Would you take someone else's girlfriend?

Would you "steal" a girl who is taken if you liked her?

  • Yes, I believe in a free market system.

    Votes: 34 59.6%
  • No, it's unethical and out of bounds.

    Votes: 23 40.4%

  • Total voters
    57

poohead

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women who 'flirt around' while in a relationship, looking for the guy while in the security of an established relationship - while their bf is unsuspecting - these women are cowards and lower than dirt. either have some balls and end it - or stay with your bf and work things out.

this type of woman is basically a cheater. when this happens to you you will know what i'm talking about. and you don't want to date one of these people, if a girl is willing to do this to her current guy, then she will do it to you.
 

MVPlaya

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sexy_kuta said:
its like a mutal respect man.. what if someone takes ur girl
Then you shouldn't have been with her in the first place.

And to the OP, I have. Many times.
 

OzyBoy

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No i wouldn't. If someone did that to me i would want to bash the crap out of them.
 

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Once again I post my infamous rules on the issue. I voted Yes (as in steal) as most of my rules allow it. I stick to these rules like a priest does a bible. They keep my conscience clean. As long as i stick to what i agree to im ok.

If a mate likes a girl but hes not made a move: Fair Game

If a mate is going out with a girl: No go area

If a mate is currently shagging her but not going out: No go area

If shes a mates ex: Ask mate. Depending on what he says is either no go or fair game.

If shes in a relationship but i dont know or really care about the guy: Fair Game

If shes married: Fair game but be careful

To be a mate in my world you have to be someone i talk to on a regular basis. Someone i trust and respect.
 

Jariel

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Yes, I've done it many times, although I don't see it as "taking" someone else's girlfriend as I've never really set out to break them up and steal her away. It's more a case of just being the better option for her and letting her see that the grass IS greener on the other side.

There are SOOO many women who are unsatisfied in their relationships, not attracted to their partners and just settling for someone who isn't right. Now if they meet someone they really like, who really likes them and who can make them happy, surely it's better to pursue them than to live a lie with someone they'll just grow to resent with time.

Imagine being with a girl who's not really attracted to you, who secretly fantasises about other men and fakes her affection and attraction to you, just out of loyalty!

At least by "taking" a girl away from her boyfriend you give him the option of meeting someone who genuinely likes him and free him from the lie that is his relationship.

That said, I won't allow a woman to cheat on her boyfriend with me. I've been in that position so many times, but always refuse. Cheating is low and can really fvck up a person's head, leave them with major trust issues, screw up all their future relationships and their attitudes towards the opposite sex, so for me it's all or nothing. If they're not willing to leave their boyfriends for me, then they don't get to be with me at all.
 

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Voted No.

The girls that have boyfriends are nodes of contacts for me. Befriend them, and screw their hot friends instead.
 
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