ok gents, had a revelation tonight that just may change entirely the way i see the woman population. figured id post in case it helps anyone thinking about similar ideas.
over the years ive always had a penchant for b*tches. Never really known why.
so i got to thinking about what a b*tch really is? and you know it comes down to a very very simple definition. A b*tch is a woman who 1) sees herself as a perpetual victim and 2) hates (blames) men.
when i realized this, i realized that strangely enough my mother has both these traits. She's one of hte nicest women in a social environment, but when she gets upset and lets her inner thoughts come out she expresses herself as a victim. and when she speak of men she speaks of them in a polite but derogatory type manner.
this got me to thinking, i bet a good 70% of men out there (if not more) have similar mothers. I mean, think about it, these women were able to trap some AFC (our fathers) and hold onto them and our fathers took their crap.
hey, im sure lots of folks out there had great caring mothers who don't victimize themselves and don't talk negatively about men, so for those of you do, don't go slamming me for this post
i know this sounds a bit 'wuss' like. im not blaming my mother for anything, just explaining how various social conditioning has lead to a pesrpective on women.
but heres the revelation. I've had TONS of very cute, very nice women interested in my over the years. Yet I rarely gave them much thought. I've always ended up with the selfish beauties.
why? my revelation comes down to this. IT'S WHAT IVE ALWAYS KNOWN.
it is what I had for a model growing up of what a woman is suppose to be like. sweet on the outside, bitter on the inside.
i think it took a LONG time to see this because i'm not a big fan of that 'your a product of your childhood' chit. but its hard to explain, but it really explains a lot.
I realized that i've been sabotaging myself in my choice of women because of what i associate a "woman" as being.
there's this stunning cutey that i know who is shy and very caring. she's been macking on me and i've been hardly paying her much attention.
it's time to break the cycle and start dating the man-lovers out there, instead of the man-haters.
oh a couple thoughts on the whole b*tch/manhaters thing. I think a lot of these "b*tches" really don't want a man at all. I think they want validation of their "victim" idealogy and i think they want to make men feel as victimized as they do.
i honestly think a lot of these women, regardless of how nice they seem on the outside, have so much repressed anger that they need to let it out on someone. And i think that they know that only some love-sick AFC will put up with their emotional abuse and manipulation.
i don't know guys, this feels like a milestone moment in my life. NO MORE B*TCHES for me.
and the thing that im so jazzed about is that in a wierd way, looking back on all the women in my life, it seems so obviously NOW which ones were b*tches and which ones weren't. But until tonight they were all just one big blur of womanhood.
I suspect many might share a similar predicament given the widespread acceptance men seem to have for b*tches. Hell, millions get oneitis over a b*tch. but why?
perhaps it might just be because we were raised by women who had little respect for men and what they go through in life. perhaps, like moths to the flame, we are drawn to what we know.
meanwhile. there are tons of nice women caring women out there that we never find ourselves attracted to because we aren't drawn to them.
i see women treat men with such disrespect and act like absolute children in their lack of ability to be honest and forthright and to control their emotions.... and yet men are lining up to have them kick them in the balls.
this is crazy!!!!!
screw what our models were as children. screw letting some b*tch kick you in the balls because all the women you've known all act the same way.
it's time to say NO to the b*tches and start saying YES to the man-lovers!
anyway, interested in hearing thoughts anyone might have on this. I know it might sound a bit far fetched and freaudian, but i honestly think theres a lot of truth to this post.
J
over the years ive always had a penchant for b*tches. Never really known why.
so i got to thinking about what a b*tch really is? and you know it comes down to a very very simple definition. A b*tch is a woman who 1) sees herself as a perpetual victim and 2) hates (blames) men.
when i realized this, i realized that strangely enough my mother has both these traits. She's one of hte nicest women in a social environment, but when she gets upset and lets her inner thoughts come out she expresses herself as a victim. and when she speak of men she speaks of them in a polite but derogatory type manner.
this got me to thinking, i bet a good 70% of men out there (if not more) have similar mothers. I mean, think about it, these women were able to trap some AFC (our fathers) and hold onto them and our fathers took their crap.
hey, im sure lots of folks out there had great caring mothers who don't victimize themselves and don't talk negatively about men, so for those of you do, don't go slamming me for this post
i know this sounds a bit 'wuss' like. im not blaming my mother for anything, just explaining how various social conditioning has lead to a pesrpective on women. but heres the revelation. I've had TONS of very cute, very nice women interested in my over the years. Yet I rarely gave them much thought. I've always ended up with the selfish beauties.
why? my revelation comes down to this. IT'S WHAT IVE ALWAYS KNOWN.
it is what I had for a model growing up of what a woman is suppose to be like. sweet on the outside, bitter on the inside.
i think it took a LONG time to see this because i'm not a big fan of that 'your a product of your childhood' chit. but its hard to explain, but it really explains a lot.
I realized that i've been sabotaging myself in my choice of women because of what i associate a "woman" as being.
there's this stunning cutey that i know who is shy and very caring. she's been macking on me and i've been hardly paying her much attention.
it's time to break the cycle and start dating the man-lovers out there, instead of the man-haters.
oh a couple thoughts on the whole b*tch/manhaters thing. I think a lot of these "b*tches" really don't want a man at all. I think they want validation of their "victim" idealogy and i think they want to make men feel as victimized as they do.
i honestly think a lot of these women, regardless of how nice they seem on the outside, have so much repressed anger that they need to let it out on someone. And i think that they know that only some love-sick AFC will put up with their emotional abuse and manipulation.
i don't know guys, this feels like a milestone moment in my life. NO MORE B*TCHES for me.
and the thing that im so jazzed about is that in a wierd way, looking back on all the women in my life, it seems so obviously NOW which ones were b*tches and which ones weren't. But until tonight they were all just one big blur of womanhood.
I suspect many might share a similar predicament given the widespread acceptance men seem to have for b*tches. Hell, millions get oneitis over a b*tch. but why?
perhaps it might just be because we were raised by women who had little respect for men and what they go through in life. perhaps, like moths to the flame, we are drawn to what we know.
meanwhile. there are tons of nice women caring women out there that we never find ourselves attracted to because we aren't drawn to them.
i see women treat men with such disrespect and act like absolute children in their lack of ability to be honest and forthright and to control their emotions.... and yet men are lining up to have them kick them in the balls.
this is crazy!!!!!
screw what our models were as children. screw letting some b*tch kick you in the balls because all the women you've known all act the same way.
it's time to say NO to the b*tches and start saying YES to the man-lovers!
anyway, interested in hearing thoughts anyone might have on this. I know it might sound a bit far fetched and freaudian, but i honestly think theres a lot of truth to this post.
J
