WOW....what a date. I tried out this internet dating thing,and uhh....well.....DAMMMN

[Igetit!]

What's up fellas.....


So....I tried out this internet dating. First let me say,I didn't do it intentionally.
I was up late one night,just surfing around on the internet,and clicked on to this dating website.



I was simply looking at some of pictures of the women there,and after seeing about two or three profiles,some message popped up saying that if I wanted to view further profiles,I'd have to join up and be a member....so I did.



I did it not because I was looking for a date,but simply to see more profiles and pictures of the women. Anyway,I noticed that some of the women there were from the city where I live. So I was like,what the hay,I put up a photo of myself,and where it said to talk a bit about yourself and what you're looking for,I put this.....

I'm a 30-ish single man who lives in (my city) looking for nice,intelligent,easy going woman who I'd be proud to have by my side.

I don't do the "friends" thing with women,don't believe in it. If a woman looks good and I'm sexually attracted to her,what the heck would I want her as a "friend" for?


I want to be absolutely CLEAR about what it is I want.....

I want a Woman. Not a "friend",not a pal,not a "buddy" or an internet "chat companion". Most women want to "be friends first,then see what happens".

I'm just the opposite. I look to see if there's any type of chemistry,any type of passion,any type of spark or electricity with a woman FIRST,and if there is,then I'll see what happens.


I just believe that if there's no passion or sparks there from the getgo,then rest of it doesn't matter. Hey...I'm sorry,but it doesn't.


While I do believe that both men and women should be treated with dignity and respect,we ARE different,and that difference should be taken into consideration. So if you're one of those chicks who feels that men and women are "equal",we probably wouldn't get along because I believe that since men are both bigger and stronger,that it's OUR JOB to guide and protect. both our women and our families.


I prefer women who are energetic,fun-loving,and have things going for them,but if they lack these things but have a nice body,well hey,I guess I can let the other stuff slide,lol..

I'm NOT looking for a "friend",nor am I looking for a fling. I prefer to get to know a woman first before deciding on a path to take.


I have no preferance on the body type of a woman. If I like what I see when I look at her,that's all that matters.

Surprisingly enough,I've actually had a few women tell me that they AGREE with what I said here. The only thing that sucks,is that most of the women who responds positively are hundreds of miles away,lol.





However,I just got back from a date with this one chick I met on there.


Now fellas,check this out:I sent her a message telling her I liked her photo,and in my message to her,this is what I sent.....

Subject: liked the photo

(her username),

Saw your picture,thought you were cute,liked what I saw. Kinda surprised you said you were into action movies,I mean that's cool and all,but most women are into lovey-dovey chick flicks. At least you stand out in that reguard.


Myself,I'm just the typical guy who likes all the typical guy things...sports,action movies,cars,big boobs,pizza....you know,"guy stuff".

Anyway,I'd like to see what you're about.

Later.

Uhhh...yeah. In describing myself to her and what I like,yeah,I ACTUALLY SAID "I like big boobs". And her response? Well she said this.....

read your profile and agree with you....and your picture wasn't bad either..lol your a good looking man.

I'm not your typical female...but I do like some girly things but I just wanna have a good life. I am not a high maintinance woman I can pump my own gas and check my oil, but I do like for a guy to open doors for me.

I like cars and pizza....and can even appreciate a nice set of boobs too. If you would like to meet sometime here is my cell number feel free to text or call when you have time.
(her number)

(her name)

I just got back from a date with this chick. She has a cute face,but is a bit overweight. She has verrry nice boobs,freakin' beautiful. She's cute and all,but damn,I couldn't get her to stop talking about all the issues and mishaps in her life.



It's like everytime I'd start a new conversation,somehow,she'd manage to connect some fact in the convo to some unfortunate circumstance that'd happened to her in her life.



We went and played like 3 games of bowling,then just drove around town for a while,then went back to my place. She did the typical "good girl" thing where I'd escalate,she'd resist,then I'd escalate again,then she'd allow it.




She told me that her friend told her not to "go all the way" on the date,so I was like,cool,no problem with that,but just about EVERYTHING ELSE short of "all the way".....we did. Hugging,kissing,her grabbing my....umm...well you guys know,lol.




She had BEAUTIFUL boobs and all,but she was insecure. She wouldn't take her bra all the way off. I had to turn the light off just for her to move her bra down as far as she did.



She had a good time at the bowling alley,couldn't stop talking about. She even said she'd like to go again tomorrow,and offered TO PAY for the whole thing. I turned her down though,said maybe we could get together again on Saturday.



Interesting.....this girl actually TOLD ME she LIKED some of the things I did,which are taught here on the forum,for example....I sent her a message telling her I got her number and would text her mine. After saying that,I let a full day pass before texting her my number.



