Would you tell a girl you like her

[TheChad-Ster]

That would be very juvenile and insecure. A lot of guys are so insecure that the will try to elicit a response from women to get a feel of how that woman felt about them.

The subject of "do you like me" rarely comes up in adult relationships. It is assumed because the two of you are hanging out and doing the nasty.


Cheers

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Really. And how many of those women from the office did you have sex with? Oh, right, you're probably still a virgin.

I already said on another thread that I have a c0ckblocking set up. So, I cant do anything other than use my fleshlight. When I have a nice connection with a girl, it enhances the fantasy gradient -- the possibility that something could happen if pursued enhances a masturbation experience. You think subconciously she wants it badly and you then use a fleshlight.
This is known as 'short-circuiting'.

My mom does not give me permission to flirt with a married woman, when she was getting too friendly, my mom said no stay away from her, and I obeyed her.

My dad had another engagement so I could not go out with another girl. Generally business is slow and I do not have time for girls, I'm more focused on making money now than trivial pursuits because if I'm not making money in a Real-Estate office, but paying all sorts of fees, then why am I there?

Finally, I don't want to have sex anyway with someone I'm not married to. So, this deals with potential. I don't set girls up to have sex with me and bail out at the last minute for an ego-trip so the line is cut far before that can happen.

 

[Kal0051]

I already said on another thread that I have a c0ckblocking set up. So, I cant do anything other than use my fleshlight. When I have a nice connection with a girl, it enhances the fantasy gradient -- the possibility that something could happen if pursued enhances a masturbation experience. You think subconciously she wants it badly and you then use a fleshlight.
This is known as 'short-circuiting'.

My mom does not give me permission to flirt with a married woman, when she was getting too friendly, my mom said no stay away from her, and I obeyed her.

My dad had another engagement so I could not go out with another girl. Generally business is slow and I do not have time for girls, I'm more focused on making money now than trivial pursuits because if I'm not making money in a Real-Estate office, but paying all sorts of fees, then why am I there?

Finally, I don't want to have sex anyway with someone I'm not married to. So, this deals with potential. I don't set girls up to have sex with me and bail out at the last minute for an ego-trip so the line is cut far before that can happen.

ok, so your a 30 year old man who does everything your mom says? I bet you live with her too right? Hate to tell you but based on your opinions/experience with dealing with women I highly doubt you'll find one that will marry you. My guess is that your mom instilled some messed up ideas into your head, one's that impeded your normal social development. And unfortunately since your so old you probably won't be able to change that without some extreme work (first and foremost is cutting your mom out of your life, she's a negative influence to you). Before you post anymore bad advice I'd take a long hard look at your life.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

ok, so your a 30 year old man who does everything your mom says? I bet you live with her too right? Hate to tell you but based on your opinions/experience with dealing with women I highly doubt you'll find one that will marry you.

I don't think so. There are desperate women out there. Likely will be a black woman in her mid-thirties.

My guess is that your mom instilled some messed up ideas into your head, one's that impeded your normal social development. And unfortunately since your so old you probably won't be able to change that without some extreme work (first and foremost is cutting your mom out of your life, she's a negative influence to you). Before you post anymore bad advice I'd take a long hard look at your life.

I think my mom is cool. I'm talking to two women right now, both are long distance, but where I may visit them or they may visit me that both love my mom too. I concede there is no-one locally -- but I've put it to the test. I've just up up a dating profile that says I'm a momma's boy, and that I'm looking for a new friend of the family to see how many responses I get. Maybe you are wrong.

 

[Maxtro]

Man Luke, sometimes you even make me cringe.

What happened to..

1) Stop talking about my love life with my mom or asking mom permission (or dad) of who to see or date.

2) Record any instance where I'm 'hiding behind my mom or dad' as to avoid potential rejection from women -- that's usually a personal vice. Will look for excuses to stick to parents and avoid women.

Your parents can not help you. Do not wait till you are married. You are far beyond the age of waiting. Women do not want a mommas boy.

This probably sounds funny coming from me but, you need to loosen up.

 

[CaptainJ]

Maybe you are wrong.

Nope, there is not even the slightest chance we are wrong. And there is absolutely no chance that you are right.

Please can a moderator ban this guy? I know it's interesting to listen to his incredibly deluded view points and pat ourselves on the back knowing we are leagues above him, but this is getting to the point of infuriation. Luke Skywalker is everything a Man should NOT be. He is the Anti-Man, epitome of Failure in life, And the sad thing is that he does not even try to correct his life, because he has been brainwashed by his Over protective mother into believing such delusions.

 

[Luke Skywalker]

Man Luke, sometimes you even make me cringe.

What happened to..

Yeah, what I talked about happened before I wrote that post. The new dating profile is sort of for kicks and not intended to be serious.

 

[Kal0051]

Luke - no I'm not wrong. But you missed the point regardless, your a grown man who "obeys" whatever his mother tells him. Can you not think for yourself? And your plan is to marry a desperate woman? The only reason one of these women would go for you is because they don't want to die alone and childless. And if you do end up marrying someone who settles for you, she'll just end up cheating on you endlessly and you won't do anything about it. Is that what you want out of life? If it is don't bother to come back to this forum, it's clear that you have no intention to change your life to get what (or in this case who) you want, and you posting your mom's opinions on women aren't gonna help anyone here.

 

[Kal0051]

Luke Skywalker is everything a Man should NOT be. He is the Anti-Man, epitome of Failure in life

lol, epic

 

[Rhoto]

I ask because I've thought of doing that with this one chick. We barely know each other but I would like to and I'm thinking about just casually telling that to her. I'm not looking for any reaction from her, but I'm not sure why I'm thinking about telling her this. I know maybe I shouldn't tell her but I keep getting the urge to do it. What do you think?

In your case no. Bad idea.

Though I don't believe we can make a blanket statement that showing interest is a bad idea. You just need to properly execute it.

1) Never say outright what you feel to a woman. Let her bring up the topic, you want to appear that it doesn't matter to you what she thinks (which it shouldn't).

2) If you want to convey interest to her and you've satisfied the guideline above do it indirectly or backhandedly.

Ex -

Female - So, Rhoto...what do you think of me? (Also can be disguised as: Are you having a good time, what are you doing next weekend, what are you going to do after, are you seeing any one else)

Rhoto - *Smirking* *Sniff the air* (Sniffing at the neck just below the ear is good, and you never know may turn into a kiss right there) You're not - bad. *Small grin*

Female - Oh shut up! Whatever she says is really irrelevant, because if she is bringing up the issue, she obviously finds you interesting and attractive on some level.

Great opening for physical contact, I've been slapped on the shoulder innumerable times in this situation, and a great way to counter that is with - "Now I owe you one." A firm tap on the ass at the appropriate time, followed by - "Now we're even" *wicked grin/smirk/general scoundrel behavior*

She'll love it.

Hope this helps,

Rhoto

 

[Kal0051]

hmm, I originally started this thread because I wanted to start a discussion about this, I figured ppl would have varying opinions. It kind of got off track though, lol.

 

[R19]

I know.... totally - it has been hijacked by American Greetings. Show them, drive them wild, be a challenge, and qualify them, get in their world... You are worth it just as much as they are. Talk is cheap... and if you tell someone you like them early, it's sends all the wrong signals like 'wow, a chick is showing me some IOI, I can't believe it!!!'

 

[r0cky]

Dont ever tell a girl you like her.
But do let them know if theres something that you like about them.
Such as "You're really caring, i like that about you"