Treat all guns as if they're loaded. Treat all women as if they're sluts. There might be a few who aren't, but you'll never know for sure and it's risky to gamble on your intuition. You'll know if she is a slut and she wants you to know or doesn't care if you do (she tells you she is), but you'll never know if she doesn't want you to know (unless you overhear something or find out in another way).
This is why I always assume that the woman standing in front of me is a slut. If she's acting non-slutty around me, it's because she views me as a provider beta. This means I've done something wrong somewhere along the line. If it continues, I usually dump the chick. I'm sure sometimes I've been wrong and nexted a true non-slut. But that's like pointing a gun at your head and pulling the trigger. It might be empty, but do you want to take that risk?
Those sluts who are no longer actively banging alpha-ish guys are ones who are desperately trying to lasso a beta for commitment. And many who are trying to lasso a beta are banging alpha-ish guys while they're trying to lasso a beta. I've seen this first-hand.
Trying to find a non-slut is like trying to find a winning scratch-off lottery ticket without being able to scratch off the outer layer. I just assume they're all losing tickets and I don't play.
This is why I always assume that the woman standing in front of me is a slut. If she's acting non-slutty around me, it's because she views me as a provider beta. This means I've done something wrong somewhere along the line. If it continues, I usually dump the chick. I'm sure sometimes I've been wrong and nexted a true non-slut. But that's like pointing a gun at your head and pulling the trigger. It might be empty, but do you want to take that risk?
Those sluts who are no longer actively banging alpha-ish guys are ones who are desperately trying to lasso a beta for commitment. And many who are trying to lasso a beta are banging alpha-ish guys while they're trying to lasso a beta. I've seen this first-hand.
Trying to find a non-slut is like trying to find a winning scratch-off lottery ticket without being able to scratch off the outer layer. I just assume they're all losing tickets and I don't play.