Would you cheat with a younger woman?

[BadBoy89]

Suppose you were married for 5 years (no kids) you looked ok and your wife looked ok too, just looking older. You had quite a bit of money, nice house, etc. Suppose your wife had a house guest who come stayed with you guys every so often. She was kind of good friends with her, The house guest is single but your wife thinks she is married. The house guest was younger and sexier than your wife. You were attracted to her.

If you have sex with the house guest, you would do it at a nice hotel or somewhere where your wife wouldn’t find out. The only way she would find out is if you left your wife for her,

Would you do it?

 

[BPH]

I wouldn't get into a relationship if I would cheat.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Most men will provide a morally correct answer

But we all know what people say they will do and what they actually do are two completely different things

Personally for me the younger chick would need to tick a lot more boxes than just young and pretty they aren't exactly scarce

Otherwise it just wouldn't be worth the hassle

 

[jhonny9546]

It depends on your future vision of your current relationship.
If it's dying, you would.
If you have plans, you wouldn't.

 

[SW15]

Married for 5 years would likely mean together for about 7-8 years at that point. The relationship is likely in some sort of decay, though it might be somewhat good.

No children is a better sign. That means it is more likely that my wife and I have a stronger connection. We aren't distracted by raising 1-2 children under age 4 at that time.

It would depend on how much younger and sexier the houseguest is.

I find the scenario with a houseguest that the wife thinks is married but is single to be a bit of an unrealistic scenario.

 

[Manure Spherian]

Would you do it?

No.

 

[Vanderdonck]

Suppose you were married for 5 years (no kids) you looked ok and your wife looked ok too, just looking older. You had quite a bit of money, nice house, etc. Suppose your wife had a house guest who come stayed with you guys every so often. She was kind of good friends with her, The house guest is single but your wife thinks she is married. The house guest was younger and sexier than your wife. You were attracted to her.

If you have sex with the house guest, you would do it at a nice hotel or somewhere where your wife wouldn’t find out. The only way she would find out is if you left your wife for her,

Would you do it?

No, this situation is bound to backfire.

 

[Manure Spherian]

If you have sex with the house guest, you would do it at a nice hotel or somewhere where your wife wouldn’t find out.

Realistically speaking, the man will get caught.

 

[The Duke]

No, it's not the kind of person I am. I'd rather kill you with the truth than appease you with bullschit. Every cheater I have known eventually got caught.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I would hope not.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Only if you have no integrity and have no standard that you hold yourself to.

Choose to do better for yourself.

Your true character shows by what you do when nobody is watching.

 

[Mike32ct]

No, it's not the kind of person I am. I'd rather kill you with the truth than appease you with bullschit. Every cheater I have known eventually got caught.

I would add that every cheater I’ve known got addicted to it and dragged out the affair WAY longer than they originally intended.

“One time thing” => Ends up going on for years.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Married, no …marriage to me is a future with intent to build a family or some sort of other concept that relates to one’s belief in family.

If you’re in a relationship, that’s not engaged or married yeah I think anything‘s game under the right circumstances because at the end of the day you’re not engaged to married to that person.

 

[super_soaker]

lol not in this situation, if i was out of town and she made it easy for me i might.
it's one thing to say 'no' in some internet hypothetical, it's another thing entirely when a hot young snack is giving you that submissive look and her hot young body is pulsating out of her clothes right in front of you.

 

[zekko]

Most men will provide a morally correct answer
But we all know what people say they will do and what they actually do are two completely different things

You can say you won't do it. And maybe you won't.
But that doesn't mean you can't be tempted.

Personally for me the younger chick would need to tick a lot more boxes than just young and pretty they aren't exactly scarce

Female beauty is surprisingly common.
But young and pretty and throwing themselves at you might be a little rarer.

 

[Sega Genesis]

I wouldn't get into a relationship if I would cheat.

^^Or an exclusive committed one anyway.

Otherwise you're lying to your girlfriend which is interesting given there is a thread asking why women lie in their relationships.

Not referring to you @BPH given your above comment which I agree with.

 

[Sega Genesis]

But that doesn't mean you can't be tempted.

Being tempted and actually doing are two entirely different things. .

Everyone will feel tempted at times, which is OK that's not cheating.

It's acting on that temptation and thus breaking a promise of exclusivity in a relationship or if married breaking a vow to remain faithful that matters.

It centers on one's integrity and moral values and beliefs imo.

 

[Divorced w 3]

^^Or an exclusive committed one anyway.

Otherwise you're lying to your girlfriend which is interesting given there is a thread asking why women lie in their relationships.

Not referring to you @BPH given your above comment which I agree with.

Who said you’re going to lie after you cheat. You leave that relationship. Honesty on that issue may be more about forgiving oneself at the expense of hurting your partner.

You want to be honest to all of us about who you are, for instance?

 

[Barrister]

If the only thing the "house guest" has on my wife is that she is younger and "sexier" (which is probably somewhat redundant), then no. What am I really gaining at that point? If I am incredibly unhappy with my wife, perhaps I consider it if she isn't satisfying my needs the way she should be as my wife. But if she still looks good and we have a good relationship otherwise, the reward doesn't justify the risk by a long shot.

 

[Barrister]

^^Or an exclusive committed one anyway.

Otherwise you're lying to your girlfriend which is interesting given there is a thread asking why women lie in their relationships.

Not referring to you @BPH given your above comment which I agree with.

You are on a men's dating/pickup site. There is nothing interesting about it at all. This is where men discuss their struggles, conquests, and overall questions regarding women. All sorts of things will get bandied about. Just like if we go over to some toxic all-women's site I am sure there are a variety of questions asking if it is OK to sleep with a co-worker while married and other threads about how men are pigs for being cheaters.