How many times did I hear old timers (my parents and up) say: ''Who cares what I liked... it wasn't what was asked of me... it wasn't my duty... I had to take care of everyone, bring food on table etc...''
People sacrificed alot of ''personal emotions'' for the goal of ''community-society-duty''
The sexual revolution of the 1960's brought new concept but people were still ''duty'' oriented
It started to crackdown in the 1970's.... with individuality etc... (an American concept btw)
In Asia, Africa, some parts of Europe... people who want to act like Individuals are hunted down and killed because they don't want to serve the ''Collective''
That's why alot of ''old timers'' and business people don't have faith in younger generations.... because every younger generation puts ''emotions and I in front of the ''group'' or missionss'' while asking accomodations