arutha
Senior Don Juan
So I've been in a LTR for the better part of 2 years, for the first 18 months it was fantastic and she was all over me. In the last couple of months... Well, she has been acting a bit like a b!tch. Actually, a LOT like a b!tch. Going out partying a lot more, ignoring me when she is around, not f*cking me much... I think I made a thread about it a while ago. Who knows, maybe I became a bit soft. Probably. Maybe I opened up too much. I genuinely thought (lolZ) that in a LTR both people supported the other in times of need, rather than us supporting the girl through sh!t and her running for the hills when we have trouble.
2 weeks ago, out of the blue, I initiated no contact, without a word to her. As she left my place after another weekend of hardly paying attention to me, I spat a sarcastic comment (thanks for another weekend of fun and spending time together *rollseyes) and she apologized for it and said she would contact me soon.
Mid week or so she invites me over for dinner. I tell her I'm busy and don't want to. She asks me when I'm free. I don't reply. I guess the ball is kinda in my court, all of a sudden we have gone from seeing each other every few days to basically nothing in 2 weeks. It is getting more and more tempting to contact her, even if just to make sure she is thinking about me still and blow her off for a bit longer.
Part of me wants to try to fix things, part of me has already moved on and is itching for new targets. I don't care what you 'masters' say, after being in a LTR and opening up to the girl, really getting close, falling in love, it is very f*cking hard to end it. Especially when there are career stresses in your life that you don't want to add to, for another month or so.
I'm keeping no contact, I will actually be a little bit free on tuesday night so I am thinking about messaging her on tuesday and asking her along to wherever I'm going to be on tuesday night, to see what happens. In the meantime, it is hard not to drop a message on facebook or whatever. And hard not to message about this weekend. I cannot remember the last time we didn't spend the weekend together.
2 weeks ago, out of the blue, I initiated no contact, without a word to her. As she left my place after another weekend of hardly paying attention to me, I spat a sarcastic comment (thanks for another weekend of fun and spending time together *rollseyes) and she apologized for it and said she would contact me soon.
Mid week or so she invites me over for dinner. I tell her I'm busy and don't want to. She asks me when I'm free. I don't reply. I guess the ball is kinda in my court, all of a sudden we have gone from seeing each other every few days to basically nothing in 2 weeks. It is getting more and more tempting to contact her, even if just to make sure she is thinking about me still and blow her off for a bit longer.
Part of me wants to try to fix things, part of me has already moved on and is itching for new targets. I don't care what you 'masters' say, after being in a LTR and opening up to the girl, really getting close, falling in love, it is very f*cking hard to end it. Especially when there are career stresses in your life that you don't want to add to, for another month or so.
I'm keeping no contact, I will actually be a little bit free on tuesday night so I am thinking about messaging her on tuesday and asking her along to wherever I'm going to be on tuesday night, to see what happens. In the meantime, it is hard not to drop a message on facebook or whatever. And hard not to message about this weekend. I cannot remember the last time we didn't spend the weekend together.