Work colleague

[Maccoursa]

Hi guys.

I need some advice.. I don't usually game work colleagues incase the Mrs finds out however there's one hb8 I'm prepared to break that rule for...

She's very flirty not just with me but with a few of the guys, she got in a relationship with one of the guys here but it didn't last long he became totally obsessed with her and anyone can see a mile off that it freaked her out..

She's very difficult to initiate kino with because she's so energetic always jumping around the room, running off to do stuff etc...

To be honest I just want a ride on it and then move on but I'm finding it difficult to move on from sexual innuendo jokes that she shares with me and everyone else. I tried being different from the other guys and ignoring her and not taking the bait but it didn't work she just kinda backed off a bit.

Any advice would be massively appreciated...

Please dont tell me to forget about it that's not the advice I'm after

Cheers from Mac

 

[Building_and_Loan]

So you're married or in a relationship, and you want to bang a co-worker?

Yeah you need some advice, but not the kind you're looking for.

 

[Maccoursa]

So you're married or in a relationship, and you want to bang a co-worker?

Yeah you need some advice, but not the kind you're looking for.

Get off your horse mate your armour is weighing it down... I came here for advice because I thought it would be the best place not to have silly afc white knights judging me

 

[Building_and_Loan]

Get off your horse mate your armour is weighing it down... I came here for advice because I thought it would be the best place not to have silly afc white knights judging me

Lol go for it then. Dig your own grave. The reason you need advice has nothing to do with any type of morality high horse, it's because you're too short-sighted and unwise to see all the potential pitfalls and land mines ahead of you if you go that route.

Of course, maybe your job doesn't mean much to you. Nor does your marriage.

But as I said, dig your own grave.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

Seems obvious you are either young or immature, or maybe both. Like B&L said, enjoy digging your own grave. You seem set on making this happen; it will most likely not turn out the way you think it will.

 

[Maccoursa]

Lol go for it then. Dig your own grave. The reason you need advice has nothing to do with any type of morality high horse, it's because you're too short-sighted and unwise to see all the potential pitfalls and land mines ahead of you if you go that route.

Of course, maybe your job doesn't mean much to you. Nor does your marriage.

But as I said, dig your own grave.

Fella I had no intentions of offending you i spoke too sharply and am sorry for that.

But wtf happened to this community.. I first came to this site when I was 15.. Nearly 15 years ago. The so sauve bible taught me to become the man I am today.. It taught me to pursue life like a warrior on a never ending journey of fun and to this day I try to live by it, to hell with risks if there's something you wanna do you have to pick up your sword like the warrior you are and chase it.

The so sauve bible didn't teach me to become concerned about my job, it didn't teach me worry, it didn't teach me that risks are a bad thing in fact quite the opposite of these things it taught me that a man who lives in fear of 'digging his own grave' never really lives at all....

 

[Maccoursa]

LOL

Fella we're having a discussion contribute please.

All the posts on here now days are pathectic 'does she like me?'

It never used to be like this.. What are you teaching these guys now days? How to write poetry and play love songs on guitar...

 

[BetterCallSaul]

But wtf happened to this community.. I first came to this site when I was 15.. Nearly 15 years ago. The so sauve bible taught me to become the man I am today.. It taught me to pursue life like a warrior on a never ending journey of fun and to this day I try to live by it, to hell with risks if there's something you wanna do you have to pick up your sword like the warrior you are and chase it.

If what you say is true, then why did you even join? Why even post this and ask the question? You should automatically know to go get what you want. So do it.

 

[Maccoursa]

If what you say is true, then why did you even join? Why even post this and ask the question? You should automatically know to go get what you want. So do it.

Was just hoping to get some advice from maybe someone who'd gamed a flirty girl at work.. Not really be in this position myself in the past...

But you've all ganged up on me to try and make me look a fool instead of helping so I guess this ain't the place it used to be, really is a shame.

Peace and harmony to you all and hope you all achieve what you hope to get out of this site

 

[Tamura]

If you grew up with the ss-bible under your pillow, what is your question?

You don't want to hear about morality and don't care playing hazard with job and relationship. That's fine, your game.

Then go ahead as per playbook. Mock her playfully, but don't stick with the crowd. Be individual. If she is in any way interested, you'll have no difficulties separating her from the group. Get her to meet offsite the job.

Be clear with your intentions, but don't push too hard. She does the rythm of the game.

Good luck! ...in any regards

 

[Maccoursa]

If you grew up with the ss-bible under your pillow, what is your question?

You don't want to hear about morality and don't care playing hazard with job and relationship. That's fine, your game.

Then go ahead as per playbook. Mock her playfully, but don't stick with the crowd. Be individual. If she is in any way interested, you'll have no difficulties separating her from the group. Get her to meet offsite the job.

Be clear with your intentions, but don't push too hard. She does the rythm of the game.

