Women

[The Asian Lover]

Women


1. Julie
November 2007 – April 2008
Fine ho
Abusive parents, abusive men
Dated 6 months. Lot of drama. She spent thousands of dollars on me, she took it up the ass, sex whenever I wanted it. I broke up with her several times, she took me back each time.
How I got her:
I was her personal trainer, she was in an abusive relationship with her husband, she is attracted to aloof, ****y jerks, she likes muscular men.
How she blew out:
I told her the truth. I told her I want to **** a lot of women and have no plans for settling down until my 40’s.

2. Laura
May 2008
Fine ho
Abusive men
1st date: Coffee, beach, kissed her, lunch at my place
2nd date: Dancing at club, more kissing, (I should have ****ed her)
3rd date: She made me dinner, then it got weird, she belonged to a cult
4th date: I told her we would go to dinner, she came over to pick me up, she wouldn’t **** so I kicked her out.
How I got her:
She’s a dental assistant at my former dentist. I noticed her choosing strong, so I stepped up.
How she blew out:
I kicked her ass out

3. ?
June 2008
Nice looking milf
1st date: coffee, she brought her man friend
How I got her:
Gym
How she blew out:
She wouldn’t go to the beach with me, I moved on

4. Karina
June 2008
Very fine ho (all the personal trainers at the gym were jocking her)
Princess, clinical psychologist
1st date: Sushi (we split it), went to beach, passionate kissing, I would have ****ed her but security kicked us out.
2nd date: Benihana (we split it), I took her to a park close to my house. We kissed. I tried to get her to my place. No dice. She wanted to be just friends.
How I got her:
I was her personal trainer, she likes muscular men
How she blew out:
Bad timing. If it wasn’t for the security guard, I would have ****ed her and she would have been emotionally invested in me.

5. ?
July 2008
Cute Asian girl
1st date: Coffee
How I got her:
She liked how I looked
How she blew out:
No chemistry.

6. ?
August 2008
Fat *****.
1st date: I went over her place, drank some wine, ****ed her.
How I got her:
Match.com, she’s into Korean guys
How she blew out:
I didn’t call her

7. Stacy
August 2008
Cute girl
1st date: coffee, drove to beach, never got there cause of traffic, kissed
2nd date: my place, lot of kissing, ordered pizza, after about 5 hours, got a *******
How I got her:
Match.com. She thought I was hot
How she blew out:
She wanted to go on a real date, I didn’t call her.

8. Cathy
September 2008
5’11 chubby ho with potential
1st date: coffee, passionate kissing in her car
2nd date: she made me dinner at her place, we ****ed, tightest ***** I ****ed
How I got her:
Fitness-singles.com, she thought I was hot
How she blew out:
I never called her

9. Stacy
September 2008
5’9 thick girl with potential to be fine
1st date: coffee, passionate kissing in the park
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I should have ****ed her at the park. Afterwards she felt like a slut and never called me back.

10. ?
September 2008
5’9 polish girl with smoking bod
1st date: coffee
How I got her:
Fitness-singles.com
How she blew out:
I touched her way too much.

11. ?
September 2008
Fine ho with epilipsy, had boyfriend
1st date: coffee
How I got her:
Gym.
How she blew out:
She wanted to work out with me. I wouldn’t do it, I like to workout alone. (Stupid me)

12. Donise
October 2008
Fine ho with some big ass tits. Man what a body.
Abusive parents, ex husband macked her
1st date: coffee, passionate kissing
2nd date: dinner (I paid), went to park near my place, kissed, went to my placed, some good sex
3rd date: dinner (she paid), more good ****ing
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I got too needy for the *****. I couldn’t wait 2 weeks.

13. ?
October 2008
Fine manic depressive ho
1st date: coffee, kissing, man I don’t think she ever kissed anyone
2nd date: movie, kissed in my car
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I was too aggressive

14. ?
October 2008
Cute girl with some big ass titties
1st date: coffee, park, passionate kissing, I tried to get her to come to my place
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I should have waited until the 2nd date for the *****

15. ?
October 2008
She would have been hot if it wasn’t for her hideous acne…
1st date: coffee, order pizza, my place, kissed, clothes off, put finger in her *****
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I never called her

16. Mary
November 2008
Trailer trash woman with good body
1st date: coffee, passionate kissing in her car
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I was impatient. We talked on the phone, she was down for sex.


