Wtf is a "bad boy" anyway?

[9Volt]

imo that "bad boy" ish is g@y af and shows a chicks mental retardation.

Wtf is a bad boy anyway?

a biker?

Bernie madoff?

a child predator?

Snowden?

trump?

al sharpton?

Manson?

El chapo?

aaron hernandez because he's "hot" and "bad"?

aren't all the above some examples of "bad boys"?

there's tons of "bad boys" out there but imo there's levels to them too and it's based on their level of attractiveness to chicks.

real bad boy who's not devilishly handsome = ewwww creepy!

hot dude that rides a bike: "bad boy".

imo when chicks say they like "bad boys" they basically want a dude they find hot who makes them wet to "sin" with while finger pointing at that same "bad boy" or boys that "made them sin" removing accountability from themselves.

ever notice how chicks "complain" about the "bad boys" they date? it's just finger pointing elsewhere as if they don't want to ruin their public image by admitting they're nothing more than an unaccountable, hot dude chasing jump off.

 

[zekko]

imo when chicks say they like "bad boys" they basically want a dude they find hot who makes them wet to "sin" with while finger pointing at that same "bad boy" or boys that "made them sin" removing accountability from themselves.

The term "bad boy" has no meaning at all, and at the same time can mean 10,000 different things. All those guys who listed could be considered bad boys, in different ways.

Generally speaking, I think women consider a guy a bad boy if they are looking to have sex with him without any intent of anything further. So he would be a guy they consider hot but lacking attributes that would make him desirable for a LTR. From a male point of view, a bad boy is basically wanting to have sex but having no intent to commit.

 

[RangerMIke]

@zekko is right.. no real meaning. But from my experience in terms of actual behavior is a man that is not willing to sacrifice for women. Opposite of a 'good guy' who will work to please her. Just remember when your mother said... "You are a bad boy". What did it mean... it meant you weren't doing what she wanted.

 

[9Volt]

The term "bad boy" has no meaning at all, and at the same time can mean 10,000 different things. All those guys who listed could be considered bad boys, in different ways.

Generally speaking, I think women consider a guy a bad boy if they are looking to have sex with him without any intent of anything further. So he would be a guy they consider hot but lacking attributes that would make him desirable for a LTR. From a male point of view, a bad boy is basically wanting to have sex but having no intent to commit.

Exactly. The hot dude the chick just wants to get pump and dumped by.

i always the term itself though is g@y af sounding. "bad boy" sounds like something you call a kindergartener.

 

[zekko]

"bad boy" sounds like something you call a kindergartener.

I've never liked the term bad boy either. First off, I'm not a boy, I'm a man. Secondly, "bad" implies something that is not good. But PUAs only describe "bad boys" and "jerks" with positive attributes - someone who is strong and independent, goes after what he wants, stands up for himself, etc. Nothing "bad" there at all - quite the opposite.

 

[9Volt]

I've never liked the term bad boy either. First off, I'm not a boy, I'm a man. Secondly, "bad" implies something that is not good. But PUAs only describe "bad boys" and "jerks" with positive attributes - someone who is strong and independent, goes after what he wants, stands up for himself, etc. Nothing "bad" there at all - quite the opposite.

thats what I'm saying. yeah the chick may like you and want you to fck her brains out but at the same time I'm thinking I'm a man, now get your ass over here toots I'm giving you a spanking.

it kind of irks me a bit but at the same time you have to laugh at it.

 

[EmotionalGeek]

I feel like bad boy when I make a bit of fun at her expense, point out her real/imaginary flaws or I am bit selfish. In other words I do oposite of putting her on pedestal from time to time.

 

[BeExcellent]

From the female playbook:

Bad boy = emotionally unavailable

Therefore unwilling to be exclusive or commit.
Everything else is subjective after that.

 

[9Volt]

From the female playbook:

Bad boy = emotionally unavailable

Therefore unwilling to be exclusive or commit.
Everything else is subjective after that.

