okay, well finally after 2 months of being with my girl, she wanted to have sex ...so last night i went to her place (not knowing that she wanted to)...and we ended up getting naked nad her saying i want to have sex blah blah. Now heres where my problem was...i couldn't get hard! ie never had this problem before...i mean i wacked off beforehand and also yesterday but for some reason i couldnt get hard...she gave me head and i was hard for a little but then it just went away once i put on the condom...what you guys think i should do?