Would you dump a perfect girl if the sex was bad?

[Ashlee Angel]

If you found that perfect girl for you. The one that cooks, cleans and likes sports.


She's pretty and everything. But sex with her is real bad. No matter what you did it was still bad.

Would you next her.


Or what if it was deeper than that what if you were ready to get married would you do it?

 

[toot86]

noo.

YOu could still use her for social proof... Handjobs,B/js...

and plus you can teach her how to become better..

if not you can sell her to your friends for 100 bucks a hour..


Thats what I Do with my scraps..

but wouldnt dump her .. instead recycle her

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Ashlee Angel
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She's pretty and everything. But sex with her is real bad. No matter what you did it was still bad.

Would you next her.


Or what if it was deeper than that what if you were ready to get married would you do it?

What has she done or said when tried to incorporate change into your lovemaking. Has she said that she'd try to adjust and has gone along with it or is she completely opposed to it?

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Not as long as I had hope that it could ever get better...

 

[myfriendblu]

Awe man you must have been reading my mind cause I would love to chime in here, based on RECENT experiences.

Hooked up with a decent looking HB that had extreme IL in me, basically AFC over me, and would do anything I asked. Yup, as you guessed, she was a dud in the sack. Lame - O. NEXTED her without question.

One thing that I have pig - headedly learned, the hard way, (basically i was in denial) Is that you really can NOT change a girls sexual capabilities. Sure, you can show her a few tips and she may spark up a little here and there, but from my experience with PLENTY of girls in the sack, what you see is what you get. A girls interest in sex, her sexual needs/wants/capabilities, aren't really changable. Oh, maybe temporary, but she WILL revert back to her old ways.

It kinda reminds me of IL. There are things you can do to raise/lower it SLIGHTLY, but bottom line, it is what it is.

 

[Ashlee Angel]

Re: Re: Would you dump a perfect girl if the sex was bad?

Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
What has she done or said when tried to incorporate change into your lovemaking. Has she said that she'd try to adjust and has gone along with it or is she completely opposed to it?

No Playboy my sex life is great with my gf. I was just wondering would people would do if they had the perfect women.


But she was bad in bed. Would they keep her or is sex that importaint that they would give all of that stuff up just because she can't fvck.


If I was in that situation I wouldn't know what to do. That is a hard call. Bad sex is almost like not having sex at all.

 

[TesuqueRed]

I had -- well, not a perfect girl, but one that was amazing. Except in bed. She was sensual, but I had a feeling similar to when you're very hungry, eat a big meal and somehow something wasn't satisfied even though you're stuffed. I had that same feeling regarding sex with her.

If we stay together, I figured, I would give myself permission to step out 1-2 a year---and I wasn't the cheating sort, either.

I think some of the issues this poll is getting at are
---people are afraid of facing the fact that they may need to end a relationship because the sexual/sensual part is a bad match--it's admitting failure or that problems may exist there. Or they're desperate to be in a relationship and are afraid to go back out on the market (very common, this..)
---so people often don't acknowledge or respect their own sexual/sensual needs in a relationship.
---and won't/can't/are afraid to communicate about it.

To next or not to next based on bad sex?

If not to next, then work on it or just live with it?

All are valid answers in the right context. If it's just a mismatch and that's all it will ever be, end it. If it can be improved, work on it. If sex isn't that important, don't worry about it.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by Ashlee Angel
If you found that perfect girl for you. The one that cooks, cleans and likes sports.

Sounds like perfection to me...

 

[die4me]

50/50 right now

Good question. Me, I don't really know because so far none of the girlfriends I've had were bad in bed. Lucky me. I don't think I would dump a girl over that though, as long as one of her friends was good and she was okay with a threesome.

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

I'd ensure she would learn how to give good sex in time, if she was not receptive to my teaching then she would visit the next list.

M.A.C.

 

[KiInCollege]

I can see a girl having this choice between an otherwise great guy who is a ten second man. She'd probably drop his ass, or if they already shacked up, have him undergo some kind of medical treatment.

Reason I think of this is no matter how BAD a girl is, unless she is fat/ugly, a man can STILL get his rocks off in her. A girl with a poor performer, on the other hand, can only walk to the bathroom later and cut on the massager. And the guy wonders why he only gets ONS and nothing more.

 

[Quick]

Originally posted by GigaloDJ
YES. If the sex is bad...she's not perfect.

Companionship is great, but you can get that from male friends without all of the drama. The reason why we need girls is for sex and the end result of sex, children. People try to forget that sometimes.

If the sex is unsatisfying, then she's not the one. Of course if she had everything else going for her, anyone would try to improve her sexual performance. But if doesn't improve, she's gone.

 

[NMMWCR]

You didn't really define bad.

If she just isn't properly responsive, she prolly just needs more work on the front end to start her engine. The fire that starts slowest burns longest though.

Most likely no.

 

[Ashlee Angel]

Originally posted by NMMWCR
You didn't really define bad.

If she just isn't properly responsive, she prolly just needs more work on the front end to start her engine. The fire that starts slowest burns longest though.

Most likely no.

Okay Bad in my sence is when your having sex and she is just their she is off beat and it's just a pain in the azz.

You tryed to teach her and everything but she was just bad in bed.


That's what I meant. I am not having these problems in my life now I was just thinking about that and decieded to post about it.

 

[tiburon]

MAn

I make sex good..maybe the first couple of time wont be the best..but i know any girl with me will become a hurricane in a matter of seconds.....

Tiburon


PErfect Girls and shy girls make best lovers.......but it depends who is the Don Juan doing the job

A srdine or A SHARK..HAHAHa

 

[Player_Supreme]

You can't of done all you could if it is still bad, cause anybody can learn if you communicate your desires to her. I once had a girlfriend whom ****ed what I called like "white folks" ( I was young back then 28 years old) since she was white go figure...I taught her how to slow it down and become more passionate and she became the greatest sex that I ever have....to this day I still compare all the others to her. We could climax together anytime I wanted us too. Everything clicked...I don't know if it was because she was half portugeese (latin style race) or what...

I currently have a german girl...if you playa's know anything about germans...not the most passionate of races but she comes close to the ex from along time ago...and is still learning.

So that shyt is teachable.

 

[SamePendo]

Definitively would NOT dump her. I see as sex as a slice of the big cake, not the cake itself.
Im sure everyone who says theyd dump her is because sex is a bigger slice of the cake.

 

[electron]

I am sure it can be improved...is she open to try new positions..experiment and $hit

 

[So pimp its scary]

This might be a bit of a different situation... I was with a girl that was amazing (8 in looks, 9 in personality), except that in her mind sex before marriage is immoral... (I personnaly believe that waiting till marriage to have sex is immoral)

Anyway, I know that sex with this woman would have also been amazing, except that she didn't want anything to do with it... So, before I ended up cheating on her, I broke it offf...

But, if the sex was just bad... I would at least try and 'fix' her before nexting.

 

[( . )( . )]

nah i would keep her around, who cares if shes a dud, you can still blast one off even if shes sh!t, will just take longer.
but if it started to really annoy me, i would bang other chicks(would anyway but thats different thread).

i dont think you can train chicks who are crap once there sex acts become hardwired, maybe. and even if you can by putting a little or lot more effort in i dont think i would be arsed (unless i was ugly and had no game)
personally if the foreplay didnt work that works just fine with a chick whos really into me , why bother.