I meet women everyday, who tell me (real name), "I don't need a man to support me of my children."
Greece2000 - Yes I've heard cases like your brother, where some guy has to pay for the well being for somebody elses good time. I hate hearing stories like that because now the judicial system feels it's so much more better to dump the kids into the lap of some financially stable male than to threaten another deadbeat dad. Where's the justice in that??
d9930380 - I don't know. I'm a black male. I can honestly say your comments are still to general. But let's not forget the woman this guy is uckingfay on the side is someone elses chick possibly. Then people aren't necessarily cheating. I agree though, there are a bunch dudes out here creating kids but the fukas aren't taking care of them. The last time I checked a deadbeat dad knows NO RACIAL boundaries when it comes to having illegitimate children out of wedlock. To some atleast. So No. I'm a single man. I'm a single BLACK man and I see the problems going on out here with my race. Having all these kids only feeds the system what it wants. Ruining lives thru bad choices. It weeds out social misfits supposedly. My advice is don't make anything YOU can't take care of. Ladies, if a dude has three kids from two or three different women. STOP, think for a moment. You are a stupid ***** if you messing with a clown who is going no where. Simple as that.
logicallefty - I too like you am feeling the sting. You can't front on a woman with a child because she has a child by a loser. It takes two. If she was divorced than having the child out of wedlock would that make a difference?? Well, from I read I think the circumstances differ. If I knew a girl I fell in love with during college has some kids now. That's great!! But if she tried to get back with me on a serious level, picking up where we left off. Sorry. I had feelings for her then, but NOW nope. She bore two kids by this dude and now she wants a "Nice Guy". HA. This right here is a clear case of me hearing how women can think you're dumb and naieve after turning her back a guy's potential and then running to be the first chic on her knees in front of him. Total poetic justice. Too them I'll say NO.(.hah hah get it SAYNO. Sup SAYNO? Missing your good posts, homes ). But maybe to someone else I MIGHT say yes. And it only gets rougher the older I get, unless I decide to go outside my race. WHICH I DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM DOING...
Peace.