Would one of those Professional cuddler websites be easier than OLD?

[I_have_BDE]

I just thought about this before. I mean since OLD is mostly sifting through trash to find anything decent, would maybe using one of those Professional Cuddler sites be an easier option than OLD? Most of the women on there are unattractive like OLD, but there are a few HB7s and that. Basically you book them and they cuddle with you, or go to dinner with you as well some of them.

Just thinking of it. You book an HB7 for a couple sessions and if you're not a lardball ugly guy you could use game and kino and possibly get her to fall for you and get laid. I would think most of their clients are old single men or lardballs so if you're in shape you'd have a better shot maybe.

A few of the women are pretty cute on this site for example

Katrina - Cuddlist | Cuddlist

Gisele - Cuddlist | Cuddlist

 

[MatureDJ]

This is literally a soft form of prostitution.

And the main rule about prostitutes is akin to an old Groucho Marx line:

A man that is so ugly he needs to buy me is not a man I am attracted to.

It's OVER for JohnCels.

Gisele is cute, but Katrina is rough on the eyes.

 

[I_have_BDE]

This is literally a soft form of prostitution.

And the main rule about prostitutes is akin to an old Groucho Marx line:

It's OVER for JohnCels.

Gisele is cute, but Katrina is rough on the eyes.

When she posts pics like that I think she's trying to put herself out there lol.

 

[Stanley]

Not like this....not like this.

 

[TheManMasenko]

So...you rather buy company than go out and hunt?

You're going against biology bro. No offspring for you.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Escorts call that the 'girlfriend experience'.

We have sex workers in NL that specialise in (subsidised!) cuddling/sex with handicapped men, because there are health benefits to intimacy (an intense hug can release relaxing and arousing hormones in the body) and everybody knows that a lack of intimacy can lead to depression or worse.

So, if you're mentally or physically deficient, cuddling would be an option, but there is no genuine lust or love even if some sex workers might start to care about clients, they're still clients.

 

[Bingo-Player]

When she posts pics like that I think she's trying to put herself out there lol.

150 dollars and hour to cuddle this ?

No wonder the dating market is absolutely fvcked

 

[Gamisch]

150 dollars and hour to cuddle this ?

No wonder the dating market is absolutely fvcked

The "funny "thing is that such a woman will say she does NOT define as a prostitute , and provably will call YOU pathetic and nor a "real man" for mot accepting her side hustle...

This is literally a soft form of prostitution.

And the main rule about prostitutes is akin to an old Groucho Marx line:

It's OVER for JohnCels.

Gisele is cute, but Katrina is rough on the eyes.

Had me dying hahaha

 

[corrector]

I just thought about this before. I mean since OLD is mostly sifting through trash to find anything decent, would maybe using one of those Professional Cuddler sites be an easier option than OLD? Most of the women on there are unattractive like OLD, but there are a few HB7s and that. Basically you book them and they cuddle with you, or go to dinner with you as well some of them.

Just thinking of it. You book an HB7 for a couple sessions and if you're not a lardball ugly guy you could use game and kino and possibly get her to fall for you and get laid. I would think most of their clients are old single men or lardballs so if you're in shape you'd have a better shot maybe.

A few of the women are pretty cute on this site for example

Katrina - Cuddlist | Cuddlist

Gisele - Cuddlist | Cuddlist

So you are in shape and have to resort to this and you are hoping this cuddle sex worker will appreciate you are in shape and fall in love with you?

This is not what I am signing up for as my end game for losing weight. I doubt most of her clients fit your stereotype. Most of the guys who see these sex workers are not incels but married guys or have a gf.

You don't think other clients of hers are thinking the same thing?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I don’t know about ‘easier than OLD’. But a girl who swipes right on you means she already finds you attractive. Half the battle is over.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

So you are in shape and have to resort to this and you are hoping this cuddle sex worker will appreciate you are in shape and fall in love with you?

This is not what I am signing up for as my end game for losing weight. I doubt most of her clients fit your stereotype. Most of the guys who see these sex workers are not incels but married guys or have a gf.

You don't think other clients of hers are thinking the same thing?

Why would a married of guy or with a GF want a Cuddler.? I’ll bet most of her clients are incek tier.

 

[Gamisch]

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So you are in shape and have to resort to this and you are hoping this cuddle sex worker will appreciate you are in shape and fall in love with you?

This is not what I am signing up for as my end game for losing weight. I doubt most of her clients fit your stereotype. Most of the guys who see these sex workers are not incels but married guys or have a gf.

