WTF!! I am doing everything wrong!! FR

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Ok, so I meet this girl HB8 27yo and hang out with her at Dave & busters.(its a big restaurant /bar/game/pool place). So we are playing games and stuff and I do kino and she is responding well with kino from her. So we finish and we sit in the parking lot for a while. We talk mostly her talking, and after a while I say I should go and kiss her. We split and she txt messages me that she had a great time and wished we had kissed longer!!! So this is where the "I’m doing everything wrong" stuff begins. See, I’m not really into this girl so i intentionally do all the wrong stuff. i call her every day, send text messages, answer the phone when she calls, all AFC to the max. So the next week I take her out on my bike 2005 Yamaha R1. She has never been on a bike and I scare the sh!t out of her!! We go to the beach and sit in the grass area. I take off everything but my swim trunks. I say to her to get into her bikini,,haha! shes like, "I’m white right now and your all tan". So I’m like, "do it anyway". She takes of her pants but won’t take off her top. So we are laying there and I start to spank her ass and tell her I'm getting wood. she laughs and tell her if i stood up right now I could point to Catalina.(Island of So Cal). She laughs again and I turn her over so she is on her back. I get on my back and she lays next to me with her head on my arm. So the only natural place for my arm to go is on her breasts. So I start cupping her breasts and tell her it’s the only comfortable place to put my arm, haha! she just laughs and is cool with it.:D We get dressed and we look for something to eat. But before we find anything she wants to go into every fuc_ing store. We are in Laguna Beach and it has a lot of cool store for girls. I like a total AFC just tag along like a dumb ass!! I tell her she looks good in everything she puts on. I hold clothes outside of the dressing room, I complement her choices, I hold her hand any chance I get, open doors, etc AFC AFC AFC AWWWWWWWWW! So we finally find a place that I let her choose $$$$. we sit down and she orders a lot of food, so do I. I am laughing out loud at this point just thinking of all my brothers on this site that would just slap me at this point. She’s like "what’s so funny". Me: "you are so fun to be with"!..........:crackup: So we get done and I reach for the check, I pay, we go. So we walk around and look at all the art and stuff in the windows, go into a candy store, and then we get ice cream, I pay. So we sit on the beach, full moon, city lights, up on a cliff,,,,, this is sh!t they love,,,we mack for a while and then we get back on my bike. Its FU_King cold and she is on me like a Kuala bear for the ride home. A couple of 150 mph speed runs on the way home and I get to her house. She invites me in and i hang for a while. I get ready to go, kiss her a bit and go. Then txt her when i get home. So all this week I have been a complete AFC and called and txt and everything. So tonight she invites me to meet her parents LOL!!!!!!!! Is this chick insane? I am completely anti challenge!! I have not followed one rule!! WTF???? She wants to hang out all weekend with me... So I will do whatever she wants and see what happens. :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

Ok, i just got off the phone with her, she wants me to help her rotate her tires,,hahah!!!AFC So I said no problem, when,,,hahahaha!
 

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It's because you DO NOT care and are just being yourself AFC or not.

When you stop caring is when you start to see results - crazy as it sounds with women in general but more true than not.

This is that take it or leave it attitude i mention once and awhile. It's the x factor in getting a girl liking you and for whatever reason - only the universe truely knows this.
 

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I'm guessing it is - your body language must be revealing no nervousness or hesitation whatsoever. To act this way and pull it off - you must give off the vibe like i'll take it or leave it.
 

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So maybe we have a new technique ,,,, do all the afc stuff with the hope she never calls you again in the back of your mind. Its really weird how much this girl is after me??:confused:
 

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i dont think that was "totally afc". i mean sure, u did a lot of bad things, but some of it was great. and i think the stuff you did right greatly outweighed the little things that take away from your game. plus, she just may be one of those girls, u know? maybe she likes all those little things you "mess up" on.

the whole part at the beach sounds like gold to me. confident, dont give a **** what she thinks, and it was funny to read, so im sure she enjoyed it. you did what you wanted and she was loving it.

she clinged to you both times on the bike? well, thats just what happens with bikes, but hey, she had no problem bein that close, so its a good sign.

following her around the stores the way you did wasnt so great, we all know that. i think it could be turned into a good thing though, if you make it fun. just take charge and make her follow YOU around in these stores. give her crazy stuff to try on, and then bust on her when she comes out. you could be all serious and give her a compliment about how that fuzzy green-stripped pimp hat really becomes her. all it takes is a little creativity, and you can make most situations beneficial.

