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would you date a girl with kids?
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she sure knows how to pick em eh? Think you can give her the gina tingles her two bad boy baby daddies did?
Seriously though, Pump and Dump Bro. You shoulda learned from the last one. You know in your heart you aren't gonna play house with this chic nor take care of her kids. So have your fun and move along. Also remember, she'll let you hit it raw, but she won't abort...just a nice little reminder for ya.
Seriously though, Pump and Dump Bro. You shoulda learned from the last one. You know in your heart you aren't gonna play house with this chic nor take care of her kids. So have your fun and move along. Also remember, she'll let you hit it raw, but she won't abort...just a nice little reminder for ya.
I'd like to say no, but what happens when you get older and most women have gone thru their marriage/kids/divorce phase?
It's like guys on here saying they only have sex with virgins - unless you're an oil sheik, I'm not sure how well that's going to work out.
It's like guys on here saying they only have sex with virgins - unless you're an oil sheik, I'm not sure how well that's going to work out.
5string
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5string
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Yea I did. The OP asked if you should get with a girl with kids.Kerpal said:
The answer is no.
Attraction isn't a choice. Attraction never changes. What does change are motivational priorities—like a girl getting knocked up by the strong dominant male and then finding a beta provider, or the other way around with cuckoldry. The whole notion of girls finally "realizing" through "maturity" in their mid-twenties they like nice guys is a canard.
Go young.
The question was what do you do then? Everyone on here says "date younger women", but that's easier said than done. Every older guy is trying to pull this off, very few of them are successful.5string said:
Sometimes I think guys on here are a little too optimistic about getting older.
Again, easier said than done. Every older guy is trying to do this, how do you pull it off unless you're at the top of the pyramid?Rogue said:
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5string
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Kerpal......the OP asked, "would you date girls with kids?.
IMO, you don't. Then nothing else matters.
In my case as I explained, it cost me the best years of my life. So, I tell others that single mommies are not worth your time and can damage one deeply. If you want one for a FB, that's fine. The key is not to become emotionally attached or you'll be spending your weekends at Chucky Cheese and changing diapers in the park on your time off. Oh, and have fun being second in her life, dealing with a fvcked up baby daddy who just got out of prison while you save every spare dime for college tuition.
IMO, you don't. Then nothing else matters.
In my case as I explained, it cost me the best years of my life. So, I tell others that single mommies are not worth your time and can damage one deeply. If you want one for a FB, that's fine. The key is not to become emotionally attached or you'll be spending your weekends at Chucky Cheese and changing diapers in the park on your time off. Oh, and have fun being second in her life, dealing with a fvcked up baby daddy who just got out of prison while you save every spare dime for college tuition.
5string
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Well, that's a good question. I could do it without much problem but I don't.Kerpal said:
I do think most guys could as women in general have been taught that it's ok to get with older men. If they have money and status, then they'll go much older and not think twice about it.
Drdeee
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I'd date a girl with kids and make her my fak buddy but wouldn't get into anything serious with her.
A girl that is 22 with 2 kids you have to understand is not a good catch, and she probably is looking for something serious, preferably with a guy who has a lot of cash.
If you ever marry a girl like that those kids will be yours, and if you ever divorce her, you'd pay child support for them. Plus there is no telling she wouldn't make 3rd 4th and 5th kids with other guys while with you. Bad catch.
Now, goats have kids. People have children. That's why you will never hear elites talk about their children as kids. We call ours kids because there is no distinction for us, because we are not aware of the esoteric/hidden societies of people who control us through politician puppets.
A girl that is 22 with 2 kids you have to understand is not a good catch, and she probably is looking for something serious, preferably with a guy who has a lot of cash.
If you ever marry a girl like that those kids will be yours, and if you ever divorce her, you'd pay child support for them. Plus there is no telling she wouldn't make 3rd 4th and 5th kids with other guys while with you. Bad catch.
Now, goats have kids. People have children. That's why you will never hear elites talk about their children as kids. We call ours kids because there is no distinction for us, because we are not aware of the esoteric/hidden societies of people who control us through politician puppets.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
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I think this is the crux of this whole thread, and leads to some confusion...Drdeee said:
Yes, feel free to "date" a girl with kids, but don't get serious with her. Don't fall into the trap of becoming her beta provider. If you have the knowledge on how things work, you can avoid that. It's the guys that have no clue that get hooked into that scheme.
Or, like 5string says, avoid them completely. Personally, I avoid them completely. I don't want the drama attached, even for something not serious. But, other guys could have some fun there as long as you don't take these women seriously.
Drdee is right. These women however are looking for a serious relationship to cash in and be taken care of. Be careful.
My two bits.
PRMoon
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I would not date the girl that the op described. Sounds like a bit more trouble than it's worth but that's just my take given the brief description.
I would date a single mom given the right set of circumstances. Ex wife of a former millionaire with a pricy pad of her own. I imagine I could wear that boot for a few months. ProvWon't have to pay for that much, likely go to some classy parties & make some connections, maybe a few parting gifts before the whole thing reaches it's conclusion. Seems like a good risk vs. reward situation to me.
I would date a single mom given the right set of circumstances. Ex wife of a former millionaire with a pricy pad of her own. I imagine I could wear that boot for a few months. ProvWon't have to pay for that much, likely go to some classy parties & make some connections, maybe a few parting gifts before the whole thing reaches it's conclusion. Seems like a good risk vs. reward situation to me.
WhitePimp
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This is another one of those SS myths that seem to perpetuate with each new influx of dudes.
I've dated single moms. Yeah, you get a few who are nuts and want each interaction to be about their kids. Those are the bad ones that you just smash and dash.
But I've dated a few that were quite good about not even letting me meet her kids. They understand that it's NOT your responsibility and don't want every interaction to be about the kids. Basically, once the kids are a bit older, then the mom wants to have her own life back. Then it's good. I casually dated one PR chick for 2 years with 2 kids and not once did I even meet her kids. It was awesome and she was very cool
I've dated single moms. Yeah, you get a few who are nuts and want each interaction to be about their kids. Those are the bad ones that you just smash and dash.
But I've dated a few that were quite good about not even letting me meet her kids. They understand that it's NOT your responsibility and don't want every interaction to be about the kids. Basically, once the kids are a bit older, then the mom wants to have her own life back. Then it's good. I casually dated one PR chick for 2 years with 2 kids and not once did I even meet her kids. It was awesome and she was very cool
