Fellas, what was the worst AFC move yall ever did with a woman? It has all happened to us and in my case, I had this long distance relationship with a woman from NC(Im in Cali). I met her on the internet in July 2003 and she told me how much she loved me and wanted to spend the rest of her life with me. She had 2 kids from 2 men. Then we talked on the phone for hours(AFC move #1), then the second time we talked, I told her I had feelings for her(AFC move #2).. She said she had feelings for me.. From then on, every time I talked to her on the phone Id tell her "I Love You"(AFC move #3). She would say it back even though she probably didn't mean it. We talked for hours almost everyday, my cell phone bill skyrocketed and all. Then in December of 2003, I pay 500 dollars to buy a ticket to see her in NC and keep telling her how much I wanna see her.(AFC move #4). In NC, when we were makin out and havin sex(lost my virginity to her) I kept telling her how much I love and her care for (AFC move #5). In addition, I bought her a CD she always wanted and gifts for her kids(AFC move #6). In return, she gave nothing at all. Then one day, she claimed my parents called her house(they never did) and when I denied it, she cussed me out and threatened to throw me out the car and assault me. I started crying and telling her how sorry I was and all(AFC move #7). I kept doing that on and on and then we had make up sex. Then when I get back to L.A., I keep telling her how much I love her when we talk on the phone and how much I want to her to come to L.A(AFC move #8). Then when she complains bout her baby's father and his fiance, I listen to her and tell her how much I care for her and will always be there for her(AFC move # 9). In addition, i sent her a V-Day card and many gifts for her and her kids(AFC mvoe #10). This all ended in March when I had a one night stand with another woman here in L.A.
Then found a new girlfriend in May and things were goin well as I was being a challenge in that I rarely called her, let her do most of the talking, etc. Then all of a sudden recently, I start openin up, talkin for hours on the phone and as a result she gets distant and less affectionate. This time, I had pride and didnt call her once since Sat.(haven't heard from her since then). I wasn't as much of an AFC with this girl like I was with the previous. I have realized now with self improvement, the more girls I go through, the less AFC tendencies I will show due to learning of my mistakes.
Then found a new girlfriend in May and things were goin well as I was being a challenge in that I rarely called her, let her do most of the talking, etc. Then all of a sudden recently, I start openin up, talkin for hours on the phone and as a result she gets distant and less affectionate. This time, I had pride and didnt call her once since Sat.(haven't heard from her since then). I wasn't as much of an AFC with this girl like I was with the previous. I have realized now with self improvement, the more girls I go through, the less AFC tendencies I will show due to learning of my mistakes.
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