Wonder why you keep beating yourself up when you get dissed?

l-deezy

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The reason is that you read the posts wrong.

Bet yall wondering what i mean. When i say you're reading the posts wrong you are! tell me if im wrong or not...

Whenever you holler at a honey doo melun (a hb7.5-9.5) and she has the nerve to diss, you start to get mad(right?). The reason you're mad is because when you read all the posts on how to get girls you start to think that every single girl is suposed to like you. But if you look closely and paraphrase they're trying to tell you that "these are ways you can get the girl's attention better" insted of "this is how you get all the girls" So learn that you have to take punches to be a fighter.
 

Julian

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Good advice man, its true. Not every girl is going to like you.

Nice to see some more Minnesota cats up in here.
 

italostud

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Originally posted by Julian
its true. Not every girl is going to like you.
Liar! :eek:
 

Eyecandie4ya

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That's true.

Unfortunately most cats become disturb when it don't happen RIGHT NOW than to keep applying. I believe that most guys "rush the issue". This cause them to look "desperate" and not cofident in his abilities.

For the guys who are having this trouble, speak to females in a more controlled mellow tone. This shows that you are speaking with confidence in a James Bond/ Billy Dee Williams like manner. AGAIN this do not guarantee automatic interest so don't get uptight about it. Just learn the game, play it and master it so that you win MOST of the time.

PEACE
 

MoMurda

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Originally posted by Julian
Good advice man, its true. Not every girl is going to like you.

Nice to see some more Minnesota cats up in here.
In some cases, none will like u.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Kodiac

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Not every girl is going to like you.
That's kewl with me, i'm only Interested in the straight ones anyway :D
 

drZaius09

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No, the real reason is that you have a fragile ego and unhealthy sense of self. Too many people take rejections personally. I'd rather take 50 rejections and learn ONE valuable lesson then score with 50 women and learn nothing. Unfortunately, most men don't share that attitude. They place too much emphasis on whether women accept them, and view being turned down as a reflection upon themselves. When you DON'T CARE you CAN'T LOSE. You will never be rejected again when you stop allowing women to have any influence whatsoever on how you see yourself or the world around you.
 

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Beating yourself up when you get dissed? Hell I usually respond by beating myself off, that's where I'm going wrong!!!
 
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