While out on the date,she was like,"It was kinda cool,because I was like,uhh...is he going to call me or not?". She actually said that to me.



I've only been on the dating site for like a week or two and have found out that a LOT of the things guys say here about internet dating IS TRUE. I guess all you can do is what you can do. If you message one girl and she's not interested,hey,just go on to the next one.



I'd ALWAYS BEEN skeptical of internet dating,but after the date I had tonight....well,I think I'm starting to come around,lol.



Later guys.


Igetit!

 

[WhitePimp]

The way I figure is, if you're good enough to pull in real life, you'll clean up on an online dating site where most dudes are boring as ****, or white knights. Guys like us just know how to stand out from the rest of the pack.

I've yet to take the online plunge, but I've browsed PoF and it seems like I could crush on there. I check out guys' profiles too. Some of the dudes are SOOOO lame it's not even funny.

 

[5string]

Igetit!

You sure have interesting posts. This one included.

Let us know how and when you get it done brother.

 

[Packers2010]

can use what you have wrote and use it on my profile?

please?

it's true what you said. about being friends with girls. it's such a bad idea. i lost my best friend cos of it. i got pumped and dumped.. lol not complaining at all. but i did loose her cos of it an being a chode obvs.

 

[Jaylan]

Shes older(im assuming shes your age, plus im only 24 so over 30 to me is that age where womens pickyness drops), "a bit overweight", has some emotional baggage based on what she constantly talked about during your date, and seems desperate since she was so willing to see you so soon that she wanted to pay for the date. Not to sound like a hater, Im just giving you my realistic opinion. All of this coupled with low self-esteem makes me think thats why shed even let the boobs comment slide since most women online dont stand for any mention of body parts.

Basically I am saying, smash this broad if ya want, but I doubt the approach you used on her would work on the more upper echelon women, as isnt that the women we all want?

Just an honest critique

 

[Solomon]

Shes older(im assuming shes your age, plus im only 24 so over 30 to me is that age where womens pickyness drops), "a bit overweight", has some emotional baggage based on what she constantly talked about during your date, and seems desperate since she was so willing to see you so soon that she wanted to pay for the date. Not to sound like a hater, Im just giving you my realistic opinion. All of this coupled with low self-esteem makes me think thats why shed even let the boobs comment slide since most women online dont stand for any mention of body parts.

Basically I am saying, smash this broad if ya want, but I doubt the approach you used on her would work on the more upper echelon women, as isnt that the women we all want?

Just an honest critique

I agree with this, this won't work with a hotter chick unless she thinks your higher value and even then its iffy

For example

I know plenty of chicks who are average or below who make no qualms about sending me pics (even dirty ones) the hot ones not so unless she deems you worthy

I think your profile is straight to the point but whats up with repeating 3 times you don't want friends we get it already (no pun intended) lol

In terms of your date you did well nothing new, personally I wouldn't take any girl serious just with a grain of salt, smash this chick if you will and move on, sounds like shes a 5 or 6 at best

http://wonkawilly.wordpress.com/

^^I would also suggest reading this, this guy recently went on a second date and smashed the chick. Same type of scenario i.e. LMR, met her on okcupid

IME online, quality is far and few between lot of the girls say one thing but really just wanna get d*ck down good

Once again if your above average looking, and got fairly decent game you will be smashing chicks online left and right. A few years ago i was killing it online and was going on a new date every two weeks.

 

[Igetit!]

Shes older(im assuming shes your age, plus im only 24 so over 30 to me is that age where womens pickyness drops), "a bit overweight", has some emotional baggage based on what she constantly talked about during your date, and seems desperate since she was so willing to see you so soon that she wanted to pay for the date. Not to sound like a hater, Im just giving you my realistic opinion.

That's a pretty good assessment,agree with everything thig you said here. Her suggessting to pay for the date,well she meant the next time on the second date. Yeah,but you're right though. +1 rep.

All of this coupled with low self-esteem makes me think thats why shed even let the boobs comment slide since most women online dont stand for any mention of body parts.

This one is kind of "iffy" because I've sent the EXACT SAME comments out to other women when messaging them,and they've responded back as well.


In fact,right when I got back from this date,I had a message from another chick (like 10 years younger than this one) asking me what's up/how I was doing,to whom I sent the same "boob" comment to.

Basically I am saying, smash this broad if ya want, but I doubt the approach you used on her would work on the more upper echelon women, as isnt that the women we all want?

Yeah,I agree....but I'm NOT changing what I wrote in my desciption.

The "big boob" thing is simply to add a little spice in there. If you notice,I mentioned a lot of safe/nonthreatening things first,like movies,sports,cars,and pizza,which are all cool,but as far as sexual relationships go,are all basically non-factors.



After mentioning a lot of tame things,then out of left field came the boob comment. Basically just a bit of push-pull.