Good luck! ...in any regards

Thank you fella for the help.. My issue is cause she is so flirty all the guys kinda line up and play the old 'playfully mocking game'.. In a club environment this is easy to get around, don't act interested don't take the bait, maybe hit her with a couple negatives and soon you're centre of attention.

However in a work environment I see this girl 4/5 times a day, if I act 'off' with her I come across as a **** not up for the 'flirty' games how ever if I play along then I'm like every other chump falling for it...

Not gonna lie it's the most fun I've had in ages trying to work this one out

 

[Tictac]

Get divorced.

Then go shopping for all the p*ssy you want.

 

[Tamura]

However in a work environment I see this girl 4/5 times a day, if I act 'off' with her I come across as a **** not up for the 'flirty' games how ever if I play along then I'm like every other chump falling for it...

Not gonna lie it's the most fun I've had in ages trying to work this one out

Play it cool, no need to act azzhole though. 1 time out of 4 something funny, teasing or a wink and indifferent the rest of times (but friendly if approached). If others crowd around her be indifferent, if she seems bored offer her distraction. That's how I would play it. You know the game.

Let me tell you though I don't like your style. Spinning plates and everything is fine as long you're not committed to any woman. Clean cut off your roots before hunting again. That's not something afc or white knight, that's something straight forward. Just my humble opinion.

 

[Maccoursa]

You da man.

Real men cheat on their wives.

(sarc)



Fella I'm not here to impress you.. I don't wanna be one of the boys that you all look up too.. I came here for advice.. You have 1,333 posts on this site, get out there my friend put what you've learnt into practice maybe one day you'll find a wife too...

And tictac I would divorce her but I'm not a very good cook and can't afford take away every night lol.., (sarc)

(Not married... I'm In an open relationship the Mrs doesn't like me going with people she knows) so all you white knights armed with your pens and papers to write beautiful love letters and streams of debauched poetry, Can breathe a sigh of relief.


Ive got a plan anyway.. Will update you with my success or failure.. (That's how we used to do it... so people could learn from others experiences and we could grow as a community instead of sitting behind a computer screen writing 'witty' comments that feed our ego but don't get us laid)

 

[Maccoursa]

Play it cool, no need to act azzhole though. 1 time out of 4 something funny, teasing or a wink and indifferent the rest of times (but friendly if approached). If others crowd around her be indifferent, if she seems bored offer her distraction. That's how I would play it. You know the game.

Let me tell you though I don't like your style. Spinning plates and everything is fine as long you're not committed to any woman. Clean cut off your roots before hunting again. That's not something afc or white knight, that's something straight forward. Just my humble opinion.

Thank you my friend your advice is greatly appreciated... I'm in an open relationship.. The Mrs just doesn't like other parents to be people we know so I'm kinda border line with work girl...

I really can't believe the amount of keyboard warriors on this site nowadays..unable to give advice but quick to judge

You my friend are certainly a diamond amongst sh 1t and I thank you again

 

[Yewki]

get out there my friend put what you've learnt into practice maybe one day you'll find a wife too...

Annnnnd my respect for this poster just hit rock bottom.

 

[Maccoursa]

Annnnnd my respect for this poster just hit rock bottom.

Fella, again I'm not here for anyone's respect all I wanted was some advice and two people have been amazingly helpful unfortunately many others, yourself included have offered nothing helpful and have just been quick to post rather pointless little comments...

If that's what makes you feel good I'm glad I can be your punching bag but surely there's better ways to feed your ego than come on here and waste your time with silly useless comments

Have a good day I mean that from the bottom of my heart

 

[Yewki]

FIFY,

get out there my friend put what you've learnt into practice maybe one day you'll find a wife too... that you can cheat on with a coworker

I tell you what, if you're ever having a rough day and need a little motivation... just read that. True words of inspiration there fellas.

Don't let anyone tell you it can't be done. Believe in yourself and you too can do it

 

[Maccoursa]

FIFY,



I tell you what, if you're ever having a rough day and need a little motivation... just read that. True words of inspiration there fellas.

Don't let anyone tell you it can't be done. Believe in yourself and you too can do it

Again utter nonsense.. Not quite sure what you're trying to say.

1. I'm not married

2. This site used to be about be about becoming your best self to bang lots of chicks... Nowadays it seems like you're all trying pretend to be James Bond to and trick that one special girl into falling madly in love wth you.

If this is you morally judging me you need to ask yourself if learning pua techniques is morally right in the first place?

Anyway you've really hurt my feelings I'm gonna go cry now whilst writing love poetry.. Hope you enjoy your WoW session

 

[Tictac]

Fella, again I'm not here for anyone's respect all I wanted was some advice and two people have been amazingly helpful unfortunately many others, yourself included have offered nothing helpful and have just been quick to post rather pointless little comments...

If that's what makes you feel good I'm glad I can be your punching bag but surely there's better ways to feed your ego than come on here and waste your time with silly useless comments

Have a good day I mean that from the bottom of my heart

GI-GO