Dude,there's a
VERY good chance you're friendzoned like "Marmel75" said
6 DAYS AGO.
Look at this....
Bagofnuts said:
Alright guys,some updates, we kinda got closer, she lied on me in the cinema, adjusted my arms for herself put her feet under my thigh cause they were cold. She was hesitant at first but slowly got more and more comfortable with lying on me , my hand was on her thighs. Never did anything else tho
You said she laid on you at the cinema,that she adjusted your arms for herself,and put her feet under your thigh. Then you said you had your hand on her thigh,but never did anything else....
Da FVCK
????? I've heard of taking it slow when escalating,but
DAMN.....you talk about having your hand on her thigh as if it was some sort of progress,as if her adjusting your arms means something.
You've had 4 DATES as of a week ago,one date yesterday,and you mean to tell us that all you've managed to do
PHYSICALLY was place your hand on her thigh? After
FIVE dates? Most guys will have done gone for the lay on the 2nd or 3rd......you're just now touching her thigh after
5.
I rarely say this,but you just need to hit the "NEXT" button.
Are you new to dating? If you haven't made any sort of move after 5 dates,yet you two are still hanging out together,she's gonna
HAVE TO friendzone you. What choice does she have? She can't reject you cause you won't make a move,but she can't move forward with anything sexual cause you won't make a move either. Ok,uhh....well? There's no other choice but to friendzone you.
You haven't said or done anything sexual,so she doesn't have any other option but friends. My guess is she was probably looking to you to do something at least in the first 3 dates,but now you set a predictable,COMFORTABLE pattern of "hanging out"
LIKE FRIENDS.
She'd probably become uncomfortable now if you did make a move cause it'd seem so out of the blue
FOR YOU.
Shes still hung up on the idea of me making her carry her own milk cartons
Well hey......she might as well get some kind of value out of you being around. You being a sexual interest in now off the table,so she might as well put you to work.
She doesnt show any signs of liking me when she texts or speaks tho mainly just us annoying each other and fighting and teasing.
Wow. You two seem more like pre-teen brother and sister than a MAN and a WOMAN who are sexually interested to each other.
Ive told her i liked her on text, i know bad move,
You got that right. Don't think it really matters at this point though....you can't kill something that never had any life to being with.
If nothing had been established after 5 dates,your "I like you" text didn't matter......there wasn't anything there for the text to damage anyway.
but she seemed cool about it, said it wouldn't be awkward cus we ain't kids anymore, she also does things like tryna push me down stairs and ****
You told her you liked her,and her response was to tell you that things wouldn't become awkward between you two.
Well,that was the final nail in the coffin right there. When you told her you liked her,she
DIDN'T SAY IT BACK....just told you thing wouldn't be awkward with you two.
That's prime,grade "A" friendzone,my friend. 100% lean,with all the fat trimmed.
Funny....you mention how she said that you two weren't kids anymore,then in the
VERY NEXT SENTENCE you talk about how she likes to try to push you down the stairs.
But she seems like shes trying to play hard to get or is confused about her feelings
She probably was at one point. She went on the FIRST DATE looking for SEXUAL ATTRACTION/CHEMISTRY. There must have been something there,otherwise there wouldn't have been a second date.
Well the second date,came...you did NOTHING.
3RD date......YOU DID NOTHING.
4th date.....YET NOTHING AGAIN.
Well by now,she's probably used to the NON-SEXUAL "YOU". You say she might be confused about her feelings? Yeah,cause you asked her out for a date,which is sexual.....but you behaved like A FRIEND on those dates. What was she supposed to do,get sexual with you while you continued to BEHAVE FRIENDLY? She ain't gonna risk rejection.
You can do whatever you want here,it likely won't matter with this chick,but
YOU NEED TO LEARN how to escalate so you can avoid this fiasco in the future with other girls.