And it's not like I can be accused of lying or trying to tell the chick what I think she'd like to hear.



But yeah,you're bang on with your critique Jaylan.

it's true what you said. about being friends with girls. it's such a bad idea. i lost my best friend cos of it

This is true and all,but most guys don't put something like that in their profiles....which is EXACTLY WHY I put it in mine.

can use what you have wrote and use it on my profile?

please?

Uhhh........why???


A lot of people are members of multiple dating sites. I don't want some chick who could possilbly be a member both this site I found and your site to see the EXACT SAME PROFILE WORD FOR WORD for two different guys.



You're a member of Sosuave just like I am. If you're profile isn't getting any results,or needs to be update,you know the deal,make a thread asking for ideas and suggestions,we'll help out,but I don't want MY profile floating around under some other dude's picture.

I think your profile is straight to the point but whats up with repeating 3 times you don't want friends we get it already (no pun intended) lol

Yeah,I even noticed I repeated the "no friends" thing myself like 2 or 3 days ago. I guess I just didn't feel like changing it,too lazy or whatever.


I'll go back and correct it though. Yeah,twice is enough,lol.

sounds like shes a 5 or 6 at best

Yeah,about a 6 to 6.5. Cute face,but yeah,a tad bit heavy.


Check out something she said to me though,she said....

"Yeah,you could go out and f*ck a skinny chick,but you know what? A bigger girl is going to work harder and do more because she feels like she has more to compensate for."


She ACTUALLY said that...word for word,lol.


Just another testimony of how the info here on Sosuave is bang on.

 

[women haze]

That's why BBW porn is some of the best on the market....

 

[Atom Smasher]

I just can't get myself to have anythig to do with fat chicks anymore. I've tried in the past, but I can't get past it.

Those squishy wrists... yuck!!

 

[BlackMack177]

I just can't get myself to have anythig to do with fat chicks anymore. I've tried in the past, but I can't get past it.

Those squishy wrists... yuck!!

same here man.

Been there done that. I just can't bring myself to lay up with a fat chick anymore. I figure I spend all this time trying to make my body stronger and keep it up, I'm not gonna except less from a chick I get with.

But not to take away fro Igetit. You like what you like. I personally loved the profile. very spot on and not typical boring dating site bullsh1t.

I don't do too much with straight dating sites these days cuz I have yet to meet non fat chick from one. I'm tired of meeting up with chicks who have 5 year old pics from when they were skinny in high school and look nothing like that now.

It seems there aren't that many fly chicks on these sites like POF or OKcupid and the hot ones just want attention because they never respond or stop responding mid convo

The only fly chicks i''ve gotten online were from social networking sites (myspace/face book/ tagged)

 

[Serg897]

Reading your posts is always interesting, IGI.

Something I have also noticed about the women I have met online - they always seem to be of lower quality. Either they have emotional baggage, are slightly crazy, slightly overweight, uninteresting, etc. None have really been "relationship material" for me. I believe thats what drives them to websites like plentyoffish or okcupid in the first place. Meeting the upper echelon of women in terms of looks and personality online seems to be much more difficult.

Then again, it could be that my online skills have yet to develop to that level. These women are constantly bombarded with messages, and you need good pictures an interesting profile and a clever message to really stand out from the rest of the lame guys. I agree with Jaylans critique that Im not sure your profile will work with the higher quality women.

Tonight I just went on a date with a girl I met on POF, and she had the same slight chubbiness that you describe with your girl. If she would only go to the gym and take better care of her body she would be a solid 8, perhaps a 9 - but since she doesn't do this she is more like a 6. Too bad!

 

[LoneWolf]

I just can't get myself to have anythig to do with fat chicks anymore. I've tried in the past, but I can't get past it.

Those squishy wrists... yuck!!

LOL, me too! i remember when i was young i vowed never to fuk a fattie. but now i'm older and i did my first fattie ever a few months ago. i was seeing a fat girl but nice nice face. she was pretty fuking fat though. i was repulsed when fuking her. all those fat rolls moving up and down while i was pounding her. the next few times we fuked was always from behind as i could just look at jessica alba on the wall. she even made grunting noises and heavy breathing when we fuked. it was so nasty.

i'll fuk chubby girls but fatties? NEVER AGAIN!

 

[LoneWolf]

and to the OP. i have pretty much almost met every girl in my life from online. some have actually been fairly good looking too. not all of them are fat believe it or not. i have to say that if it wasnt for the internet i would of missed out on a lot of sex. i stay in more than go out so i'm online a little more than most people but i have met several girls online. i have met girls offline too but seem to have better luck online. it's the new way meeting girls.. a bit harder and more game involved but it happens everyday to many people. keep it up everyone!

