I have been dating this girl for about six weeks. We fvcked after the second date. It has been extremely hot and heavy. We have been sleeping together about 5-6 nights per week. The sex has been amazing, we've both told each other so. Two weeks ago she told me that she has started taking the pill and I don't have to wear a condom anymore. Last weekend we spent the entire weekend basically doing it at my apartment, then taking breaks, ordering food, then doing it again.
I feel like I am getting too attached to her and it is making me nervous. We get along pretty well, but I just get this feeling that she may be losing interest slightly, and that I may have done some stuff to make her lose interest.
How can a girl who went on the pill for me and just spent 3 days at my house, screwing my brains out, be losing interest? This is a girl who texts or calls me usually multiple times throughout the day, and for the past 3 days she has not called, I've had to call her. She has also told me that she has changed her phone plan so that she can't talk on the phone until she gets her free minutes at 9 o'clock at night, so now I can't talk to her so much on the phone.
I might be imagining that something is up, I tend to get paranoid and overthink things when I like someone. I may be spending too much time with her too - I do think that 5 times a week is too much to spend together. I don't have time to take care of my responsibilities and hobbies if I spend that much time with her. The sex made it hard for me to resist, though. I may have screwed up in other ways - I gave her a gift - an iPod, after she lost hers, I gave her my old iPod so she could have some music when she jogs. I looked at it as a present for helping me set up some furniture at my house, and for going on the pill for me. This is bad - but when we were doing it, I told her I loved her. It was one of the many things that were blurted out to each other during sex (we're always saying dirty stuff to each other like 'i love your pvssy', she always says 'i love your c0ck' to me) - so she may not have noticed I said it. It just slipped out and i didn't even mean to say it, I think I meant to say something like 'i love your pvssy', but it didn't come out right. Anyway so I'm hoping she didn't hear that. Again, I'm probably being really paranoid and overthinking this.
She basically told me I can't have sex with anyone unless I tell her about it first, since we're now using having sex without a condom. It feels really serious really fast. I don't think I could date anyone else without feeling guilty about it. Anyways, should i tell her we're moving too fast? Should I tell her I don't want to be exclusive? Should I date around on her? On the one hand I feel like she may be losing interest, on the other hand I feel like if I do something to give myself some control in the situation, it may result in loss of sexual privileges, which would be a damn shame. What you think?
I feel like I am getting too attached to her and it is making me nervous. We get along pretty well, but I just get this feeling that she may be losing interest slightly, and that I may have done some stuff to make her lose interest.
How can a girl who went on the pill for me and just spent 3 days at my house, screwing my brains out, be losing interest? This is a girl who texts or calls me usually multiple times throughout the day, and for the past 3 days she has not called, I've had to call her. She has also told me that she has changed her phone plan so that she can't talk on the phone until she gets her free minutes at 9 o'clock at night, so now I can't talk to her so much on the phone.
I might be imagining that something is up, I tend to get paranoid and overthink things when I like someone. I may be spending too much time with her too - I do think that 5 times a week is too much to spend together. I don't have time to take care of my responsibilities and hobbies if I spend that much time with her. The sex made it hard for me to resist, though. I may have screwed up in other ways - I gave her a gift - an iPod, after she lost hers, I gave her my old iPod so she could have some music when she jogs. I looked at it as a present for helping me set up some furniture at my house, and for going on the pill for me. This is bad - but when we were doing it, I told her I loved her. It was one of the many things that were blurted out to each other during sex (we're always saying dirty stuff to each other like 'i love your pvssy', she always says 'i love your c0ck' to me) - so she may not have noticed I said it. It just slipped out and i didn't even mean to say it, I think I meant to say something like 'i love your pvssy', but it didn't come out right. Anyway so I'm hoping she didn't hear that. Again, I'm probably being really paranoid and overthinking this.
She basically told me I can't have sex with anyone unless I tell her about it first, since we're now using having sex without a condom. It feels really serious really fast. I don't think I could date anyone else without feeling guilty about it. Anyways, should i tell her we're moving too fast? Should I tell her I don't want to be exclusive? Should I date around on her? On the one hand I feel like she may be losing interest, on the other hand I feel like if I do something to give myself some control in the situation, it may result in loss of sexual privileges, which would be a damn shame. What you think?
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