WTF! Do some of you need step by step instructions?

[5string]

Look guys. I'm old and married. I have however been around the block a time or two.

I seem to have now finally noticed that alot of guys on here will ask a question about how to get some chick in the rack. Most have gotten to a certain point with a woman but just can't take the final step to get the fvckin job done.

The answer is......just go for it with confidence and without fear!

Who cares if she says no? Who cares about any of her nonsense? At least you tried right? Even if you are rejected, just think about the boost in your confidence! You have no chance of hitting the target unless you pull the trigger!

I have been guilty of this years ago, but trust me, you need to get right in there and get it done. So what if you flame out? At least you will have no regrets.

If you catch yourself overthinking or over analyzing, focus on your target. Don't complicate things for yourself. Keep it simple. Then I think you will have a better chance at seperating her from her panties.

 

[SgtSplacker]

There's a number of posters here that treat this site like a quick setup instruction manual and not a reference. Then get all silly when the instructions don't exactly work out. It's like reading the rules for football, then getting all pissed if you don't win every game because you followed the rules. Stuff doesn't work that way hoss! It's all about improvement and practice by doing the right things. There is no A+B=C...

 

[Nick1886]

You make it sound like it's so easy that every tom **** and harry should be casanovas. It's a bit different in closed environments where you have to be more selective

 

[5string]

There's a number of posters here that treat this site like a quick setup instruction manual and not a reference. Then get all silly when the instructions don't exactly work out. It's like reading the rules for football, then getting all pissed if you don't win every game because you followed the rules. Stuff doesn't work that way hoss! It's all about improvement and practice by doing the right things. There is no A+B=C...

Exactly!

Once while I was dating my wife, we went to a little place for a glass of wine. Chatted her up and then asked her back to my place. She accepted. That was step one. Once at the house, went for the kiss and just led her to the bedroom. Mission accomplished!

Sure, she could have said no, but at least I would have had no regrets if she had. If I had not gone for it, I could have gone into warp drive hindsight mode and wondered what could have happened like so many guys on here have done. See what I mean?

 

[SgtSplacker]

Exactly!

Once while I was dating my wife, we went to a little place for a glass of wine. Chatted her up and then asked her back to my place. She accepted. That was step one. Once at the house, went for the kiss and just led her to the bedroom. Mission accomplished!

Sure, she could have said no, but at least I would have had no regrets if she had. If I had not gone for it, I could have gone into warp drive hindsight mode and wondered what could have happened like so many guys on here have done. See what I mean?

TOTALLY. You get out there give it your best shot, try not to make obvious mistakes. And if she says no and you didn't totally come across like a douche she just might blame herself and correct her actions the next time you hang out. This happened to me one time, the girl actually apologized for not banging me!! Next time I was even the bigger gentleman and hit that like it was my last day alive!

I have always said that the best thing a man can do for himself is to learn how to represent himself properly. If you do that you will always get what is coming to you.

 

[Nicholas]

It's true what you say.

Anyway, problem with most of guys is that they live in a world full of false assumptions and conclusions that reached the core of their everyday life. It takes time to incorporate your new realizations through new experiences and become new improved yourself.

People over-think things simply because they have too much free time. If you have anything to occupy your mind and simply have things to do everyday, you won't spend your day fantasizing and minding irrelevant things. They are building their own misery over and over again because they make such a big deal out of it. And focusing on a single female brings out desperation and neediness.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

The day that your really successful with woman is the day that a guy is afraid of rejection. People internalize and analyze so much so they won't get rejected. Your going to get rejected many, many times in your lifetime. I don't care who you are unless your famous. Be a confident man who is not afraid of rejected and always attempts to get what he wants. You will be a much happier person.

 

[SgtSplacker]

I can't really say I have a fear of rejection, because I just don't put myself out there like that to be rejected in the first place. If I ask a girl out it's because I know she's interested already. So if I get rejected i'm more just kinda confused? Like why would you be so friendly and flirty then say no? Stupid girl, then I move on. But the fault in my mind lays with her for sending out conflicting signals. It's not my fault if she doesn't like me, there's a bunch of girls I don't like and it's not their faults either. I don't expect everyone to like me, and I don't like every cute girl I see either. I'll never just walk up to a girl and start gaming her out of the blue like that. I'll catch her looking, go over, order a drink, just kinda chill there and see if I catch her looking again, make myself seen, say something friendly and escalate WITH her interest level. That's what girls do if they see a guy they like, they'll dance in front of you, rub up on you by "mistake", look over every once in a while, order their drinks next to you, etc. So it really never reaches true rejection per-se. I just notice low IL and leave before wasting too much time.

Game is not black and white, it's not true or false. There's many shades and colors. A girl that would not lay you, will under different conditions. You just need to have your eyes open and be ready to react. The most important and easiest thing to remember is just to be friendly, that's all. Be the guy that knows whats happening later, the guy that's having his friends over after the club, the guy that invites a group of girls to hang with his group of friends. Just do what is fun for you and it will be fun for them too. And we all know what fun leads to... MORE FUN.. lol

You can't drink too much or smoke too much, you have to stay kinda vigilant.

 

[Iceberg]

I can't really say I have a fear of rejection, because I just don't put myself out there like that to be rejected in the first place. If I ask a girl out it's because I know she's interested already. So if I get rejected i'm more just kinda confused? Like why would you be so friendly and flirty then say no? Stupid girl, then I move on. But the fault in my mind lays with her for sending out conflicting signals. It's not my fault if she doesn't like me, there's a bunch of girls I don't like and it's not their faults either. I don't expect everyone to like me, and I don't like every cute girl I see either. I'll never just walk up to a girl and start gaming her out of the blue like that. I'll catch her looking, go over, order a drink, just kinda chill there and see if I catch her looking again, make myself seen, say something friendly and escalate WITH her interest level. That's what girls do if they see a guy they like, they'll dance in front of you, rub up on you by "mistake", look over every once in a while, order their drinks next to you, etc. So it really never reaches true rejection per-se. I just notice low IL and leave before wasting too much time.

That's mostly how I do things too.

It's hard to explain that on the message board because we're talking to guys who need to build themselves up from the foundation. So you don't want to tell them to be passive and sit back to wait for girls to throw signs...because a lot of these guys have been passive their whole lives.

But after you've been out in the field for a little while, you start to develop an instinct. Then it's just a matter of following your gut.

I've never been the type to walk up to two chicks on the street like, "Yo baby what's up." But while hanging with friends in a bar, I can definitely spot the girls who are digging me, and find my way over to them without it looking like a "pickup."

 

[SgtSplacker]

The guys I have seen that have laid the most girls are just really friendly. They keep channels of communication open, they keep in touch, stay in the know regarding parties and events, know what the girls like and call them if it's something they like, consider them, invite them to cool little free things, hook them up with friends, always suggesting the next place to go to. It's basically like treating a girl you just met like a good friend you have known for years.

 

[Eternal_water]

Yeah If your offering