 

[EvilAgenda]

I enjoy reading your posts when I run into them, Igetit, that was kinda fun.

Are you going to continue with your experiment on the dating site? Are you going to go out with her again?

 

[Igetit!]

Reading your posts is always interesting, IGI.

Thanks Serg.

I enjoy reading your posts when I run into them, Igetit, that was kinda fun.

Gracias.

Are you going to continue with your experiment on the dating site?

Well here's the thing....

This WHOLE THING was sort of a fluke. It just sorta happened.

I wasn't trying to do any experiements or anything like that,I was just up late one night,surfing around the internet,and just happen to come across the site.



I was just checking out the pictures of women and reading their profiles,when a message popped up and said that if I wanted to further view any more profiles,I'd have to join up.



So I did,but I just threw down some random info just to be able to continue seeing profiles,didn't have any plans to really particpate,didn't even post a picture up. So when I finally did put up a picture of myself,then I got a couple of women calling me "cute",sending me "winks",and a message or two every now and then.



That's when I decided to get a bit more serious about it,but no,in the beginning I wasn't trying to date anybody from there.



That was the first time I ever tried this "online dating" thing.

Are you going to go out with her again?

We've been out three times so far,this past Thursday,Saturday,and just yesterday. She's a decent person and all,but I ain't gonna lie,she is heavier than I expected.

I just wish she'd SHUT UP about all the bad things that's gone on in her life,lol.




But check this out.....the night I got back from my second date with her,I went back to that site,and a different girl had messaged me. I had talked with her before,but then she disappeared,so I just figured she wasn't interested or whatever.


And YES....the same thing I said to this "chubby" girl,that thing about me liking "big boobs",I said it to this girl as well. I thought that maybe me slipping that comment in turned her off or something,but--guess--what?



When I logged in to that site today....she had sent me another message....with her PHONE NUMBER.



Now.....I can only see her face in her picture,so I don't know if she's fat,skinny,somewhere in the middle or what,but the chick is cute.


Anyhow,that's the situation at hand.

 

[ArcBound]

I guess the girls are simply rewarding your honesty for your love of boobs

 

[Londonman09]

LOL, me too! i remember when i was young i vowed never to fuk a fattie. but now i'm older and i did my first fattie ever a few months ago. i was seeing a fat girl but nice nice face. she was pretty fuking fat though. i was repulsed when fuking her. all those fat rolls moving up and down while i was pounding her. the next few times we fuked was always from behind as i could just look at jessica alba on the wall. she even made grunting noises and heavy breathing when we fuked. it was so nasty.

i'll fuk chubby girls but fatties? NEVER AGAIN!

I think I threw up a little in my mouth!!

I don't mind a little junk in the trunk but no fatties. Maybe I'm a bad person for being superficial but I just cant do it.

 

[iqqi]

I wouldn't respond to that profile, Igetit. Even if I thought you were cute (you are good looking esp for your age), your attitude is a turn off.

Then again, I wouldn't date online. But if I DID, your profile would not attract me. You sound too hostile, and like you have woman issues. Plus you come across as desperate. I actually think that any guy who is so anti female friends is desperate. That tells me they can not get a woman to save their lives.

The girl who responded seems desperate too.

Just keeping it real, since that is how you like it, according to your profile.

 

[f283000]

LOL, me too! i remember when i was young i vowed never to fuk a fattie. but now i'm older and i did my first fattie ever a few months ago. i was seeing a fat girl but nice nice face. she was pretty fuking fat though. i was repulsed when fuking her. all those fat rolls moving up and down while i was pounding her. the next few times we fuked was always from behind as i could just look at jessica alba on the wall. she even made grunting noises and heavy breathing when we fuked. it was so nasty.

i'll fuk chubby girls but fatties? NEVER AGAIN!

We really REALLY didn't need to read that

 

[Trump]

We've been out three times so far,this past Thursday,Saturday,and just yesterday. She's a decent person and all,but I ain't gonna lie,she is heavier than I expected.

I just wish she'd SHUT UP about all the bad things that's gone on in her life,lol.


But check this out.....the night I got back from my second date with her,I went back to that site,and a different girl had messaged me. I had talked with her before,but then she disappeared,so I just figured she wasn't interested or whatever.


And YES....the same thing I said to this "chubby" girl,that thing about me liking "big boobs",I said it to this girl as well. I thought that maybe me slipping that comment in turned her off or something,but--guess--what?



When I logged in to that site today....she had sent me another message....with her PHONE NUMBER.



Now.....I can only see her face in her picture,so I don't know if she's fat,skinny,somewhere in the middle or what,but the chick is cute.


Anyhow,that's the situation at hand.

Careful with the first girl, all that yakkity-yack sounds like she wants a therapist who she can sleep with rather than a boyfriend. Tell her to zip it if its turning you off.