I'd been in a long relationship that ended a few months ago, and hadn't even attempted dating since. But I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, and I decided I was finally gonna give all my years worth of reading about game a shot in the field. Much to my surprise, it worked out and I scored a date with by far the hottest girl I've ever gone out with, (easily an 8 or 9 by most guys standards).
We went out to a really nice dinner, we have hardly anything in common, but that was kind of the fun of it. She was super flirtatious the whole date, and I definitely felt like this could get places within the next few dates. It was interesting though, while on the date she seemed really attentive and interested in me, and asked me a lot of questions (though this could've just been her attempt to assess my value).
Here's the weird thing though, since that first date, we've already scheduled a second and we've been texting each other every few days, but I think it just hit me today...this chick is selfish as hell!
example texts:
Me: How was your drive back? I had a really great time with you.
Her: Good, thanks I had a good time.
(notice SHE had a good time, not with me)
Me: Hope you had a happy easter
Her: I did thanks!
(notice she doesn't seem to care whether or not I did)
These are just some of numerous examples from the last few weeks, and it's quite obvious from talking to her that she has an ego the size of a small planet, but why wouldn't she, I'm sure she's had years of reinforcement from guys complimenting her looks. Thing is, isn't it just human decency that if someone makes a pleasantry with you like "How are you today?" you would respond with something such as "Good. How are you?".
I'm a long time lurker on these forums and have read The Game and Rules of... many times over, so I get the gist of everything, but I'll openly admit, I'm not out on sarging missions or anything. I'm a decent looking guy, and really just want to better understand female phsycology so I can stop getting manipulated, finding women has never been a problem for me, but not getting treated like **** by them...well that's a whole other story.
So as a first post on these forums my question to you guys is, would you continue to date a chick who is so painfully self-absorbed, not to mention I'm probably just one of many plates she's spinning, if it meant that down the road you might have a chance at sleeping with her? And of course being seen with her makes me the envy of all my friends, because she is like ridiculously hot. I am having a really hard time NEXTing her (due to her looks) but being with someone that is so vain is also a massive turnoff so it's a bit of quandary.
We went out to a really nice dinner, we have hardly anything in common, but that was kind of the fun of it. She was super flirtatious the whole date, and I definitely felt like this could get places within the next few dates. It was interesting though, while on the date she seemed really attentive and interested in me, and asked me a lot of questions (though this could've just been her attempt to assess my value).
Here's the weird thing though, since that first date, we've already scheduled a second and we've been texting each other every few days, but I think it just hit me today...this chick is selfish as hell!
example texts:
Me: How was your drive back? I had a really great time with you.
Her: Good, thanks I had a good time.
(notice SHE had a good time, not with me)
Me: Hope you had a happy easter
Her: I did thanks!
(notice she doesn't seem to care whether or not I did)
These are just some of numerous examples from the last few weeks, and it's quite obvious from talking to her that she has an ego the size of a small planet, but why wouldn't she, I'm sure she's had years of reinforcement from guys complimenting her looks. Thing is, isn't it just human decency that if someone makes a pleasantry with you like "How are you today?" you would respond with something such as "Good. How are you?".
I'm a long time lurker on these forums and have read The Game and Rules of... many times over, so I get the gist of everything, but I'll openly admit, I'm not out on sarging missions or anything. I'm a decent looking guy, and really just want to better understand female phsycology so I can stop getting manipulated, finding women has never been a problem for me, but not getting treated like **** by them...well that's a whole other story.
So as a first post on these forums my question to you guys is, would you continue to date a chick who is so painfully self-absorbed, not to mention I'm probably just one of many plates she's spinning, if it meant that down the road you might have a chance at sleeping with her? And of course being seen with her makes me the envy of all my friends, because she is like ridiculously hot. I am having a really hard time NEXTing her (due to her looks) but being with someone that is so vain is also a massive turnoff so it's a bit of quandary.