So I went to the mall today. I was going to try to approach girls and get numbers, but pvssied out. Oh well, I'll try next time, and keep focusing on self-improvement. I'll start keeping a journal once I get the ball rolling and keep you guys posted.
On another note, I ended up at Chapter's, flipping through the pages of various books in the Psychology section, when I overheard a conversation by a couple of women. They were probably in their mid-to-late twenties, and one pointed out the book "Dating for Dummies." They both laughed at the idea, thinking it was ridiculous. Like, I mean, how could anybody need a BOOK to learn something that's so common?.
Ironically, two or three weeks ago, I overheard another conversation at the same bookstore, except it was with a guy and a girl in their mid-to-late twenties. They may have been dating, or the guy may have been an orbiter... I don't really know. Anyway, they pointed out the book "Flirting for Dummies" and also had a good chuckle at that, scoffing at the idea.
I think most people don't know that there are actually a lot of guys out there who could use books like these, myself included. I don't think there's anything to be ashamed about buying one of these types of book. The DJ Bible and Book Of Pook changed my life, and I would recommend these books to every man who has even a tiny bit of difficulty with women. Everything from body language and kino escalation to tone of voice and topics of conversation don't come naturally to not just some, but I would say most people.
But why does most of society ridicule this type of self-help? Many men were stripped of their masculinity growing up, through both feminist-driven media and mothers telling us to be "nice to girls", so it's only natural that we'd like to pick up a skill were never taught. Not everybody can date successfully.
If that were the case, nobody would be single, right? Besides, the fact that the bookstore even sells these books in the first place stands as a testament to that.
With all of this being said is "pick-up artistry" (not exactly DJism, but related) frowned upon by most women, and society at large, for that matter?
On another note, I ended up at Chapter's, flipping through the pages of various books in the Psychology section, when I overheard a conversation by a couple of women. They were probably in their mid-to-late twenties, and one pointed out the book "Dating for Dummies." They both laughed at the idea, thinking it was ridiculous. Like, I mean, how could anybody need a BOOK to learn something that's so common?.
Ironically, two or three weeks ago, I overheard another conversation at the same bookstore, except it was with a guy and a girl in their mid-to-late twenties. They may have been dating, or the guy may have been an orbiter... I don't really know. Anyway, they pointed out the book "Flirting for Dummies" and also had a good chuckle at that, scoffing at the idea.
I think most people don't know that there are actually a lot of guys out there who could use books like these, myself included. I don't think there's anything to be ashamed about buying one of these types of book. The DJ Bible and Book Of Pook changed my life, and I would recommend these books to every man who has even a tiny bit of difficulty with women. Everything from body language and kino escalation to tone of voice and topics of conversation don't come naturally to not just some, but I would say most people.
But why does most of society ridicule this type of self-help? Many men were stripped of their masculinity growing up, through both feminist-driven media and mothers telling us to be "nice to girls", so it's only natural that we'd like to pick up a skill were never taught. Not everybody can date successfully.
If that were the case, nobody would be single, right? Besides, the fact that the bookstore even sells these books in the first place stands as a testament to that.
With all of this being said is "pick-up artistry" (not exactly DJism, but related) frowned upon by most women, and society at large, for that matter?
