Would you still continue with a girl after she’s been with someone else?

Rudy_TubeSteak

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Am I too selfish if I try to get the girls I'm seeing to be "EXCLUSIVELY CASUAL"?

That takes out the possibility of doing other people as well as the pressures and expectation of aproper relationship.

"Baby I'm selfish, I want you to myself I can't help it" - Slum Village
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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