You don't think other clients of hers are thinking the same thing?

I have to say, the demographics /stereotypes of clients is probably shifting from* fat socially akward slob* towards * every type a guy and his brother*.

Its not like men in general suddenly know how to exercise sexual discipline in masses.
80% of women chasing 20%of men, it means 80% of men is sexually deprived and frustrated.....

 

[corrector]

Why would a married of guy or with a GF want a Cuddler.? I’ll bet most of her clients are incek tier.

It is the same idea as sex work except you are assuming the most guys who visit hooked have sex with them, when in reality, guys visit escorts for a variety of reasons. They could want conversation with a hot women, dance with a naked woman, or just chill with a nude woman, or someone to complain about how boss or wife is treating them, etc.... Also with the risk of catching STDs and fact they have lots of guys plow through then, not everyone is cool with the idea of seeing them like that. So the presumption that every guy who visits an escort wants to have sex with her off the bat is flawed.

 

[corrector]

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I have to say, the demographics /stereotypes of clients is probably shifting from* fat socially akward slob* towards * every type a guy and his brother*.

Its not like men in general suddenly know how to exercise sexual discipline in masses.
80% of women chasing 20%of men, it means 80% of men is sexually deprived and frustrated.....

You advised me to lose weight. You are now saying it's meaningless if I do since I could still be part of the 80% (this does not discount medical as my 39% bf is still insane even by fat standards).

 

[Hamurabimbi]

It is the same idea as sex work except you are assuming the most guys who visit hooked have sex with them, when in reality, guys visit escorts for a variety of reasons. They could want conversation with a hot women, dance with a naked woman, or just chill with a nude woman, or someone to complain about how boss or wife is treating them, etc.... Also with the risk of catching STDs and fact they have lots of guys plow through then, not everyone is cool with the idea of seeing them like that. So the presumption that every guy who visits an escort wants to have sex with her off the bat is flawed.

I don’t deny this happens. But I just can’t wrap my head around it. Paying $$$ to talk to, what is basically, an unlicensed therapist.
Guess I’ll be thankful my work provides EAP if I ever need it.

 

[corrector]

I don’t deny this happens. But I just can’t wrap my head around it. Paying $$$ to talk to, what is basically, an unlicensed therapist.
Guess I’ll be thankful my work provides EAP if I ever need it.

OK, a therapist can't take off her clothes but an escort can. You can also fvck her if you want her after a few sessions of "therapy". Big difference.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

OK, a therapist can't take off her clothes but an escort can. You can also fvck her if you want her after a few sessions of "therapy". Big difference.

I’m talking about the Cuddlers.
With an escort, one can always say ‘enough talking, time for action.’. But the Cuddlers are platonic.

 

[I_have_BDE]

It is the same idea as sex work except you are assuming the most guys who visit hooked have sex with them, when in reality, guys visit escorts for a variety of reasons. They could want conversation with a hot women, dance with a naked woman, or just chill with a nude woman, or someone to complain about how boss or wife is treating them, etc.... Also with the risk of catching STDs and fact they have lots of guys plow through then, not everyone is cool with the idea of seeing them like that. So the presumption that every guy who visits an escort wants to have sex with her off the bat is flawed.

What about Robert Kraft? What I found funny he's a billionaire owner of an nfl team and visited a seedy massage parlor when he could pay for any high end escort he wanted. What's up with that?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Why would a married of guy or with a GF want a Cuddler.? I’ll bet most of her clients are incek tier.

A lot of prostitutes (not even talking about escorts here) have regular clients who come for intimacy rather than sex, because their wives are not or no longer intimate with them. Basically, these married men want to be held and stroked and talked to and pay good money for that.

 

[Captain Redbeard]

Easier? This is the wrong question as this is not in the same realm as OLD.

You suggest a booking a woman for a "few sessions" to really work your magic. After laying out a good chunk of cash for these initial sessions I see it going one of two ways:
1. She shuts you down immediately and you wasted good time and $ for nothing. Considering there are big notices on the site about things being strictly platonic, you are reported to the site (or worse) and cannot find another cuddler to run your game on.
2. She is a budding entrepreneur and is open to your advances at an upcharge (in which case skip all the nonsense and just get an escort)

I briefly looked at that site. Seems there are some men offering their cuddling services. If you were to explore this route why not have women paying you for the cuddle? Big question on the quality of prospects you will find this way but better than paying the stated rates yourself...