17. ?
December 2008
She looked hot in her picture, not quite in person…
1st date: coffee, my place
How I got her:
Collarme.com
How she blew out:
I could have ****ed her, but I did the **** **** with her. She walked out.

18. ?
December 2008
Fine red headed ho, oh so fine
1st date: long ass coffee date, passionate kissing
2nd date: dinner (I paid), went to park near my place, more kissing, she wouldn’t go to my place
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I should have ****ed her the first date. Freak!

19. Lindsey
December 2008
Plain jane
1st date: coffee, kiss
2nd date: drinks (we split it), more kissing
3rd date: bookstore, her place, she wouldn’t give up the *****
4th date: dinner (she paid), my place, no *****
How I got her:
She works at the library I go to
How she blew out:
I gave her 4 dates because I liked her personality. **** that!

20. ?
December 2008
Cute, chubby girl
1st date: coffee, kiss
2nd: date: she wasn’t comfortable making me dinner, we went to a bookstore
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
We separated in the bookstore, I never bothered to look for her.

21. ?
December 2008
Pretty chubby girl, potential to be fine
1st date: coffee (she paid), passionate kissing
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I was an *******. She told me she doesn’t like sitting side by side, I told her she has to buy me drinks.

22. ?
January 2009
Hot latina, 40ish, little too old for me
1st date: coffee, kiss
How I got her:
Adultfriendfinder.com. lol…
How she blew out:
I never called her, I’m not going to play a cop.

23. Danielle
January 2009
Hot body, butta face
1st date: coffee, passionate kissing, dinner (I paid), went to my place, more kissing, she wasn’t ready for sex.
2nd date: I went over her place to give her a massage, ****ed her, order pizza (she paid)
3rd date: Went over her place, mo sex, dinner (I paid), slept over
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I kept on pushing for anal sex, I criticized her dirty ass condo

24. ?
January 2009
Fat *****
1st date: coffee
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
Fat ***** with a ****ty personality, need I say more?

25. ?
January 2009
Very fine pilates instructor
1st date coffee
How I got her:
How she blew out:
She failed my kiss test, told me some **** that she need to get to know a guy and hugs are ok. **** you *****!


26. Kim
January 2009
Cute girl with nice curvy body
Past boyfriends macked her
1st date: coffee, passionate kissing, dinner (I paid), my place, ****ed her, ****ed her in the ass
2nd date: my place, order pizza (she paid), ****ed her, ****ed her in the ass
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
The 2nd time I ****ed her in the ass, I didn’t lube up her ass because it smelled bad. I just lubed up my condom. Bad move, after I was done, there was blood on my condom. Stupid, stupid mistake. She would have made a really good bottom *****.

 

[The Asian Lover]

27. Alicia
February 2009
Pretty mexican girl, more of a greek look
Abusive dad, abusive relationships
1st date: coffee, kiss
How I got her:
She works as a manager at the Chipotle I eat at
How she blew out:
We had plans. She overslept, then made me wait an hour, her car was broke. I said **** that and left. She left a message apologizing. Looking back I should have drove to her house and boned her.

28. ?
February 2009
Tiny, 4’9, cute, business woman
1st date: coffee, passionate kissing
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
She canceled at the last minute, I told her I wanted her to make me dinner, no response.

29. Vanessa
March 2009
Curvy sexy body, gigantic tits, librarian look
Last boyfriend macked her
1st date: coffee, drinks (she paid), kiss
2nd date: dinner (she paid), bookstore, light kissing in her car
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I was too aggressive

30. Lauren
March 2009
Hot, hot body, butta face.
Crazy, burned down her parent’s house
1st date: Jamba Juice (she paid)
How I got her:
Gym
How she blew out:
I was an *******. She wanted to see my phone to put in a ringtone, I wouldn’t let her.

31. ?
March 2009
Huge titties, but what a nose.
Not to be racial, but she is Jewish.
1st date: coffee
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I wouldn’t buy her coffee, she was a city girl and didn’t want to date a suburban guy.

