pyros said:
this is so true, and so sad and dissapointing at the same time...:
http://www.rooshv.com/women-who-own-iphones-lose-the-ability-to-love
They become less warm, more selfish, have attitudes, are spoiled and bratty, never fully satisfied, go from cok to cok to cok...
and as Rooshy says in the article: why should a woman have to put any effort into getting a man when she really doesn't have to? when if she points with her finger, five desperate men appear ready to do whatever she wishes?
It is scary. The more options women have, the less options men have and thus the more desperate and afc we become.
One of my friends takes full advantage of this. You could say he is an 8 or even an 8.5 on the looks spectrum, he's 6ft, with a sort of natural tan. Chicks eat that sh*t up. Anyway he is very much reliant on meeting chicks on... Twitter. Yes,
Twitter. A social media site; most of his lays have been off of Twitter. The youngest he's banged off of Twitter is 15. Could you imagine your 15 year old daughter getting banged by some 19 year old that she met off of Twitter? What was his secret? Be friends with everyone and talk/"tweet" the ones that follow you basically. Then when you actually meet, the level of game is very little considering he is already model status.
I tried doing what he did but I just can't. I remember I used to be really involved on Facebook and some of Instagram but ever since I joined this site and have improved myself I just can't do things like that. It bores me and sort of feels unnatural. I mean, I know I'm around a 6-7 on the attraction scale but the thing is, I feel like I'm being simply out gunned by other guy's looks. I know looks matter, but I've never felt like it mattered
THAT much. And this feeling only occurs every time I tried bringing myself to the internet. When I walk around in public, I feel like the rating I've discovered about myself. On top of that, I can back it up with my game which is awesome. The second I go online, I feel like I get dropped by 2-3 points. And the thing is I can't really do anything to get those points back, no amount of game I can SAY over the internet is going to turn a girl on. I mean I could always edit my photos but that just isn't me. That's just ridiculous. Plus every girl who is in the same boat, looks wise, as me it seems they think they're 8,9, or even 10's. So that really messes up my criteria of women. The thing is, If I were higher in the looks spectrum I know this type of stuff would get to my head and my level of game would either get worse or simply not improve. I really like where I'm at in terms of looks because I'm not super ugly or super attractive, I need
BOTH game and looking good to play the game. Which is how I personally like it, I don't like it when an outside force does the job for me and I certainly don't like it when other people get things they hardly worked for- but that's just life in general.
I've seen a few girls in real life that I've seen off of Twitter or Facebook and they don't look anything in parallel to the amount of "likes" or "favorites" they get. But, they sure do act like it. I mean they're basically average if not under. I know a girl whom gets around 500 likes on Instragram and she's nothing more than a 5 at BEST. And one thing that I've noticed while I was on the AFC infested site of
City-Data, was that
EVERY person there met people through the internet. Is that saying low quality people generally resort to screen hiding to find people? Not sure but it is likely. I've tried adapting to this change in society, since the older crowd has been saying it hasn't always been like this,
but I just can't. I can't really complain either because the stuff I do in real life still works for me, just the second a screen is involved I just begin to crash. If you use the internet for getting laid, then more power to you. But if you're using it to find a relationship, even though you shouldn't even be looking for that at first, then you're an idiot. I can't even imagine an AFC drowning himself into something like this. It's clearly a playground for women that you cannot win because there is ALWAYS someone waiting in line regardless if they look or act better than you. Having options is a very strong trick, that's why spinning plates is so important. Women do it inadvertently when they sign up for this social media. It's like the old salesmen approach, simply bringing up something to someone will encourage them to buy it. And then when other people take an interest... The value just sky rockets.
Hell, I sometimes watch live-streams on Twitch and every time a female streamer comes out that is remotely attractive she jumps to 100+ viewers within inconsistent days of streaming. Now for a guy that streams everyday, that takes him months or even years. I know a guy who has been around for 3 years and streams EVERYDAY yet he gets little viewers. That man puts so much work into his stream and then when a girl with a sh*tty stream and a facecame the size of 1/4 the screen comes up she's instantly popular. That's bullsh*t. It's the same with YouTube as well. There is so many underlying factors to this like men behaving like women, feminism, social media being a c*ck carousal, gay t.v/movies that portray a man acting like a women, these sappy "love" songs, lack of generally knowledge regarding relationships, and Disney.
I kind of went on a rant, but that's just how I see it. As long as women simply go outside and expose themselves to the public then I can work my magic. But if this screen hiding continues I don't think I'll be able to do much before I have to give in and do some myself. And even then, I would be fighting myself every step- I just know it. And if you think "Love" is even real then I think you should stay on those social media/dating sites; they're literally the attitude perfect for you; a woman's.
