Franky Four Fingers
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This in my experience has been the case, kindness without supplication. I treat my woman EXCEPTIONALLY well. Hold open doors, buy dinner, carry all the groceries, flowers almost weekly, compliment her looks often, you name it. Heck her family looks up to me for how I treat her.Jeffst1980 said:There's a lot of truth here, but I don't think it's that simple. You can be compassionate and kind without supplicating--and the whole "nice" thing isn't really about kindness, it's about supplicating and expecting something in return. "Nice" is really just synonymous with needy, unattractive behaviors, as I see it-it's not even GENUINE kindness, as when you expect nothing in return.
Sounds just like supplicating doesn't it? Sounds almost sickening when you read it doesn't it?
Does this make me beta? Not in the least. I know I am the prize but just as significant SHE knows I know it. How? She can sense it in my demeanor and how I carry myself with carefree confidence.
How do I know I'm the prize? What's my basis for this realization? Simple; because of how I treat her and other people. No I'm not a social hero, no I'm not a millionaire. It doesn't matter. Heck she makes more than me and to her it doesn't matter (doesn't to me for that matter).
She thinks I'm God's gift not just because of how I treat her but she knows the second she gets out of line she's knows I'm ready to walk INSTANTLY if circumstance calls for it. This has the effect of her realizing she will lose a great man and she knows the as*holes won't treat her as well.
Yes I treat her like a Queen but she treats me like a King in return. Who's ahead in that hierarchy? She cooks for me, cleans, alot of compliments, ton's of sex (she wants it even more than me), I'm on the couch she gets up and puts a pillow under my head and feet, reciprocates buying dinner, makes herself attractive whenever she sees me, sends alot of sweet texts/phone calls, etc.
Doesn't sound as sickening to hear when your on the receiving end.
So yes you can treat a woman with "beta" like behavior but only as long as you carry yourself with 100% confidence that you are the prize and they know you realize that and they know your ready to walk if they get out of line.
Treat people well and take no sh*t in return.
Once you got that down the alpha beta thing takes care of itself.
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