would a girl accept a 1on1 date to the movies if she wasnt interested?

[ScrewIt]

yes or no?

I remember way back in my afc days, over a year ago, this girl accepted a date to the movies w/her. i didnt do **** of course, as i was too *****.

or was it the fact that it was return for the favors i did for her...


The thing is it really boggles my mind if this girl i knew from last year wanted to be friends or more with me. cause i havent talked to her in almost a year. and this semester, she still acts like she did when i knew her in my AFC days. she mentions that we should hangout again like we used to. Although without the part the asks for favors, as she knows i have a busy life, and i dont do favors for any woman.

the thing is, i've always wondered if hse just considered me a friend or if she was just waiting for me to make a move. She often did say "you're such a good friend screwit"...well anyway peace out

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Have you ever considered that she just wants to see the movie? FOR FREE! Hmmmm, boggles the mind, doesn't it....

Learn NOT to let your logic get in the way of what's really going through the mind of a woman.

 

[christz]

stop wondering...

do you like her? go for it why are you waiting? its obvious you like her if your contemplateing this shyt in your head.

get it done! ask her to the movies and initiate kino in the line, and while your watching the movie (since talking is annoying to other people)

if she doesn't take well to the kino even light kino such as arm touching back off and you'll know exactly where you stand

 

[So Many Ways]

Overthinking things will work to your detriment. If you like her, make a move.

 

[ScrewIt]

i dont like her, in my eyes she's just an acquantance now.

but quite a weird girl indeed...

 

[Fatality]

I do know my sister went to a couple movies with a guy friend of hers that made it pretty clear he liked her. I think she bought her own ticket though.

 

[Matt Rogers]

In my opinion any classy women should insist she pays if she is going on a date with a guy she has no interest in. But there are girls out there who will date guys just because they are hungry or want to see a show for free. All you can do is force her to play her hand and if you suspect she is doing this just invite her for a cheap date such as a cup of coffee and see her wriggle.

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by Matt Rogers
In my opinion any classy women should insist she pays if she is going on a date with a guy she has no interest in. But there are girls out there who will date guys just because they are hungry or want to see a show for free. All you can do is force her to play her hand and if you suspect she is doing this just invite her for a cheap date such as a cup of coffee and see her wriggle.

but then..how would u be able to differentiate from the classy and unclassy woman? one might offer to pay her part, but u offer to pay for hers, and she accepts. or she totally waits for you to pay and u still dont know

 

[Matt Rogers]

Most girls know when a guy likes them and knows that if he asks her to the movies he intends it to be a date. Most girls don't accept dates with guys they are not interested in. Those that do a good proportion would make it clear it was as friends or at least offer to pay. The bad girls "mercenaries" fake interest and enjoy the ride.

If you suspect a girl is not that interested invite her for a simple cup of coffee to start with. Stick to cheap dates to begin with until she proves herself to you. Another filtering method that Doc Love suggests is to give the girl a kiss at the end of the date. Not sure I agree with this, as very few girls will kiss on a first date but something to consider.