I remember when I was in preschool, I would walk to school with my mom. One day, we saw a couple where the girl was a bit taller than the guy and my mom told me that the girl should always be younger and shorter than the male.
This conditioned me to write off all tall chicks. Im only 5 '5, even though im taller than most girls, there's still quite a few that are usually taller than me.
This one time in 6th grade, when I was like 4 11 and one of my best friends that was a girl was like 5 '2. I never considered her as a potential mate because of our height difference. I Would always bag on her a little and would be a little bit of a jerk - all in good fun however. It turned out that she was really into me, even though I was like 3 - 4 inches shorter. I remember the first big hint was one day in 6th grade when I was hanging out on front of the classroom, she came up to me and we started talking. She asked me if I had a gf, if I ever had one , etc. When i said no, she gave me this smile that is hard to describe. I was young and didnt think much of it. I was already going out with someone when she officially told me so I never ended up dating her.
Now, Im reconsidering what my mother had taught me.
Right now, I have an organic chemistry class all day friday - literally from 8 AM to 5 PM. We get an hour break from 10 30 - 11 30. On the first day of class, I noticed this attractive girl but wrote her off because she was taller than me.
Than the next week, I forgot my model kit and I noticed her sitting by herself so I went up to her and told her we would be partners for the day. She was cool with it and shared her kit with me. I started talking to her, and noticed she didnt make many friends yet, I asked her what she was doing for lunch. She said she was just gonna go to the school's food truck ( she mentioned how she used to go home but that took too long, than she described the directions to her house lol ), so I invited her to come eat with my friends and I ( we are 3 in total ) and she didnt say no but when class was over, she was hesitant to go. I assumed it was because it wouldve been 1 girl and three guys.
Now I ask her for help a lot and she always looks into my eyes and smiles. I asked for her number and she was happy to give it to me. Last time i went up to her and started talking, she got up to ask the professor something so I stole her seat and she came back and just stood next to me, talking to me, and didnt once ask me to get up. This was last friday, about the 4th week of class.
Last friday was two weeks after I first asked her to eat, she seemed to make friends with another girl. When class was over, she walked past me and made some pretty strong eye contact and I felt like she wanted to tell me something. Than after lunch, when we came back for lab, she came up to me and asked me where I ended up going for lunch, and she told me she went to chipotle with her new friend. To me, this seemed weird and I see no other reason for her to tell me that unless she wanted me to ask her again. This girl is attractive and very smart, but she is probably like an inch or two taller than me. Im thinking of asking her again, and having my friends chat up her friend while I talk to her. They're good wing men so they'd be glad to do it.
Now, I would give this girl a solid 8.5.
I feel like I may have a chance with her even though she is taller, but I am hesitant as I still feel a little weird walking around with a girl that is taller.
Would this bother you guys?
This conditioned me to write off all tall chicks. Im only 5 '5, even though im taller than most girls, there's still quite a few that are usually taller than me.
This one time in 6th grade, when I was like 4 11 and one of my best friends that was a girl was like 5 '2. I never considered her as a potential mate because of our height difference. I Would always bag on her a little and would be a little bit of a jerk - all in good fun however. It turned out that she was really into me, even though I was like 3 - 4 inches shorter. I remember the first big hint was one day in 6th grade when I was hanging out on front of the classroom, she came up to me and we started talking. She asked me if I had a gf, if I ever had one , etc. When i said no, she gave me this smile that is hard to describe. I was young and didnt think much of it. I was already going out with someone when she officially told me so I never ended up dating her.
Now, Im reconsidering what my mother had taught me.
Right now, I have an organic chemistry class all day friday - literally from 8 AM to 5 PM. We get an hour break from 10 30 - 11 30. On the first day of class, I noticed this attractive girl but wrote her off because she was taller than me.
Than the next week, I forgot my model kit and I noticed her sitting by herself so I went up to her and told her we would be partners for the day. She was cool with it and shared her kit with me. I started talking to her, and noticed she didnt make many friends yet, I asked her what she was doing for lunch. She said she was just gonna go to the school's food truck ( she mentioned how she used to go home but that took too long, than she described the directions to her house lol ), so I invited her to come eat with my friends and I ( we are 3 in total ) and she didnt say no but when class was over, she was hesitant to go. I assumed it was because it wouldve been 1 girl and three guys.
Now I ask her for help a lot and she always looks into my eyes and smiles. I asked for her number and she was happy to give it to me. Last time i went up to her and started talking, she got up to ask the professor something so I stole her seat and she came back and just stood next to me, talking to me, and didnt once ask me to get up. This was last friday, about the 4th week of class.
Last friday was two weeks after I first asked her to eat, she seemed to make friends with another girl. When class was over, she walked past me and made some pretty strong eye contact and I felt like she wanted to tell me something. Than after lunch, when we came back for lab, she came up to me and asked me where I ended up going for lunch, and she told me she went to chipotle with her new friend. To me, this seemed weird and I see no other reason for her to tell me that unless she wanted me to ask her again. This girl is attractive and very smart, but she is probably like an inch or two taller than me. Im thinking of asking her again, and having my friends chat up her friend while I talk to her. They're good wing men so they'd be glad to do it.
Now, I would give this girl a solid 8.5.
I feel like I may have a chance with her even though she is taller, but I am hesitant as I still feel a little weird walking around with a girl that is taller.
Would this bother you guys?