32. Kris
April 2009
Fine ass filippina, pretty face, hot petite body, ****ed up choppers
Abusive dad, abusive relationships
1st date: coffee (she paid), dinner (I paid), passionate kissing
2nd date: dinner (she paid), my place, kissing but no sex
How I got her:
Yahoo personals
How she blew out:
I just didn’t like her. ****ty personality

33. Lena
April 2009
Very fine ho
1st date: Jamba juice, sushi, no kiss
How I got her:
She approached me at the gym
How she blew out:
I should have ****ed her after Jamba juice. Freak! She put me in the chump category.

34. ?
April 2009
Warpig
1st date: Park near my place, she gave me a back massage
How I got her:
Plentyoffish.com. Yuck!
How she blew out:
I didn’t want to be seen with her in public, I just wanted a *******. She wasn’t down for it.

35. ?
May 2009
Pretty girl with nice body, tomboy
1st date: drinks (I paid), walk to park, hot and heavy kissing
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I was too aggressive. I kept on trying to get her to go to my place.

36. Lady
May 2009
Filipina, decent body, face structure… blah…
1st date: she paid for dinner, went to her place, got handjob, I blew my load
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
I didn’t like her smell, smell is very important to me, and she just didn’t smell right. Boring, weird personality, I found her unattractive.

37. Diana
May 2009
Puerto rican girl, pretty face. ***** lied about her picture, I was expecting a curvy hot body, not a giant belly...
1st date: Walked at park. Went to her place. She bought me dinner and wine.
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
She wouldn't give up the *****. I'm not going to wait for a fat *****.

38. Mickee
May 2009
Cuban girl. Hot, curvy ***** with attitude.
1st date: Met for coffee, went for walk right away, kissed right away, within 10 minutes of meeting. Went back to coffee shop to talk more, kiss more. Got hot and heavy in car, handjob, quick kiss on my ****.
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
On my team/ She sucked my ****, then deliberately left me hanging. She send me a text the next day, I ignored her, she got the message.

39. Simone
May 2009
German girl. Nice body, butta face.
1st date: Coffee, kissed within 10 minutes in coffee shop, drove to park. Got hot and heavy in car, handjob.
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
On my team/ She wanted to go out to dinner, I only wanted her as bootycall.

40. Karen
May 2009
Cute white girl. Smart, but too masculine.
1st date: coffee, went for walk, kissed.
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
She told me I was too forward

41. Lina
June 2009
Cute middle eastern girl with spectacular ass. Some ****ed up teeth though...
1st date: Met for coffee, walked at the park, lots of kissing.
How I got her:
lavalife.com
How she blew out:
On my team/ She got tired of being a bootycall

42. Beth
July 2009
Cute white girl with hot body.
1st date: Met for coffee
How I got her:
plentyoffish.com
How she blew out:
She would not kiss me, gave me her “rules”

43. Julie
August 2009
Asian girl with nice body. Some ****ed up choppers
1st date: Met for coffee. We went for a walk.
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
She wouldn't kiss, told me some **** about rules. I kicked her to the curb. I have the feeling she knew she was only a potential bootycall. Oh well she was right.

43. Erin
August 2009
Cute white girl with nice body.
1st date: Met for coffee. Good connection. She’s only dates Asian guys, and is a sugar momma. Bingo! I walked her to her car, we kissed.
How I got her:
Match.com
Current status:
Send me an email, no connection. I was too aloof.

44. Jen
August 2009
Cute white girl, giant f cup tits, chubby. I’m not into chubby, but I decided to let her try the Asian Lover special because of the huge breasts.
1st date: Met for coffee.
How I got her:
Match.com
Current status:
She told me she doesn’t kiss her on the 1st date, that I should be respectful. I told her no thank you and walked away. This skank told me she was a party girl, I know she ****ed an army of dudes, and she has the audacity to tell me that ****.

45. Erin
August 2009
Very cute white girl. Chubbier than her pictures.
1st date: Met for coffee, went for a walk. Did some kissing.
How I got her:
Match.com
Current status:
She felt like a slut after kissing. My guess was she was a big time slut in college. I was right. She spit me her contract, no sex until in an exclusive relationship and after 1 month. I wished her well and said goodbye.