That's only if she is attracted to the dude in the first place. If she isn't you could be as emotionally unavailable as you'd like and she won't care as she's simply not into you.

it also doesn't mean just because he's emotionally unavailable either. That just assumes some dude has zero emotions or doesn't care about the chick period.

there's several dudes I know who aren't void of emotions but are very good looking, jacked, and whack jobs in their own ways and chicks consider them bad boys not because the dude has to be emotionally unavailable.

 

[Urbanyst]

Bad boys are men who don't take women seriously and don't care about their image in society.

They are generally renegades who live by their own rules.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

It means a man that doesn't always follow the rules...a guy that isn't scared to grab a woman's hand and put it directly on his c0ck after they have been talking and flirting for some time...a guy who isn't intimidated in the least by her and isn't afraid to show his sexual side...a guy that doesn't care what she thinks about him...

 

[Tenacity]

Wtf is a bad boy anyway?.

A "bad boy" is a Media/Society Created CARTOON, used to attempt to explain the stupid, illogical, irrational, insane, choices that the post women's liberated/post feminism market of women make in their mating partners.

Instead of just calling it what it is.....women being fvcking STUPID......the media/society has attempted to create a fvcking theory on women being stupid.

- This bad boy could be a guy who is a player

- Could be a guy who is RAY RAY and POOKIE

- Could be a guy who cheats

- Could be a guy who is arrogant

- Could be a guy who is smooth with money

- Could be a guy with no car, no job, no savings, wants to be a rapper, sells dope, goes in and out of jail, and sleeps on her couch

These are all horrible choices in men and men with bad character. Instead of calling it what it is, the media, THE MANOSPHERE, and society tries to put a theory on this dumb a.ss shyt instead of just calling it like it is......women being out of their god damn mind.

 

[devilkingx2]

(warning: awesome metaphor)

a normal guy is the peasant in the village who makes a decent, honest and reliable living farming and selling the grain to his local feudal lord

a bad boy is the viking warrior who storms that peasant's village, slaughters everyone, steals all the food, burns the town, rapes the women and then leaves

the normal guy sounds lame as **** until you think about it and realize how good it really is, the bad boy sounds awesome until you realize he's likely to be killed by knights one day, or go hungry because he already pillaged all the villages within traveling distance and ate all their food.

the question is if you bother to think about it or not, if not the bad boy is clearly better, if so then the normal guy is obviously better. a lot of women don't put much thought into it though.

 

[zekko]

Bad boy = emotionally unavailable

Therefore unwilling to be exclusive or commit.
Everything else is subjective after that.

Agree.

These are all horrible choices in men and men with bad character. Instead of calling it what it is, the media, THE MANOSPHERE, and society tries to put a theory on this dumb a.ss shyt instead of just calling it like it is......women being out of their god damn mind.

Sometimes a woman will want sex with no strings attached. You're right, it's stupid, but most people (male or female) go through a rebellious stage at some point or other. Candy isn't good for you, but sometimes you want some candy. The more quality women will keep this kind of sh!t to a minimum - maybe a short phase in her late teens or early adulthood.

My impression is that the MANOSPHERE seems to imply that women are ONLY attracted to bad boys, which is an assertion that I find ridiculous. If you're going to be a PUA, it's much easier to do if you don't care about anyone. That way, if you accidentally hurt some girl, your conscience isn't bothered. That's the real reason they push the sociopathic stuff, IMO. Not that it's so attractive, but rather it makes it easier for the PUA to do what he does.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

From the female playbook:

Bad boy = emotionally unavailable

Therefore unwilling to be exclusive or commit.
Everything else is subjective after that.

It just so happens that the unavailability is character trait of many of the brooding male archetypes that women also find physically attractive; bikers, cowboys, rock stars, gangsters, criminals etc etc.

A simple way to make her view you as a bad boy even if you're and accountant: take her out of her social comfort zone, so to make her feel like she's breaking her own rules.

 

[logicallefty]

A bad boy is a man who does WTF he wants regarding women, rules, etc. He is willing to "live on the edge" at times but he is also willing to OWN the consequences for his edge like behavior.