as for you trying to "lose" this chick: why are you being such a ***** about it? if you arent into her, let her go. tell her some BS about how you dont think its gonna work out, or you wanna see other people, whatever. just dont lead her on, which is what you're doing. and thats really bad, cuz the dump will just be worse for her the longer you wait. this is what girls used to do to us all the time when we were AFCs, right? be the bigger person and avoid taking revenge.
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
i dont think that was "totally afc". i mean sure, u did a lot of bad things, but some of it was great. and i think the stuff you did right greatly outweighed the little things that take away from your game. plus, she just may be one of those girls, u know? maybe she likes all those little things you "mess up" on.

the whole part at the beach sounds like gold to me. confident, dont give a **** what she thinks, and it was funny to read, so im sure she enjoyed it. you did what you wanted and she was loving it.

she clinged to you both times on the bike? well, thats just what happens with bikes, but hey, she had no problem bein that close, so its a good sign.

following her around the stores the way you did wasnt so great, we all know that. i think it could be turned into a good thing though, if you make it fun. just take charge and make her follow YOU around in these stores. give her crazy stuff to try on, and then bust on her when she comes out. you could be all serious and give her a compliment about how that fuzzy green-stripped pimp hat really becomes her. all it takes is a little creativity, and you can make most situations beneficial.

as for you trying to "lose" this chick: why are you being such a ***** about it? if you arent into her, let her go. tell her some BS about how you dont think its gonna work out, or you wanna see other people, whatever. just dont lead her on, which is what you're doing. and thats really bad, cuz the dump will just be worse for her the longer you wait. this is what girls used to do to us all the time when we were AFCs, right? be the bigger person and avoid taking revenge.
Thanks. I am not into her because I have other girls right now. This girl is actully a good girl and is girlfriend material. But i just want to have more than one girl right now. I will not have sex with her. as a matter of fact, i told her I would not do that unless we both here tested. i would have done all the right stuff if i wanted keep her. I am not leading her on and she knows I see other girls. I am just testing different stuff to improve my game. Some time you have to do everything wrong to see what the right way should be. I have made her no promises about anything. I do like her, but don't want to hurt her. As far as the bike thing,,,, i recomend you get a bike!!! Chick magnet and good convo started,,,,,lots of forced kino too!!!!!!! Hold on or you will fall off haha!
 

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It is only considered wrong to you, because you think it is wrong.

Not every woman wants a suave, badass, smooth talking guy in their life. Some women... believe it or not... actually LIKE nice guys... hard to believe huh??

Some girls like guys they can talk to all the time and even though it may seem "AFC" because they talk for more than an hour... that she believes they are bonding since they are talking about feelings and emotions.

Not to sound negative, but this is one reason why I feel most guys here on think too much into trying to be such a "PUA" or "DJ" that they are worrying so much about routines and 'what to say' when they don't even know how to talk to a girl in general. I'll be reading some of the things you people say on here... and i think... do you guys even read what you say? Honestly, a lot of the advice you guys will give on here has to be the craziest things i've heard.

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Oh, BTW, do not get a 1000cc bike for your first bike!! Get a 2 to 3 year old 600cc bike and learn on it. Its easy, just imagine every car is trying to kill you and you will be fine.
 

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Originally posted by LuckyDevil6
It is only considered wrong to you, because you think it is wrong.

Not every woman wants a suave, badass, smooth talking guy in their life. Some women... believe it or not... actually LIKE nice guys... hard to believe huh??

Some girls like guys they can talk to all the time and even though it may seem "AFC" because they talk for more than an hour... that she believes they are bonding since they are talking about feelings and emotions.

Not to sound negative, but this is one reason why I feel most guys here on think too much into trying to be such a "PUA" or "DJ" that they are worrying so much about routines and 'what to say' when they don't even know how to talk to a girl in general. I'll be reading some of the things you people say on here... and i think... do you guys even read what you say? Honestly, a lot of the advice you guys will give on here has to be the craziest things i've heard.

End rant.

Yes !!! exactly!!! I have done all the PUA stuff, now I am trying all the AFC stuff haha! it work too. So now if you think about it, not all girls want PUA. so its your job to be PUA or AFC depending on what type of girl you have in front of you...LuckyDevil6 I think you understand what I am doing.... Thanks buddy.
 
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