46. Shimaran
August 2009
Very pretty Assyrian girl. Some middle eastern women are fine and she was one of them. Nice curvy body too.
1st Date: Met for coffee
How I got her:
Match.com
Current status:
She was 15 minutes late, no text or call, no apology. Bad vibe from the beginning. She started to get confrontational after she found out she had to drive more than me. She was really starting to piss me off, I told her this isnt working and left. One of those weird astrology fruits…

47. Emily
August 2009
Tall (5’9) cute white girl with slammin body. Tomboyish, works as an architectural engineer.
1st date: Talked outside my old high school. Good connection, nice kissing.
How I got her:
Match.com
Current status:
In the process of putting on my team.

48. Jill
August 2009
Big ass tits. Rest was blah… Only booty call material.
1st date: Met for coffee
How I got her:
Match.com
Current status:
She want me to go out with her to a restaurant, I told her I want to go to her place. She wasn’t down. I just wanted to hit it. She’s not worth going on dates.

49. Ericka
August 2009
Very nice body, ugly face, ****ty personality.
1st date: Met for coffee
How I got her:
Match.com
Current status:
I only wanted a ONS with her, she wasn’t down for it.

50. Joanna
August 2009
Nice looking white girl, tall with curves, smart.
1st date: Met for coffee
How I got her:
Match.com
Current status:
She wouldn’t open up at all. I think she found out about my blog. *****es are googling my name…

51. Aparo
August 2009
Cute mexican girl, very short with nice body.
How I got her:
Match.com
Current status:
Stone cold *****. I walked out after 10 minutes.

52. Lori
September 2009
Cute italian looking girl with spectacular ass. Good potential for main girl: feminine, submissive, traditional woman.
How I got her:
Match.com
Current status:
In the process of putting on my team.

53. Dana
September 2009
Eastern European girl with great body. On the weird side.
How I got her:
Match.com
Current status:
She wouldn’t even hold my hand. She was sizing up my income. This is the downfall of selling your potential, you attract a lot of hos.

54. Lindsay
September 2009
Great rack, too pale and freckly for me. Feminist… Bleh
How I got her:
Match.com
Current status:
She was really into me, but her being a feminist was a big turnoff for me. After coffee, we went to the park and kissed for a while. She wasn’t down for being a bootycall.

 

[Werman]

What exactly are we supposed to be getting from this post?

I'm not trying to be an ass, I'm really curious... if it's a field report, I think I would benefit from seeing fewer examples and more detail.

 

[Warrior74]

What exactly are we supposed to be getting from this post?

I'm not trying to be an ass, I'm really curious... if it's a field report, I think I would benefit from seeing fewer examples and more detail.

The man is putting in work. Have you put in this much work in the game? If you haven't you really can't cry about your results. Look at how none of his failures deter him from continuing. Brushes them off and keeps on going. Also he chronicles his mistakes so he can learn from them. That's a great advantage, knowing what you did wrong and why. That's what I get from it.

 

[Werman]

That's a great advantage, knowing what you did wrong and why.

I'm not so sure...

For one, I don't really see a whole lot of "mistakes" the OP does a great job of dismissing the ones that are low quality and moving on to the next one.

The only mistakes I see recorded seem to follow the pattern of "Too aggressive" and "Didn't fvck her soon enough."

How are you really supposed to know? I get that the more experienced you get in the game you will start to be able to read the signals like a book. It seems like after dating 50+ girls in an 18 month or so period, the OP is pretty experienced, so I'm going to assume that he knows all about female's signals. I gotta believe that sometimes, even for the experienced DJ, those signals can be pretty ambiguous.

When it's all said and done, shouldn't a DJ just do whatever the hell he wants with a woman, and if she isn't on board with it, then he can easily go get one who is?

 

[The Asian Lover]

What exactly are we supposed to be getting from this post?

I'm not trying to be an ass, I'm really curious... if it's a field report, I think I would benefit from seeing fewer examples and more detail.

I put this primarily for myself. A reminder for myself to grow and persist in the game.

Also, I see a lot of posts from guys whining about THIS ONE GIRL. No excuse for that, there are lots of women out there...

I started off as a loser that was a 27 year old virgin. (I don't count hookers)


Look at me now.

 

[The Asian Lover]

The man is putting in work. Have you put in this much work in the game? If you haven't you really can't cry about your results. Look at how none of his failures deter him from continuing. Brushes them off and keeps on going. Also he chronicles his mistakes so he can learn from them. That's a great advantage, knowing what you did wrong and why. That's what I get from it.

Thanks for the support Warrior!

