wow this girl..... just WOW.

[Pimp-sicle]

my main question is: how exactly does one land into the friend zone?
waiting too long to make a move right?
but i think that's only for people who are afraid of touching the girl, and are not confident.

First of all as nearly everyone else has said, your setting yourself up for failure here due to the mentality you have regarding this girl. And yes, you are DEFINITELY elevating her character due to her looks. Just because she looks good in a pair of jeans, doesn't mean $$$$hit!

Guys end of in the friend zone for a variety of reasons:

-not getting sexual
-not capitalizing on opportunities
-afraid of disappointing her
-always answer when she calls

If she's as hot as your saying, I doubt your the only suitor for her. You need to separate yourself from the herd by showing her that she's just like any other girl. Also in her presence, flirt with other women, get them laughing and attracted to you. Social proof is your #1 tool in your assault of the beautiful woman.

Here's what you should do:

-give her tons of attention for a few minutes....then ignore her completely
-don't always sit by her in your lab class...vary the times in which you arrive to class
-don't turn into a "text friend" with her.
-tease her, flirt with her, stop saying things like "here I feel bad, do you want to sit down??" If she wanted to sit down, she'd sit down!

The funny thing about super hot girls is they just want to be treated like everyone else. However nearly every guy that comes into their life is so in "ahhhh" of their looks that they end up kissssing their @ss like they're royalty and in the process driving the girl away from them.

Finally, just because you have a few other girls your looking at or going on a few casual dates with, DOES NOT make you immune to one-itis. In my opinion you already have one-itis for this byatch. You might need to break away from her for a couple days before this gets bad.


Take control of this situation and go get what you want.


PS: Don't hide your intentions, if you want to take her out, ask her to go out, don't ask her to "study," this isn't an episode of Saved by the Bell bro.




PIMP

 

[tucking fypo]

i say you tease her and pretend not to give her your attention and try to hit on other girls.. make you the prize because it sounds like its the other way around from what your posting,

seriosly no offense but you sound like a teenager who just saw his first love.
Is this the middle school forum? lol jk

 

[tucking fypo]

she has these "once in Lifetime" intense connections with men every other Tuesday.

ROFLLL LLLLLL

yea girls are evil what you said was very much laughable!

 

[Desert Fox]

lol you're gonna "do things your own way."

I think I speak for everyone when I say this is like watching a train wreck is slow motion. But I'm a fan of the matrix movies so I don't mind sloooooooomoooooo

 

[surfdog]

Now think about the stuff you are doing with this hottie...

You have her on a pedestal.

You have oneitis.

Are you starting to see? The exact thing you are doing now is the exact thing that made you and AFC so long ago. And it is the exact same thing that is going to cause you to lose this hottie. You had better come to grips with this reality before she "let's just be friends" you and your next post is about how all women are *****es and how the hottie is not returning your multiple texts and calls.

I guess every once in a while, no matter how much of a DJ you are, you just happe to come across a girl who you know you HAVE to have.... soulmate alert?

Even if he's had her on a pedestal, its not like he's showing it. I mean from what I've read he is definitely not making 'multiple texts and calls' to her...I hope.

 

[surfdog]

ooops stuff up the quote..you guys know what i meannn

 

[Crazy Asian]

thanks for the help guys.
it's great to have people care for you and help you avoid the traps of a women.

i really do appreciate everyone's input.
i might get fvcked over.
it might turn into something good.

i need to find out for myself.
i'll keep you guys updated.
if it turns into a train wreck... then enjoy the show guys. ( in slow mo)

 

[surfdog]

you go get her tiger

 

[MrS]

Oneitis.

 

[Jitterbug]

thanks for the help guys.
it's great to have people care for you and help you avoid the traps of a women.

i really do appreciate everyone's input.
i might get fvcked over.
it might turn into something good.

i need to find out for myself.
i'll keep you guys updated.
if it turns into a train wreck... then enjoy the show guys. ( in slow mo)

That's the way, for someone your age.

Guys, he's 16. Being that young, he needs to experience life by fvcking up. Which one of you here has always been a DJ at the top of his game since you were a teenager? How many of you have learned from your failures?

Make a move, Crazy Asian, find out for yourself. You can't undo what you've already done. Might as well go for it.

You know what's worse? Keeping your crush hidden inside and not making a move ever - be it you're afraid of rejection, or afraid of not being DJ enough to SoSuavers' liking. Now THAT is AFC. You will regret that decades later.

 

[PumpingIron13]

she has these "once in Lifetime" intense connections with men every other Tuesday.

I would say that sounds about right...sad but true.

 

[PumpingIron13]

But eh ...to add to this post... I agree, at 16 years old I acted exactly the same, only a year later I found this site. I had oneitis but didnt know what the **** it was...I did a bunch of things right like you did crazyasian and she liked me but I was a ***** and it was in a bio class...same situation...fact of the matter is with her I learned every lesson in the DJ bible i later read about within a 2.5 year period where i was obsessed as she slowly became sluttier and sluttier...no matter what dont let ur vision get clogged...like the other dude said she flirted with you and happens to be insanely hot..this is no reason to act crazy about her...if you dont even think your in her league, how do u think she flirts with guys that ARE in her league...douchebags that probly dont even know this site exists but aren't afraid to look her in the eyes and basically say "HEY I WANNA **** YOU!"

Do you understand? You need to look out for numero uno and thats you...right now all you care about is her and how to get her and thats why youve had multiple posts on here...no matter how special you think a girl thinks you are you cant change the gameplan...no matter what man

ALL GIRLS ARE THE SAME

Especially hot ones...you think she doesn't know how hot she is? Are you the only guy who flirts with her? Theres no problem trying to go for only one girl really if your not obsessed with her man.
Right now you dont need to act hard to get with her that much or ignore her...you have to hit on her hard and let her know your serious...dont hit her with a risque sex joke and then say JK! like a queer, flirt back with her and with confidence make it clear that your interest in her isnt a joke, but far from the obsession that you currently have...

just my 2 cents...and she probly will be banging your entire school in a year or 2

 

[macallik]

There is no sadder sight than a young pessimist.

Mark Twain

It scares me that half of the board assumes she is a slut simply because she shows interest in a guy and is attractive.

If you think there is a connection Crazy Asain, go for it. Have fun in the moment and don't expect it to last forever and it will be amazing. I had a girl like that when I was younger and I didn't do anything. In retrospect she was not the sexiest girl or whatever but as long as I perceived her to be, she was. If I had gotten with her I would likely be a different person than I am today. There is no telling what can come of it so just go for it. Just remember there are other fish if this doesn't work out and you are golden.

Oh and kill all this technical terms and seductive mumbo jumbo. You are 16 man, just enjoy chasing skirts

 

[Crazy Asian]

i know she talks to all the hot guys.
but it doesn't really phase me.
thanks for everyone's input.

 

[Alle_Gory]

I've gotten one-itis a few times. But never so quickly and intensely. Jesus man.


I wouldn't go for it if I were you. You're not yourself, and your game is non-existent with this state of mind. Its a guaranteed fail that is going to crush you emotionally when you understand this "once in a lifetime" connection.

We all know what you're going to do and the result.

Good luck.




Just out of curiosity, have you ever considered friend-zoning her instead and maybe striking later? After you clear your head?

Its worked for me before. Preemptive strike.