I didn't know how to make a subject a little more descriptive.
Why is there so many damaged women out there? A girl I was chatting up and getting to know is now suffering from a mental break down things started piling up on her she's not doing well. Her ex husband is an ass**** she's been dealing with him for years. She had stuff going on at work that is compound the problems, nobody has really heard from her, I'm assuming she's sorting out things in her life. I feel bad for her, I wouldn't get involved with her as I sensed she had baggage and bitterness from her ex.
The girl I was with a couple years ago she's a BPD, she caused a lot of drama in my life, my life is much simpler with her out of my life. She will never change, she's got daddy issues ie she hates her father, she's also on meds for her mental health issues. As much as I liked her she's not worth having in my life. The guy she's with now is a beta people pleaser she claims to love him, what ever. I seen what she did to the guy before me, I see what she's doing to her current guy.
It seems like today's women have so many issues and baggage, it makes a guy want to stay single. After going through the crap the BPD I'm not into getting involved with a woman that has any kind of baggage.
I don't like to toot my horn, but I do get a lot of women flirting with me, I make women nervous its something I just deal with. Its the married ones that flirt or get nervous around me, in a way it makes me smile and laugh in another way I think to myself your married you shouldn't be acting that way. Hell I even make a woman I know is gay, she gets all nervous around me that makes me laugh.
The town I live in my selection of women are either jail bait or women that are in their 30s-40s that have issues and baggage. In my early years I put career and learning the trades over chasing women, now that I'm 40 any woman close to my age are damaged goods. Going after 20 somethings I don't feel comfortable with that.
I don't see any value getting involved with todays women you have to put up with too much schit you are not getting much of a return on your investment.