 

[Desdinova]

Gotta love the women who's names you don't know. The ones I've been with didn't even give a 5hit if I knew their real name, as long as they got some action from me.

Nice list, and it made me laugh a few times. There's a lot of fvcked-up women out there. My only suggestion is with the women you actually do like, resist ditching them because they don't give up the booty right away. I prefer to do things the opposite way: make them squirm for the booty by not giving it to them right when they want it. If I make them wait, they explode when the time comes

Trust me, it's really worth it to turn the tables and make them wait.

 

[The Asian Lover]

Gotta love the women who's names you don't know. The ones I've been with didn't even give a 5hit if I knew their real name, as long as they got some action from me.

Nice list, and it made me laugh a few times. There's a lot of fvcked-up women out there. My only suggestion is with the women you actually do like, resist ditching them because they don't give up the booty right away. I prefer to do things the opposite way: make them squirm for the booty by not giving it to them right when they want it. If I make them wait, they explode when the time comes

Trust me, it's really worth it to turn the tables and make them wait.

Good advice Desdinova! How long do you usually make them wait?

 

[steve38]

20. ?
December 2008
Cute, chubby girl
1st date: coffee, kiss
2nd: date: she wasn’t comfortable making me dinner, we went to a bookstore
How I got her:
Match.com
How she blew out:
We separated in the bookstore, I never bothered to look for her.



This made me laugh...thanks.

 

[Desdinova]

Good advice Desdinova! How long do you usually make them wait?

A couple of dates with no sex gives a good buildup. You'll get a good feel for when she's squirmed long enough. She'll cvm like a thunderstorm, so have a towel or rubber sheet ready.

 

[guru1000]

This gentlemen is how it's done.

You must sieve through the numbers to find a worthwhile compatible candidate.

 

[Perseus]

I put this primarily for myself. A reminder for myself to grow and persist in the game.

Also, I see a lot of posts from guys whining about THIS ONE GIRL. No excuse for that, there are lots of women out there...

I started off as a loser that was a 27 year old virgin. (I don't count hookers)


Look at me now.

I don't want to discourage you or sound like a hater, but you're getting most your dates off Match.com and other internet sites. That's kinda lame.

 

[The Asian Lover]

I don't want to discourage you or sound like a hater, but you're getting most your dates off Match.com and other internet sites. That's kinda lame.

No worries, I'm used to haters.

You are one of those goober nerds that think women from online dating sites are imaginary. Keep on thinking that, less competition for me.

 

[Perseus]

No worries, I'm used to haters.

You are one of those goober nerds that think women from online dating sites are imaginary. Keep on thinking that, less competition for me.

:crazy: yeah dude, i'm a "goober" nerd

Do what you want, I just think it's kinda lame.

 

[squirrels]

You actually COUNT women you haven't at least rounded 2nd base with??

 

[jophil28]

I am really impressed with the OP's memory. Some of those women were extremely forgettable and others did not stay around long enough to leave an impression to remember.
Then again, perhaps you are skilled at record keeping.

All in all ,an admirable exercise in persistence and endurance,at the least.

 

[The Asian Lover]

I like your attitude you' re kinda unstopable and seem to have the "i don't give a fvck " mindset

but after finishing reading that it "depressed" me, I don't know why ...

anyway when you say a girl has a potential , what do you mean ?

did you have a relationship that lasted more than 3 days ?

Yeah the first one was a serious relationship.

Potential as in more than a booty call. I am in an odd predicament. I want kids, but I only desire women as booty calls. The rare ones I find with potential, well I find out later that it's just a carefully crafted mask. I've become good at smelling bullsh*t from women.

 

[Fuglydude]

I gotta say I'm impressed with your ability to remember all the chics you've dated! Did you have a log book or something?! Still gotta give you props for your tenacity... especially after being a virgin til you were 27!

I've checked out your blogs and like how you're a proponent of using physical fitness and resistance training to enhance many aspects of life. It kills me how many guys post dumb questions on here and how many more posts are on forums OTHER than the fitness/lifestyle one.

I'm like you in that I want sexual variety, but also have other things I want in life. I'm in a committed relationship and strongly applaud your decision to just phuck chics that aren't worth your time!

Keep it up!

 

[rocco]

I hope you do not work for match.com advertising department.