Would you cheat with a younger woman?

[Sega Genesis]

You are on a men's dating/pickup site. There is nothing interesting about it at all. This is where men discuss their struggles, conquests, and overall questions regarding women. All sorts of things will get bandied about. Just like if we go over to some toxic all-women's site I am sure there are a variety of questions asking if it is OK to sleep with a co-worker while married and other threads about how men are pigs for being cheaters.

Thanks I understand what this forum is; I was merely agreeing with @BPH post and some others and expounded on it.

To clarify, what I found "interesting" was the irony given the other thread, that's all.

I'm not on any 'toxic' all-women female sites, nor do I consider this site a toxic male site.

If I did I wouldn't be here sharing my views from a female perspective as a couple of other women are also.

All that said overall.. fair enough and duly noted.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Probably not. If I did I'd probably feel real sh1tty afterwards if I have children with that woman, you gotta factor in the kids and your relationship with them first and for most in that situation. So you better think long and hard of your consequences.

 

[Divorced w 3]

To clarify, what I found "interesting" was the irony given the other thread, that's all.

Could you ‘clarify’ why you keep deleting handles and coming back under a new one every six months on average, CatsMeow? Is what you’re doing, ‘honest’?

 

[Divorced w 3]

Being tempted and actually doing are two entirely different things. .

Everyone will feel tempted at times, which is OK that's not cheating.

It's acting on that temptation and thus breaking a promise of exclusivity in a relationship or if married breaking a vow to remain faithful that matters.

It centers on one's integrity and moral values and beliefs imo.

Boy oh boy, is this not the pot calling the kettle black.

 

[saige]

Suppose your wife had a house guest who come stayed with you guys every so often. She was kind of good friends with her

A little unrelated, but I'm surprised no one has considered that this might be a setup. If your wife and the house guest are on friendly terms, there’s a real chance this could be a loyalty test.

Nowadays, I feel like "cheating" tests have gotten pretty popular, especially with social media. I know people who've hired models or asked influencers to message their partners just to see how they'd response. They ask screenshots for proof. If the wife is suspicious, she might be asking her friend to test the waters. Like telling you she's single and being all seductive trying to meet up.

 

[CornbreadFed]

If I am cheating, it is definitely not going to be a relationship with another woman.

 

[New_Journey]

If you have sex with the house guest, you would do it at a nice hotel or somewhere where your wife wouldn’t find out.

I would try for her to not find out.

The only way she would find out is if you left your wife for her

This is $tupid and too good of a situation to cheat. If you cheat you gotta be ready to get caught and her leaving your a$$, which is the exact reason she won't leave or she would lie to herself thinking it was her fault.

Would you do it?

Yes

 

[Isildur1]

Never cheat - it will induce emotional trauma on the girl you’re in a relationship and if you have a daughter she will end up taking a huge quantity of ****s to make up for the betrayal you caused

 

[john1234]

Suppose you were married for 5 years (no kids) you looked ok and your wife looked ok too, just looking older. You had quite a bit of money, nice house, etc. Suppose your wife had a house guest who come stayed with you guys every so often. She was kind of good friends with her, The house guest is single but your wife thinks she is married. The house guest was younger and sexier than your wife. You were attracted to her.

If you have sex with the house guest, you would do it at a nice hotel or somewhere where your wife wouldn’t find out. The only way she would find out is if you left your wife for her,

Would you do it?

House guest! Nah, she will defo find out your wife would become dangerous!

Listen, you may have to divorce your wife, and then get a wife that accepts you smashing other women.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No. The question isn't about the woman, the question is "Are you a man of integrity?"

That's the question.

 

[BadBoy89]

No. The question isn't about the woman, the question is "Are you a man of integrity?"

That's the question.

My man.

 

[Pandora]

lol not in this situation, if i was out of town and she made it easy for me i might.
it's one thing to say 'no' in some internet hypothetical, it's another thing entirely when a hot young snack is giving you that submissive look and her hot young body is pulsating out of her clothes right in front of you.

This! Bingo. Every man is a man of honor on the internet. Its a different story when that 23 yr hottie is rubbing up against you in the hallway and she is calling you "papacito" in her Spanglish accent.