JimmieMurdoc
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Hey guys, so I frequented this site back in my high school days and definitely improved my situation with the breadth of information on here. Fast forward to the present after a 6 year LTR and having a kid with the chick. Funny because the same DJ tactics I used to hook her are the same ones that caused her to cheat on me with her 'player' ex from hs, catapulting us into a catastrophe of a break up going on over the course of the last year.
That's the background, here's the skinny. So I have been working at an office for 16 weeks now, and there are so many bad broads there, 7's and 8's galore, few 9's, and some fairly beddable 6's. The Saturday after my 3rd week there, one chick sent a friend request on facebook which I accepted, and we talked a bit. I was working my 2nd job, she was out clubbing, she told me to come out when I got off, which I did. By the time I got there the club was closing so we sat in my car talking while I employed some good kino. Lol, she ignored like 10 calls from her friends during the convo and I ended up driving her home, to which I suggested I come up for a bit. Bada bing bada boom, bedded her.
The next week I was macking on one of my 4 supervisors, she invited me out to where she would be that Friday night. I went out with some clubbing friends of mine and got far too drunk to function. Next day my baby's mama ran over my foot with her car (likely pissed at the vicious drunken text assault I had sent to her the night prior). I spent the day at the hospital and met up with friends after for sake bombs to dull the pain. Well I ended up running into miss supervisor while out and we hit it off and ended up getting into a STR that ended with her getting back with her ex when he proposed to her.
So here's the real issue. While there was another girl at my work whom I started dating after she stopped working there (and just recently nexted), there is no one at work that I talk to. Not male, not female.. I just don't socialize (I am a bit of an introvert) at work. This means no networking, no social proof for me. There are many chicks there that I'm sure are attracted to me, I just feel ****ing stupid trying to talk to anyone after having worked there for 16 weeks and not really talking to anyone.
I guess the thing I probly need help most with is just developing a social foundation. I feel like such an outsider there and am finding it difficult to begin talking to any females when they notice me (and they really do notice me, I am quite handsome, in shape and well dressed..) sitting by myself all the time. And I am almost TOO comfortable in my solitude (I've always been very solitary and self-sufficient) to break my routine which seems to get harder to break as time goes on.
Words of advice?
That's the background, here's the skinny. So I have been working at an office for 16 weeks now, and there are so many bad broads there, 7's and 8's galore, few 9's, and some fairly beddable 6's. The Saturday after my 3rd week there, one chick sent a friend request on facebook which I accepted, and we talked a bit. I was working my 2nd job, she was out clubbing, she told me to come out when I got off, which I did. By the time I got there the club was closing so we sat in my car talking while I employed some good kino. Lol, she ignored like 10 calls from her friends during the convo and I ended up driving her home, to which I suggested I come up for a bit. Bada bing bada boom, bedded her.
The next week I was macking on one of my 4 supervisors, she invited me out to where she would be that Friday night. I went out with some clubbing friends of mine and got far too drunk to function. Next day my baby's mama ran over my foot with her car (likely pissed at the vicious drunken text assault I had sent to her the night prior). I spent the day at the hospital and met up with friends after for sake bombs to dull the pain. Well I ended up running into miss supervisor while out and we hit it off and ended up getting into a STR that ended with her getting back with her ex when he proposed to her.
So here's the real issue. While there was another girl at my work whom I started dating after she stopped working there (and just recently nexted), there is no one at work that I talk to. Not male, not female.. I just don't socialize (I am a bit of an introvert) at work. This means no networking, no social proof for me. There are many chicks there that I'm sure are attracted to me, I just feel ****ing stupid trying to talk to anyone after having worked there for 16 weeks and not really talking to anyone.
I guess the thing I probly need help most with is just developing a social foundation. I feel like such an outsider there and am finding it difficult to begin talking to any females when they notice me (and they really do notice me, I am quite handsome, in shape and well dressed..) sitting by myself all the time. And I am almost TOO comfortable in my solitude (I've always been very solitary and self-sufficient) to break my routine which seems to get harder to break as time goes on.
Words of advice?