Would a don quan unfriend his ex on fb?

bullethead

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I broke up with a girl, I can't get here out of my mind. I was thinking of unfreinding her on fb to help get over her, but at the same time I do not want to give her the advantage to think that she hurt me. Plus I am bound to see her again in person, because we are in the same program in school. Should I unfriend her or should I not. Any DJs with experience about this out there?
 

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Most chicks I've unfriended have never noticed anyway (or at least they'll never commented on it). Just do it.
 

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A don juan is strong enough to delete women from his life and overall people that have done him wrong.

It's the weak men that are afraid to move on and keep that negative energy in their lives.

Delete her from your facebook, your phone, your IM, delete her from your life and move on! Don't keep negative energy of something that failed around you.
 

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"A don juan". Oh how that makes me laugh. Anyway, if you don't want to see someone in your feed,it's your feed. Nothing wrong with deleting them. Most won't notice, won't care or at least have the social grace not to make a fuss over it. Anyone who does have problem with it either loves the attention, wants to stick it to you, or is just butthurt. Problem?
 

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A Don Juan wouldn't be on FB. Only his persona would be there and only for such purpose that he knows what he is after.
 

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QueRico said:
A Don Juan wouldn't be on FB. Only his persona would be there and only for such purpose that he knows what he is after.
^This
 

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A Don Juan is not real. Some guys treat this mythical Don Juan like he is a God. Why don't you get your priorites straight so that you wouldn't care about her?

Personally I would delete her but I am not Don Juan. I'm A.J. This is your call... not anyones. It doesn't really hurt anyway but it would be to YOUR advantage to delete it.
 

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I was thinking of unfreinding her on fb to help get over her, but at the same time I do not want to give her the advantage to think that she hurt me.
It doesn't matter what she thinks. Do what's best for you. If you need to unfriend her to progress with your life, then do it.
 

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Desdinova said:
It doesn't matter what she thinks. Do what's best for you. If you need to unfriend her to progress with your life, then do it.
My thought also. A "DJ" worries about himself and does whatever advances his goals.
 

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Done! Blocked! And so are her friends. Wow that feels like a load has been lifted off of my shoulders! Thanks gentlemen!
 

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1.) Unsubscribe so you can't see her updates.
2.) Post your own updates with pics of you and friends/family/women showing how awesome your life is going.

EDIT: Bah. Too late. Good job nonetheless.
 

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@ Kurrupt not too late. That is what I did before. I unsubscribed to her and her friends before. But I couldn't stop going to her profile to check up on her, she just kept popping up on the left part of my friends list. Its completely over now at least, I really don't want her back.
 

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bullethead said:
@ Kurrupt not too late. That is what I did before. I unsubscribed to her and her friends before. But I couldn't stop going to her profile to check up on her, she just kept popping up on the left part of my friends list. Its completely over now at least, I really don't want her back.
I had some pictures of my last oneitis lying around for a while and finally decided to trash them and felt great in doing so.

Now, optimally I never would have gotten to the point where I developed oneitis to the point where I had to take those measure but that ship already sailed so I just had to do what I had to do, delete all emails, phone number, texts, pictures, etc..
 

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Doesn't matter if you have an FB or not.. People on here need to stop with the analysis of FB in respect to value and quality of a person. If you're being a little b1tch on there complaining about all your misfortunes and 1st world problems, then you're a b1tch. If you just have it to talk to friends and keep up with what's going on it's totally cool. (I had one because I play in a band, I would use it for networking, and keeping up with concert dates.) But eventually I deleted it cause I got sick of seeing pvssy ass statuses from some of my friends who don't know how to man-up.. And attention seeking dumb ass h0s. I could've just deleted them, but would rather spare them the frustration of me "being pissed at them" since I love hangin with those guys. I just do most of my networking face to face, over the phone, over email, or over messageboards now. Sometimes I'll have a friend contact someone via facebook to give them my number and other info for gigs and booking. That's about it.

When I had an FB I always deleted girls when relations went sour. Some of them have said "Why did you delete me" and sh1t like that, but I just ignore them. Plain and simple.. I deleted them to get them off my mind, but I'm not going to communicate with them why I did because I'm trying to get them off my mind. It's not pvssy, it's being honest with yourself.

I say you should just delete her. You need to get her off your mind and NC is the only way to go.
 

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Definitely delete them. Saddly a lot of people actually take that ish seriously. I just nexted a chick the other day and happily deleted her after. I don't want to see what's going on in her life and she don't need to see what's going on in mine.

Also, about 6 months ago I got out a ltr that ended very painfully for both of us due to circumstances beyond our control, and we mutually NC'd (fb, texts, calls, etc) each other as we felt it would be easier to move on that way, and turns out it was. First couple months were hard but in the long run it definitely was better that way.

Ex, plate, some chick you were dating, whatever, when moving delete them out of your life and move on. No need to hang on.
 

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Alex DeLarge said:
Doesn't matter if you have an FB or not.. People on here need to stop with the analysis of FB in respect to value and quality of a person. If you're being a little b1tch on there complaining about all your misfortunes and 1st world problems, then you're a b1tch. If you just have it to talk to friends and keep up with what's going on it's totally cool. (I had one because I play in a band, I would use it for networking, and keeping up with concert dates.) But eventually I deleted it cause I got sick of seeing pvssy ass statuses from some of my friends who don't know how to man-up.. And attention seeking dumb ass h0s. I could've just deleted them, but would rather spare them the frustration of me "being pissed at them" since I love hangin with those guys. I just do most of my networking face to face, over the phone, over email, or over messageboards now. Sometimes I'll have a friend contact someone via facebook to give them my number and other info for gigs and booking. That's about it.

When I had an FB I always deleted girls when relations went sour. Some of them have said "Why did you delete me" and sh1t like that, but I just ignore them. Plain and simple.. I deleted them to get them off my mind, but I'm not going to communicate with them why I did because I'm trying to get them off my mind. It's not pvssy, it's being honest with yourself.

I say you should just delete her. You need to get her off your mind and NC is the only way to go.

1st world problems. Redditor? (nawhals and bacon?) Anyway, this.

Also I'm tired of the butthurt pvssy posts on FB from the young guys, all the older guys have found jesus and decided to be pesudo lifecoaches and gurus dispensing sage wisdom, christianity and positivity. I just go on there for emailing a few friends, and running my FB pages for my clients and businesses. Reading what people actually write...ugh. Before I had it set where I only saw the things from the people I actually do like. Now it just vomits crap all over my feed. I just stay in page mode, do my pages for my clients and get the hell out. Hell I can usually tweet most of their updates so I don't even have to go to FB except to post videos they want embedded instead of linked.
 
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