she was never as drunk in her life.

So the plan is to go no contact for a while ofcourse. Should I respond later down the road or should I just forget about this girl?

 

[Konada]

What do you want out of this girl? She seems like too much of a headache to be with other than a sport fvck.

Move on if you have feelings for her.

If you just want to use her as a wet hole, text her this:

"Yeah I don't either." Don't reply anymore unless its asking her to come over for a bang.

 

[Sonic69]

What do you want out of this girl? She seems like too much of a headache to be with other than a sport fvck.

Move on if you have feelings for her.

If you just want to use her as a wet hole, text her this:

"Yeah I don't either." Don't reply anymore unless its asking her to come over for a bang.

I'm thinking of trying to sort it out somehow but Iron Rule #7 is just in the back of my head.

So was she just baiting me to get validation, or is she actually thinking she made a mistake?

 

[Konada]

Move on. Ignore her text not for grtting her back but moving on with your life.

 

[marmel75]

I'm thinking of trying to sort it out somehow but Iron Rule #7 is just in the back of my head.

So was she just baiting me to get validation, or is she actually thinking she made a mistake?

There is no sorting it out, she dumped you. Don't act like a desperate ass dude and try and chase her, walk away and don't look back.

 

[RangerMIke]

She's a chick... she is letting her emotions drag her in different directions. This sort of thing is a formula... She felt like she was losing control of the relationship. She dumped you thinking you would chase her and beg her not to so she would be in control... she thought she needed this level of comfort. When you didn't act like a whimpering simp, she got "drunk" and what happened happened. Her drunkenness gave her an excuse to not have to take responsibility for her actions.... which is what chicks do.

Depending on what you want from all this will dictate how you handle it.

If you want to be done... just go get your sh!t and pick up yours... one trip, then never contact her again.
If you want her back, then tell her what she said and did and start fvcking her. Eventually, if you keep acting like a man, she will settle into this new reality and she will be happier than if she was in control... just you will have a few months of sh!t tests and power plays... just stand your ground and eventually she will submit and then settle in.

My advice is to just walk away and go date other chicks... too much drama, and I'm too old only to start training other women. It's much easier to just go find those that won't be so much of a problem. But if you are a young guy and have the energy for this sh!t... then go ahead and jump in that wild dog pit and learn some things. It's not going to kill you, but it will be aggravating.

 

[Glassguy]

First, all of this didnt just happen or come on in the past week or so. She has been monkey branching.

"I cant be with you right now, I need some time".......that is code for "I have my eye on someone else that is showing me attention. He may be a better deal than you so I have to check that out. If it doesnt work out, I will probably come back....at least until I find my next guy".

This doesnt end well for you if you let her stick around.

Me: "Hey hun, I was thinking and you're right. We really dont connect very well and I need to pursue a few other options. Leave my stuff out and I will swing by and pick it up while you're at work tomorrow. Take care "

Her: "I am not sure of exactly what I want" (classic string you along and make you chase line)

Me: "Yeah, well I have made my mind up that you and I are finished relationship wise. However, if you just want to hook up occasionally until we both get moving forward with other people hit me up. But I am not interested in anything more than that right now. I just need some space".

Thats what she would get from me anyways, and that would be the end of it. Go find other chicks and if she voluntarily demotes herself to a plate, bang her for a while until you find something else and then dump her from that.

 

[wifehunter]

 

[Sonic69]

Sooo, where to start.

I'll just try to make it short.

LTR after 1 year breaks up with the excuse of: "I never managed to connect to you."

She is texting me for three days trying to give me back my stuff. I was partying so I was just postponing it. She knew I was partying.

Third day we go out. We get really drunk. She's grinding on my **** in the club saying "I don't want any other girl to have you. We are not finished yet." We kiss.

We go to the car, she is sick from booze. All of a sudden she is saying "I wish I met you 5 years from now, I would have your children. You are too cold, I'm a warm person."

I **** her, she is saying "I love how you smell, I love your big ****, will you **** me every day?"

Few hours after that, I ask her WTF is going on. She said, "I can't be with you right now, I need some time."

Since I was transitioning from Blue to Red I think that might have affected the relationship.

Next, plate, give her time, WTF does she actually wants? Can anyone help?

Sorry for the bad language.

UPDATE TIME:

So she calls in the afternoon.

Acting WTH actually happened.

I'm holding my frame. "Girl, we need to have a talk. You cant play with people like that."

She decided she wants to come tonight to have a chat because "she thinks" she wants me back. *MASSIVE **** TEST*

I said listen, **** ain't gonna be the same. I'l give "us" (bull****) two weeks to see if anything changed. If not I'm packing.

She agrees, saying she still wants to see me tonight.

On the first sign of failure, even tonight, I'm packing.

