zekko
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I've been fortunate enough to observe a few new relationships that have popped up around me lately - a few new couples that have got together.
For all the talk around here about how men desire women more than women desire men, what I'm seeing is interesting.
These women are absolutely giddy. They are so proud of their men, they want everyone to know they have them, they seem to think they are so irresistable all other women will desire them, they talk up their strong points, and they are totally starry eyed. Meanwhile, while I'm sure the guys are happy with their girls, you barely hear a peep out of them.
I suppose this is partly because women focus on emotion, and they are riding high on the rush of new love, and playing it to the hilt. Once that emotion fades, odds are that the women will tire of the guy and be the one to end it by dumping him.
But it's interesting to see how a woman who has a crush or whatever on a guy gets so completely involved and carried away by it, at least in the early days. The guy can do no wrong, he is an absolute hero in her eyes.
For all the talk around here about how men desire women more than women desire men, what I'm seeing is interesting.
These women are absolutely giddy. They are so proud of their men, they want everyone to know they have them, they seem to think they are so irresistable all other women will desire them, they talk up their strong points, and they are totally starry eyed. Meanwhile, while I'm sure the guys are happy with their girls, you barely hear a peep out of them.
I suppose this is partly because women focus on emotion, and they are riding high on the rush of new love, and playing it to the hilt. Once that emotion fades, odds are that the women will tire of the guy and be the one to end it by dumping him.
But it's interesting to see how a woman who has a crush or whatever on a guy gets so completely involved and carried away by it, at least in the early days. The guy can do no wrong, he is an absolute hero in her eyes.