obviously your not having as much fun anymore, so why fight it only makes it worst. Honestly, if someone cares for you, they always have time for you, even if they work 80 hours a week, if they become distant, thats a problem, most likely its you, but you need to give them time to figure it out for themselves. Asking them whats wrong and wanting a straight answer on what YOU SHOULD DO is never a good idea. If she treats you bad...WALK AWAY! Your in a relationship to be HAPPY! When your no longer happy whats left? I know your trying to get to where your relationship "used to be" when you couldnt get enough of one another, but sh!t happens.