If not, free ass for 15 days.

If not, well I guess its gonna be a wild ride.

I went balls deep and ****ed up with this one, gotta save some dignity atleast.

Probably dump her in the next few days.

What do you think, did I play it right?

 

[kronreiff]

She's a typical hose bag, treat her as such or better yet, dump her and get some real pvssy.

 

[dude99]

Sooo, where to start.

I'll just try to make it short.

LTR after 1 year breaks up with the excuse of: "I never managed to connect to you."

She is texting me for three days trying to give me back my stuff. I was partying so I was just postponing it. She knew I was partying.

Third day we go out. We get really drunk. She's grinding on my **** in the club saying "I don't want any other girl to have you. We are not finished yet." We kiss.

We go to the car, she is sick from booze. All of a sudden she is saying "I wish I met you 5 years from now, I would have your children. You are too cold, I'm a warm person."

I **** her, she is saying "I love how you smell, I love your big ****, will you **** me every day?"

Few hours after that, I ask her WTF is going on. She said, "I can't be with you right now, I need some time."

Since I was transitioning from Blue to Red I think that might have affected the relationship.

Next, plate, give her time, WTF does she actually wants? Can anyone help?

Sorry for the bad language.

She doesn't know what she wants. Her emotions are all over the map. Agree with her. You two can not be together. Go meet new girls. She has just downgraded herself to f buddy for you. When she tries to hook up with you you f her only. No date. No spending money. No talking no listening. Shash and dash.

Go get new women in your rotation too

 

[dude99]

UPDATE TIME:

So she calls in the afternoon.

Acting WTH actually happened.

I'm holding my frame. "Girl, we need to have a talk. You cant play with people like that."

She decided she wants to come tonight to have a chat because "she thinks" she wants me back. *MASSIVE **** TEST*

I said listen, **** ain't gonna be the same. I'l give "us" (bull****) two weeks to see if anything changed. If not I'm packing.

She agrees, saying she still wants to see me tonight.

On the first sign of failure, even tonight, I'm packing.

If not, free ass for 15 days.

If not, well I guess its gonna be a wild ride.

I went balls deep and ****ed up with this one, gotta save some dignity atleast.

Probably dump her in the next few days.

What do you think, did I play it right?

Treat her as nothing more than a f buddy. Not even s friend with benefits. Purly f buddy. Nothing else.

If she bocks at that kick her to the curb

 

[Sonic69]

Treat her as nothing more than a f buddy. Not even s friend with benefits. Purly f buddy. Nothing else.

If she bocks at that kick her to the curb

UPDATE:

She came tonight, we had a talk.

She was indecisive.

I said: "Do you want me to end it, will it be easier?"

She noded.

Its done.

I feel like sh*t.

 

[Glassguy]

UPDATE:

She came tonight, we had a talk.

She was indecisive.

I said: "Do you want me to end it, will it be easier?"

She noded.

Its done.

I feel like sh*t.

You do not take advise well at all. Why are you here?

 

[Sonic69]

You do not take advise well at all. Why are you here?

What do you mean?

 

[Glassguy]

Show me one response to this that said "tell her to come over and have a serious talk".

You can't follow directions. You asked, we all basically told you the same thing, yet you're back on here hours later saying how it went bad again.

Duh......like who didn't see that coming since you handled it all wrong.

We all said to turn her into a wh0re wet hole and dump her upon the first sign that she isn't going along being a complete fvck toy.

Yet you wanted to talk more about the failed relationship. Exact opposite of what you should have done. That conversation should have never happened....ever.

"He who speaks first always loses".

 

[Sonic69]

Show me one response to this that said "tell her to come over and have a serious talk".

You can't follow directions. You asked, we all basically told you the same thing, yet you're back on here hours later saying how it went bad again.

Duh......like who didn't see that coming since you handled it all wrong.

We all said to turn her into a wh0re wet hole and dump her upon the first sign that she isn't going along being a complete fvck toy.

Yet you wanted to talk more about the failed relationship. Exact opposite of what you should have done. That conversation should have never happened....ever.

"He who speaks first always loses".

I decided I dont wan't to make her a *****.

I decided its not healthy for me.

I decided to end it, thats it.

 

[dude99]

UPDATE:

She came tonight, we had a talk.

She was indecisive.

I said: "Do you want me to end it, will it be easier?"

She noded.

Its done.

I feel like sh*t.

Indecisive means "i want to break up with you but i don't have the balls to do it."

In treating her as a f buddy you shouldn't have even "had a talk with her." Should have just asked her if she was just there to smash. If she said no then ask her to leave.

Most chicks don't have the balls to do what needs to be said and done in a relationship so they become "indecisive" and hope you will take a hint.

She proved this. Cut all contact with her.