Wtf Happened?!?!?! Help !!!!!!

Rooobie

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Ok here's my story.

I'm in a soccer team and we went to a club with the girls soccer team division. I started talking with this girl, let's name her Amelou for the sake of anonymity. So Amelou has been blowing off my friend's d!ck for about 3 months and she wanted a relationship with him which turned him off. Since then, she kinda has an eye on me and won't stop texting me, the main problem with that is that I'm much more interrested in her best friend , let's call her Jeanne. But one night we all went to a club, and I was pretty much wasted so I kinda grinded Amelou all night and I went back at her place after and we started to make out like crazy, I tried to finger her but she didn't want me to, saying it was too early for that. I immediately lost interrest ( I wasn't in the first place anyway) and just wanted to get the hell out of her house asap.

The next morning, she probably thought we had some sort of a bond because of what happened the night before and she started texting me like crazy, so I didn't feel like seeing her again and she told her straight up that if she wanted to see me, she would have to open her legs this time. She got mad (naturally) and started to c0ckbl0ck me with all of her friends, especially Jeanne her best friend.

So I'm like ok, I lost the girls, no big deal. I was still talking to them at school but I could feel they were being cold with me, but one month later, things started to be just fine again and I thought that they forgot about it.

Jeanne started to text me like crazy , she was always initiating contact with me, we would talk for hours, I even was going to bed earlier ( when I go to my friend's house I used to stay up at his house past 3 am since he's my neighbors ) , recently I was telling him that I feel so tired at like 1 am so I could talk to her.

Anyway, her interest level seemed very high, but the main problem was Amelou who still seemed very interrested in me even after those nasty texts, so she was always between me and Jeanne and naturally Jeanne didn't want to hurt her feelings so she wasn't doing any moves. That's where my friend comes in, he's a natural Pimp, the name's Dorso, he almost made it to the NHL so every girls dig him, so I told him to keep Amelou busy while I grind Jeanne which he did. So he was grinding Amelou, I was grinding Jeanne, things were getting hot, but we finally left the club and nothing more happened.

One week after we went out again, but this time my friend dorso maked out with Amelou, so everything was going fine , I was grinding hardcore with Jeanne and we maked out all night. I thought I had it in the bag, but after that night, Jeanne seemed cold with me, she usually was a texting machine but I didn't hear from her for days, she would always respond to my text and pretty fast too but she never initiated any contact since then and she would answer with closed questions.

I don't get what I did wrong, her interrest level was so high and now she sends mixed signals, I don't get it. I heard from her friend that she once had a ****friend and she told her she got attached to him, and he ran away. So I'm thinking maybe she thinks I'm a player too and as soon as I get her in my bed I won't call her again because of the nasty texts I sent to Amelou. She might want a relationship while all I want is to bang her, but I really dont know why we maked out that night then if she thinks that way.

What do you guys think?
 

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I'm no expert at this. but i think this girl Jeanne has definitely a thing for you. You should show her more attention, ask her for a date, bring her to the movies etc :eek: keep me posted man good luck
 

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brake-it01 said:
I'm no expert at this. but i think this girl Jeanne has definitely a thing for you. You should show her more attention, ask her for a date, bring her to the movies etc :eek: keep me posted man good luck
understatement of the day. Don't follow his advice.


I'd just wait for a while and see what happens while trying to look for options among the other girls. There's no point in trying to get her attention back.
 

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I disapeared for awhile and she started to text me back, she wants to see me, how should I react? Like nothing ever happened or just straight out ask her why she's been so cold after the night we maked out? Maybe I could get a clear answer from it, what do you guys think?
 

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Rooobie said:
I disapeared for awhile and she started to text me back, she wants to see me, how should I react? Like nothing ever happened or just straight out ask her why she's been so cold after the night we maked out? Maybe I could get a clear answer from it, what do you guys think?
You said that after you disappeared,she started texting you. Well,what did she say? What was in these texts?

The answer to these questions will help to determine how you should respond to her.

As far as asking her about why she's been cold to you...DON'T DO THAT. If you do,she'll know that her behavior got to you.

Oh,and trust me,you asking her that WILL NOT get you a clear answer.

In fact,you'll probably be more confused after asking her that than you are right now.
 

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Well the texts were mostly fluffs talk about soccer etc. and her wanting me to go see her at her games and she wants me to invite her at my games too, but beside that, nothing much that could lead to a bang.
 

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Seems to me like you're in the passenger's seat. Instead of you being in control and leading the interactions,looks like you just react to whatever she does. Have you ever asked this girl out? Have you asked for a date?
If you're just sitting around waiting for things to "fall into place",you'll have a long wait. Does this girl even know you have an interest in her?
Did you see that last question? I asked if this girl even knows if you have an interest in HER. If you'll notice,I didn't say anything about sex. If she thinks all you want is sex,then of course she's going to be turned off. She wants to be viewed as a person,not an object or a piece of meat. If you want a girl's body,you have to win her mind first. And you win her mind through her feelings/emotions.

You can also lose her through her through her feels as well.

You told her straight up that if she wanted to see you,she have to "open her legs this time". Wow,I'm sure that made her feel special.

When you go at a woman like that,you make her feel interchangeable. You told her she'd have to open her legs. She felt like she could have got up and left,another girl could have walked in and taken her place,and you would have just went right on acting and behaving the same way. You probably wouldn't have even noticed she was gone. All you see is boobs and vagina when you look at her,not (her name).

That's not a winning strategy.

I say tell her you want to see her. Tell her you're going out to so and so place,and you want her to come with you. Stop beating around the bush taking about soccer and whatever other non-relevent issue you allow her to come up with. All that is comfort building talk. It has its place,but first you'll need to get some attraction established. She needs to FEEL that you're a man FIRST,before anything else. A MAN,not a hormone driven,sex starved adolescent.

How about more focus on her,and a little less on sex.

See if that'll interest her.
 

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I never told her I had an interrest for her but she probably could tell from my actions, we were texting each others alot and went on alot of group dates and we even kissed one night. And you seem to confuse Amelou with Jeanne, the one I told to open her legs was Amelou not Jeanne, and I told her mainly because I didn't have an interrest in her and I wanted her to get out of the way between me and Jeanne, but even tho I told her that she still came back to me and tried to kiss me again. That's why I used my last card and brought my friend to game her so I could get her friend Jeanne instead. And of course I'm in the passenger seat, the ball is in her court. She probably thinks I'm the kind of guy that will leave her after the bang, even though that's not even true, because of the texts I sent to her best friend Amelou (which was only to drive her away), so I dunno how to bring the subject up and explain it to her , she's so cold, but what I don't get also is when she kissed me in the club she was already aware of the texts and all that bull****, so why did she go for it anyway?
 
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Make Jeanee heart spin like a helicopter with your future actions. Ask Jeanne on a date... and give her a good time. Maybe give her a small compliment on how you had your eye on her for a while.... and kaboom... what are you waiting for, ask her out.... i would tell amelou that you liked Jeanee for a while....
 
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